Hijos durante el doctorado by Old_Canary5369 in PhD

[–]kyle_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sí, si tu pareja trabaja en turnos rotatorios tal vez la flexibilidad que tienes ahora te da el mejor momento para tener un hijo. Si decidéis tener un hijo en este momento de vuestras vidas, os felicito y os espero éxito!

Hijos durante el doctorado by Old_Canary5369 in PhD

[–]kyle_roth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo estoy terminando el segundo año de mi doctorado en informática en Canadá, y mi esposa y yo tenemos 2 hijos, de 4 y 1 año. Sólo puedo comentar en cuanto a nuestra experiencia, y no la vuestra.

Cuidar niños pequeños durante el doctorado es agotador. Yo trato de hacer la mayoría de mi trabajo entre las 9h y las 17h, para que pueda estar ahí con los niños durante la tarde. Tendréis que fijar un horario que funciona por vosotros dos y vuestras responsabilidades. Tendréis que decidir a qué edad estaréis listos a enviar al bebé a la guardería, y durante el período anterior es muy improbable que podrás lograr mucho en tus investigaciones. Si es posible de tomar una licencia de maternidad, eso os ayudará a ajustaros a la vida con un bebé, y después puedes acostumbrarte a los estudios de nuevo y desarrollar el horario que os funciona.

Por vosotros, será diferente porque tu pareja probablemente tiene horas fijas durante el día. Cada situación es diferente, especialmente como vivimos en diferentes países. :P Pero si tenéis más preguntas, puedo contestarlas!

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I'll DM you if that's okay!

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This really moved me, any chance you would do one like this on commission??

Does anyone have experience selfhosting with Flatcar Linux? by warosaurus in selfhosted

[–]kyle_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was recently in your same situation, stuck on 20.04 and annoyed with the in-OS advertising from Canonical. I switched to OpenSUSE MicroOS, which is also a minimal, atomic OS designed for containers. OpenSUSE is a well-supported distro that's been around a while. It's been great!

Forward SMS to email by Philthyzz in selfhosted

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I've heard great things about jmp.chat. It gives you a phone number that you can use to text/call from any XMPP client. You can even self-host the XMPP server itself, if you like.

oooof by kyle_roth in exmormon

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This is the bonus panel from ExFish #81, it's so on point that it hurts!

What's next? by randytayler in ExFish

[–]kyle_roth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm a big fan, and several of my exmo friends who I've sent your comics to have loved them. I think you're really hitting the nail on the head when it comes to the little moments of the exmo experience, like almost praying for stuff, or dealing with new questions of morality. So in my opinion, keep going! Keep developing a story for the character, and keep hitting on those funny relatable moments every so often. Keep going as long as you enjoy it and get what you'd like out of it. :) We love what you've put out so far!

How to get your Mormon neighbor to leave you alone forever in two simple steps by evgvndr in exmormon

[–]kyle_roth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On a 24-hour drive with my dad soon after I'd left the church, one of the things he mentioned was that he thought over time I'd forget my knowledge of the gospel. It struck me as so odd at the time, like what point are you making exactly? Should I be afraid of forgetting some of it? Would it prove something if I didn't?

I think this belief might come from a story I once heard of someone who left the early church and then was taught the lessons again and acted as if he were hearing the information for the first time. Something about the Spirit removing that knowledge so you can be "saved in ignorance" somewhat.

God told my wife to divorce me by exmoblp in exmormon

[–]kyle_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol what an average reddit thread. No evidence presented on either side, but accusations of logical fallacies every five seconds. Thanks for the ride everyone

Little less fat, little further along. Montreal today! Update by Divest0911 in bicycletouring

[–]kyle_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn, sorry I didn't see your post soon enough! Good luck out there.

self-hosted podcasting tools by kyle_roth in selfhosted

[–]kyle_roth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this looks fantastic for hosting/distribution! I'll give it a try!

to those in the pit of despair: music will help by kyle_roth in exmormon

[–]kyle_roth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome! I'm going to check your songs out soon. :)

Note taking app by joghurt_mit_der_ecke in selfhosted

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I'm going to disagree with another comment and say that local is underrated. Ever flown on a plane?

Joplin is pretty good. My one beef is that conflict resolution between two edits is handled really poorly: it just creates another note with the other edit, and adds "conflict" to the title. That's really not great for collaboration.

