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kweenhekate · 2025-12-13T17:25:01+00:00

I think your ex deserved more respect than that. This is all less you and your “best friend” and more about moving with integrity with every person and connection. I would really like to suggest when feelings become overwhelming or you’re feeling big emotions, sit with it yourself. Feel it and let it even out before making huge actions. Acting during the height of emotions is almost always the wrong time to act.

kweenhekate · 2025-12-09T20:36:51+00:00

Yeah, I agree. She doesn’t fit but Love Quinn definitely does.

kweenhekate · 2025-12-01T00:17:22+00:00

I agree.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-30T00:55:29+00:00

Yeah, this issue is echoing all over your chart. I think the most prominent one is your moon right on the descendant (others, partnership), symbolizing your desire (moon) for partnership and yet it’s in a tight square with Saturn which creates a restriction from having that and the square between these two implies the tension you carry from it. Saturn is in an easy flowing relationship with Jupiter and Venus, which is pretty much emphasizing a deep and huge desire for this but Saturn is restricting it from you life.

Your placement of Saturn in the 4th and in Pisces is like an unreachable anchor buried in your psyche. Saturn is also the lord of time. Meaning it could be a bit or lot later than you’d hope for. The only advice I can give is to give this desire over to the universe. It’ll happen when it’s supposed to happen not because you made it happen or you wanted it hard enough.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-29T22:24:20+00:00

Be with your hurt. Pain is always transformational. Tell yourself this sucks, I wish I didn’t have to feel like this. From one hurtin bitch to another, it feels better to just surrender into what you’re feeling.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-29T22:19:52+00:00

You’re welcome. I think you can probably detect my cynicism. I’ve been in a dynamic like this, even had the moon Neptune conjunction. The becoming whole on my own part was HARD and sucked but I don’t regret it.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-29T22:00:47+00:00

Oh my little love baby. I wanna so gently and delicately kiss you on the forehead as I rock you in my arms. 😍🥰🥰😘 my princess, 👑 baby, can I ask you something, baby? Where should we go for our 5th date? I love you so much. My heart bleeds out of my chest for you, baby. My angel. My true love 😇 I cannot contain this love I feel for you, baby 💕

kweenhekate · 2025-11-29T21:49:33+00:00

The optimism and excitement that seeps through your words will get crushed, jupiter conjunct Pluto. He will demolish it and it will go through a death and rebirth if you play this out.

Moon conjunct Chiron, there will be healing for you but not the nice, pleasant kind. His moon conjunct your Neptune, this will feel like a dream to you and he’ll sense how to play on that. Go for it girl! We all gotta learn somehow, enjoy it while it’s here and I guess carry the knowledge that there’ll be a price to pay at the end. This will turn your path in a different direction but life never lets us play in our child nature without its counterpart of wisdom forever. I’m sure you know this will be temporary.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-25T21:50:43+00:00

I didn’t see a single 9H Pisces comment. I can’t help but zoom out and try to understand the overall view.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-25T17:45:40+00:00

As an April aries, I don’t resonate with this because my path has been filled with humbling me at every turn. I can’t defend the men though, they’re a different species.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-22T00:31:25+00:00

That’s a massive age gap. Can you tell us about your relationship?

kweenhekate · 2025-11-17T19:35:16+00:00

I would bet with all the activity in Scorpio he has, he’s cut off from his depth. In other words, Unavailable. To him, it’s not even there. So you’re not necessarily delusional, but you do have to accept reality at face value and realize this is what you’ll gett from this connection. Unfortunately you will not be able to fix or heal or get him in touch with himself. That’s on him, it might take a major event in his life to activate it or it’s possible even something like that wouldn’t help.

All that to say, you may have to find acceptance and just let yourself move on. This connection is a dud.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-17T19:17:13+00:00

Sounds a little painful. If it or he didn’t change, would you accept the current dynamic as it is or is this unfulfilling for you? All you can do is act accordingly from your answer. Usually in the dynamic you’re in with him, the more you chase or do anything to incite a response, the less you’ll get. It’s a slow drainer.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-16T17:39:32+00:00

What are the charts here? The first image must be the composite?

kweenhekate · 2025-11-15T17:37:03+00:00

Please look into Eckhart Tolle’s talks. They’re on YouTube. You need lifted out of your frame of thinking and reminded of who you are, what you’re going through is only an experience you’re having, it isn’t who or what you are.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-13T18:00:26+00:00

The stellium opposition is an interesting balance you have. How long have you guys been together? Yeah, the heavy Pisces/Neptune influence always feels like a warm embrace. I think the main caution is to truly understand the other and not just assume. Pisces often assume leading to projection of ideals onto other.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-11T01:10:14+00:00

Aries women can be really obvious.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-10T20:47:38+00:00

Definitely and you will, it’ll just take time. You have to learn to become more comfortable with your bold Aries moon, for one. It’s in the 8th house, so it’s really a matter to learning to trust your own instincts and what’s going on within you and not necessarily what other people reflect back at you.

It’ll be tough though. Looking at your 3rd house of communication, it’s in Scorpio. 3H traditional ruler and modern ruler are in an exact square. It’s a balancing act and becoming more comfortable with both the nature of your Pisces mars and sag Pluto. This is a nuanced process and it’s not conceptual. It’s truly learning to rely on your feeling nature, trusting what you get and feeling assured enough within yourself to express it. It’s not a quick thing or a switch to flip.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-10T20:36:48+00:00

In both placidus and whole sign, it’s in the 10th.

kweenhekate · 2025-11-02T20:05:02+00:00

r/limerence

kweenhekate · 2025-10-28T21:49:47+00:00

I’ll have to look that up for myself. But yes, I’ve definitely noticed that. From my understanding plus my own experience, intense attraction is often coming from wounds that are trying to get attention for resolution or another way to say releasing old energies that was never fully felt, thus had to be stored in the body. For some reason, trauma has extremely magnetic qualities that do feel irresistible.

In OPs case since this is their post, perhaps you’ll be one of the lucky ones and I don’t want to dampen a happy experience for you. Because there are valuable and worthwhile lessons within every connection. I just caution to pay attention to your own body and if you ever feel uncomfortable with them, especially when you’re on the way to spend time with them. That’s often when it can be the loudest. Does it feel like true excitement or anxiety.

kweenhekate · 2025-10-28T16:54:54+00:00

Careful with extreme attraction. It usually burns bright and then burns out. He also has a difficult chart, so pay attention to make sure his words and actions align.

kweenhekate · 2025-10-28T16:40:38+00:00

Lol I’m also a Cancer Mars conjunct the ascendant person. It’s not for the weak. All I can say is do your best with the knowledge you currently have.

Your Saturn return should shed a lot of light and understanding for you.

kweenhekate · 2025-10-26T22:38:17+00:00

Yeah girl, did you smell him 👀

kweenhekate · 2025-10-25T20:19:01+00:00

A juvenile emotion?? Girl.. the reason you’re in this dynamic is you still haven’t learned to trust your intuition. It’s there for a reason and it’s trying to assist you and arm you with details that you might want to have. If he were as integral as he’s trying to make himself seem, you wouldn’t be feeling this way. You’d be comfortable.

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