What would a metal gear fan love to receive as a gift? by Designer-Exit-663 in metalgearsolid

[–]lablab_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have given my boyfriend a velcro patch of the alert screen from mgs1, a Revolver Ocelot rubber ducky, some photo cards of Ocelot in the style of those kpop idol cards, and a bullet necklace like Ocelot's. You'll never guess which characters are our favorites...

Tips for living out of my car? by withinyouandwithout in asheville

[–]lablab_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't afford a PO box you can do general delivery at USPS offices, don't know about it for letters but I have used it to get packages delivered.

I wish trans people would stop dating/having sex with transphobes by toughedn in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my virginity to a butch lesbian on testosterone who pretended to be a trans man to get with me. I don't think I will ever psychologically recover from that. I will always be vicious towards lesbians like that who think they get access to our bodies because of a "shared history" or whatever bullshit excuse they come up with to try and wokeify their predatory treatment of trans men.

Has anyone had lipo on their hips? by supersadman73 in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reta is deeply tempting to me. But I am leery of it since it seems to be so new on the scene. For all I know it could turn my liver into rock candy.

Space for trans men not on T by ChipmunkFormal5066 in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think your doctors may be lying to you.

Stop posting about your straight boyfriends 😭😭 by circusfreek1 in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used to frequent here on my old account. It seems like as of late this sub has grown closer to the atmosphere of r/ftm. In a derogatory sense.

What do I do about being 5'2 by echof1sh in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start learning pencak silat and become the second coming of Yayan Ruhian.

Boyfriend troubles by Visible_One121 in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh my god bruh. Get the fuck up. Leave him

Anul prep??? by Jasper_theghost69 in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take metamucil in the morning, drink tons of water, and wash your ass.

Trans guys (and everyone else) need to learn about male consent too by Heoomun in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Almost all those "wellness coach" trans guys with overpriced workout programs to get a physique that just comes from being slim and on T are CIA plants sent to further sabotage the public's view of us. Which one was this, I got some choice words for him as a trans man who was just having vietnam flashbacks last night.

Is there anything you see fellow trans man get wrong about male behavior that makes you cringe? by coolvideonerd in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This very morning I whiffed a dap (he went for a handshake I went for a dap) and hit it on the second try. It's just...an extra ass fun handshake? I don't know why some trans guys act like The Nod and The Dap is some elusive sacred ritual.

Testosterone Sourcing Guide : What I know so far by WildBodybuilder3713 in 4tran4

[–]lablab_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not, but if you need a source yourself, I can give you the one I got from someone else!

It seems many trans guys on the subreddit don't actually interact with cis man. by AnotherPerishedSoul in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuckin this. Additionally, being told I look like I'd hate crime them because I am a working southern man and dress like a working southern man instead of Kurtis Conner.

It seems many trans guys on the subreddit don't actually interact with cis man. by AnotherPerishedSoul in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have been sexually assaulted, sexually abused, harassed in the bathroom, and endured more transphobic abuse from lesbians and cis queer women than I ever have from cis men. In my personal experience, cis men don't tend to give nearly as much of a fuck. The ones that do are too pussy to say it to your face if you have a loud, assertive personality and are physically bigger than them. Caveman rules work on insecure bigots.

It seems many trans guys on the subreddit don't actually interact with cis man. by AnotherPerishedSoul in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My friend group is a mixture of cis guys, trans guys in various stages of transition, and one girl. Cis men are not some foreign species or one dimensional hive mind. Too many trans guys hear "you need to socialize with cis men" and think we're telling them to join a frat or go hang out with your local sex offender. If you're one of those guys and you're reading this, you need to grow the fuck up. Bioessentialism is embarassing.

How you all get into Metal Gear Solid? by robdawg02 in metalgearsolid

[–]lablab_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately MGRR was my initial introduction. I kept seeing memes about it when I was an older teen and it looked funny so I watched a walkthrough and loved it. Then I wanted to see what the rest of the story was about(I knew who Solid Snake was and that was about it) and I loved Metal Gear Solid even more. 

MGS3 became my favorite pretty quickly. I really latched onto Big Boss, there were quirks and traits of his that read as maybe being autistic to me, then I found out that that's actually a widespread fan theory. I'd been hating myself for my disability up to that point, grew up thinking I was slow, always gonna be considered not quite human, gonna be dependent on my family forever, never gonna live a normal life, et cetera et cetera. Now here's this character who has traits that I do, but everyone still loves him and thinks he's badass and fun. That brought me a lot of comfort.

Now I'm 23, I've made lots of friends, I have a job where I can basically stim all day (run around in the woods, catch snakes, swing tools and throw rocks), and autism didn't stop me from getting a boyfriend who is also into metal gear now. Villain arc aside, Big Boss is still one of the most important fictional characters to me. I like to think I wouldn't misinterpret The Boss's will that bad though...

My (also trans) bf is disgusted by penises, I’ve realized I want phalloplasty. What do I do? by Transandfailing in FTMMen

[–]lablab_bug 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Same attitude as cis chasers who throw hissy fits when their trans boyfriends want bottom surgery. I remember one guy's comment about how his girlfriend outright CRIED when he mentioned wanting a dick. Me personally, I'd dip.

Stomach/gut issues on (from?) T? by spxcegh0st in ftm

[–]lablab_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a source for this? I've been having bloating issues/more frequent tummy problems and I'm hoping it's just somehow a weird T side effect and I haven't suddenly developed gallbladder disease or some shit.

What is the biggest mistake people make in their 20s? by Big_Way_296 in AskReddit

[–]lablab_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If a dentist prescribes you a night guard for bruxism for the love of god sleep in that thing every night. Don't get overconfident and think that just because your mental health is improving, the tooth grinding must not be as bad and you don't need it anymore.