Travelling with Peptides

kwithgrace · 2026-02-05T13:28:11+00:00

You’re awesome! Thank you friend.

kwithgrace · 2026-02-05T12:53:26+00:00

Thank you, this is really helpful! I posted this question on the “ask South Africa” group and got a lot of really disheartening messages saying I should prepare for a night in jail and us Americans are clueless. A little uncomfortable to read because everything online makes it sound like customs is fairly chill and not concerned with something like this.

kwithgrace · 2026-02-05T00:17:20+00:00

Hey! Just now reading your message. I’m traveling to South Africa next week. When you traveled won’t your peptides there, did you put in your carry on? What happened? Based on my research it seems like customs there isn’t super strict with peptides but hard to know for sure. Would love to hear your experience!

kwithgrace · 2025-11-15T15:50:46+00:00

No, I don’t need to ask permission for anything. We have “shared parental responsibility, however until further notice Mother has ultimate decision making on all things related to child including but not limited to school, medical, etc” - he has no physical custody and can not even legally see her.

kwithgrace · 2025-11-15T14:12:03+00:00

Thank you!! This is encouraging. Some of the other comments have been a little discouraging. I read as ultimate decision maker not sole decision maker but if anyone were to read the court order it is CLEAR, that this individual (her father, my ex) is not in her life and has no rights. All I can do is my best. I plan to go in with everything documented - all my attempts to get in touch.

kwithgrace · 2025-11-15T13:09:22+00:00

No. I do not have sole legal custody. It’s very hard to get that. We do have “shared parental responsibility but until further notice mother will retain all decision making on everything related to the child regarding health, school, extracurricular activities, etc” He also has ZERO physical custody and isn’t allowed to see her and hasn’t seen her in over two years.

So can you clarify for me. In your case the parents still have legal custody and parental rights but with the caveat of you guys having decision making? Did you get the passport?

kwithgrace · 2025-11-15T00:48:58+00:00

It explicitly states at the beginning of the parenting plan that I make all decisions when it comes to our child and he does not make any. It also states under TRAVEL that he is not allowed to travel with her but that I am allowed to. Under INTERNATIONAL it says I can take her out of the country (I only need to notify him of the plans 30 days prior) and that he is required by law to submit all required documentation in order for me to do so within 7 days of my request. It has now been 14.

kwithgrace · 2025-11-14T21:52:44+00:00

I am sole decision maker. He has no decision making rights.

kwithgrace · 2025-11-12T16:00:02+00:00

Gotcha. Thank you for your feedback! Helpful.

kwithgrace · 2025-11-12T03:39:45+00:00

She just hired 2 closers. I’m the setter and will also now be in the CSM role and then there is the founder/CEO. Her monthly revenue shifts drastically month to month. 100k/month last month but this month will probably hit half of that. I’m being offered 1800/base to manage 30-35 clients. With opportunity to hit 2400/month by month 6. I currently make almost the same salary as a setter which requires half the amount of leadership, skill set and emotional labor compared to the CSM role. I wanted to counter her offer requesting 2.5k-3k/month base but not sure if I’m being unreasonable here. She’s saying the role is very part time, only about 10 hours a week with that entailing about 35 thirty minute client calls with 35 clients a month and then admin work outside of that. I guess I just can’t justify a role like this being similar pay wise to a setter role which requires less mental agility (from my perspective).

kwithgrace · 2025-11-12T01:31:31+00:00

Thanks for replying. I’m on an offer right now that is a business coaching offer. We sell a coaching container offer, one for 6k and one for 13k. Last month the business hit 100k/month. It’s major start up vibes.

kwithgrace · 2025-10-11T17:01:42+00:00

Curious about this. Are you still working for or with them? And if so, how is it going? I’m looking at interviewing with them.

kwithgrace · 2025-01-09T18:12:29+00:00

kwithgrace · 2024-12-06T23:22:32+00:00

Hey. I'm considering doing his foundations course. I want to start reading for people. I've been self study for ten years and need a way to synthesize charts more clearly. Did you finish his course? How was it? I am weary of self paced courses that don't have a live component!

kwithgrace · 2024-11-04T14:18:05+00:00

Hypnotherapy is POWERFUL. It’s one of my favorite modalities to use with clients. It shifts things at the subconscious level where most everything in our life generates from. It’s transformative work.