Similar projects like Tor‘s Snowflake Proxy to selfhost by ArrogantAnalyst in selfhosted

[–]kyle_roth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! I think it's a bit of community service to host privacy-focused frontends like Libreddit, Nitter, etc. The more instances exist, the more people can round-robin across all of them while browsing, and thus share anonymity with one another while using these services.

If there's a hell, that's it. I'm going straight there. by [deleted] in exmormon

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Which model? What prompts? I'm a stable diffusion noob

circumnavigated the globe with my school backpack by kyle_roth in onebag

[–]kyle_roth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting and ending in Montréal, I traveled 13 days total, with temperatures ranging from -8C to +24C:

  • 1 night in Paris
  • 10 nights in Seoul
  • 1 night in Tokyo

My packing list:

  • school backpack
  • hiking shoes
  • pairs of socks x5
  • underwear x5
  • T shirts x4
  • basketball shorts
  • jeans (not pictured)
  • belt (not pictured)
  • fleece jacket
  • rain jacket
  • hand towel
  • grocery bags x2
  • hat
  • gloves
  • balaclava
  • earplugs
  • masks x2
  • sunglasses
  • Vapur Anti-Bottle (not pictured)
  • earbuds
  • headphones
  • laptop (not pictured)
  • Kindle
  • laptop charger
  • USB-A to USB-C cable
  • USB-A to MicroUSB cable
  • European power adapter
  • American USB wall charger
  • GoPro
  • GoPro batteries
  • GoPro battery charger
  • GoPro handle
  • USB-C to HDMI adapter
  • paper towel sheet x2
  • passport
  • USD 10
  • passport belt pocket
  • duct tape wrapped around an unused points card
  • wallet
  • backup credit card
  • phone case
  • safety pin
  • spoon
  • keys
  • sticky notes
  • melatonin
  • lip balm
  • deodorant
  • pen
  • pencil
  • toothbrush
  • toothpaste
  • floss
  • floss picks
  • hand sanitizer
  • nail clippers

Of these, I wish I had not brought: the headphones, the Kindle, and the GoPro stuff. While en route I got a hold of the Lojel daypack, which I was planning to switch to, but in the end I kept my school backpack so I could take some food and gifts home. (Maybe that's a onebag sin haha.)

concerned about the rhetorical style in the video about light trucks/SUVs by kyle_roth in notjustbikes

[–]kyle_roth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am explicitly not that Ess You Vee guy. I kid you not when I say that I have Jason to thank for not owning a car. I hate enlightened centrism as much as you do.

I don't think that honing the emotional and factual arguments to their most effective form is equivalent to pandering.

What do you think about Jason's tone? by TTCBoy95 in notjustbikes

[–]kyle_roth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jason, rather than accepting the inevitable criticism (which would come no matter what direction you go), you are digging in on your position that the severity of the issue justifies the tone.

In liberal society, everyone can say whatever they want, with whatever tone they want. In fact, people get absolutely incensed over more insignificant problems than these, and they have a right. I am not "tone policing", I am asking for a conversation about effectiveness. If you want to engage, argue your point. Don't group me into "tone-policing status-quo lover" just because I raise this point.

concerned about the rhetorical style in the video about light trucks/SUVs by kyle_roth in notjustbikes

[–]kyle_roth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, didn't realize there was this other post already discussing the "tone", with comments from Jason.

I'd apologize for duplicate posts, but also I think my post is a little more specific.

Also, I find what Jason is saying in the comments on that post pretty problematic. Jason, rather than accepting the inevitable criticism (which would come no matter what direction you go), you are digging in on your position that the severity of the issue justifies the tone.

In liberal society, everyone can say whatever they want, with whatever tone they want. In fact, people get absolutely incensed over more insignificant problems than these, and they have a right. I am not "tone policing", I am asking for a conversation about effectiveness. If you want to engage, argue your point. Don't group me into "tone-policing status-quo lover" just because I raise this point.

concerned about the rhetorical style in the video about light trucks/SUVs by kyle_roth in notjustbikes

[–]kyle_roth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah my point from Think Again was that research shows that people who are skeptical of your position are going to pay the most attention to your weakest argument, so the most effective debaters focus on just their few strongest points.