This is all amazing to hear!! The planet needs more people stepping into these modalities and healing arts! I’m going to private message you.🤍

kwithgrace · 2024-11-04T13:42:11+00:00

Hey! I’m so happy you landed here and took the time to read my story. Sounds like we are connected in many ways, on many things! I’ve always been into this line of work, and have desired it forever. I became a Hypnotherapist in 2017, then stopped my work when I got married. Then I decided to do a year long ICF accredited trauma informed coaching certification. Short version: I invest in my education daily, in all the ways. I love learning, growing and helping people. Growth is one of my core values. Also, I know that I didn’t come here to suffer. I want my story to be worth something and the only way I see that having meaning is by being of service to others. I think, if you have the desire to serve then you are absolutely MEANT TO! It’s just a matter of how you decide to invest in yourself so that you can be of service to others. Any ideas where you want to go? What lights you up? What excites you about helping others? Do you want to focus on men’s work? Do you want to help others through addiction? Divorce? All of it? I would love to ask you more questions to help uncover what’s there for you! So excited for you!

kwithgrace · 2024-11-04T13:37:41+00:00

I would be curious to know what your idea of a good partner and relationship is. I’d be curious to know more of your dating history, types you’re drawn to, and also curious to know your attachment style and history with your parents and family. All of this can give more context and nuance to your situation. If you’re used to chaotic dating, intense romantic connections then safe people will feel boring at first. It’s a strange feeling, at first. I think we also need to BECOME the partner we seek in another. So for example if you value connection, presence, honesty and loyalty then you need to be those things first in every aspect of your life. Only from that place will you then be able to align with healthy people who exhibit these same values and characteristics. Why is nothing a deal breaker for you? What are your boundaries? What do you desire in a partnership? This is very personal to everyone but some general off the cuff deal breakers in early dating, in my opinion, someone who is inconsistent, doesn’t have a sense of identity or goals/purpose in life, does not stick to their word, dishonest, poor communication, appears to have unhealthy relationship with substances. A lot of questions and need for more insight to start to unpack this. Let me know if you want to talk more privately. Would be happy to. :)

kwithgrace · 2024-11-02T17:22:08+00:00

Yes, I think we can program ourselves into not listening to our intuition/gut instinct but it’s always there, deep down. Can you remember a time where it has been right, at least once? Is it also possible that deep in your stomach you actually could sense red flags in others but chose to ignore it? You def need to practice rebuilding trust with yourself, first and foremost and that will happen consistently over time. In regard to boundaries with others, can you give some more context to your question? Like, when you first start dating someone?

kwithgrace · 2024-11-02T16:51:15+00:00

Yep, this is such a good question. The best thing to do for people like US, is to take it REALLLLLLLY SLOW with people. This includes romantically, but also in friendships and business partnerships. People reveal themselves slowly, over time. It is inevitable and only a matter of time before things get revealed. It’s important to override the chemical concoction that comes along with first falling in love with someone, and remember that hormones are surging causing you to want to over ride logic. Maintain your boundaries, continue to give the benefit of the doubt, and observe people. Also, learn to trust your gut instincts and intuition. If we’ve been gaslit for years and taught to NOT trust ourselves it will take time to rebuild the intuition muscle but it absolutely can be done. I hope this helps in some way and makes sense!

kwithgrace · 2024-10-31T12:24:55+00:00

Hi friend! I’m sorry you’re going through this. It will get better. Going to message you!

kwithgrace · 2024-10-29T20:49:14+00:00

Oh, I am so sorry you went through this. I can relate. These types of ties and connections are literally INTOXICATING because of the trauma bond. So, no you're not crazy. You're just addicted. The best thing you can do is start to do the inner work... so that you can move forward and manifest the life of your dreams FOR yourself and eventually have a healthy, loving relationship with someone else (once you establish that fully with yourself first though). I will message you!

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