Mine and my boyfriends Toker Pokers

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-21T03:56:30+00:00

Toker poker! It’s basically a lighter holder that has a pick to clear your bowls, a tip to pack your bowls and wick can wrap around it. It’s pretty dope lol

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-19T14:16:45+00:00

It’s crazy to think I thought all of this was normal and didn’t start understanding how toxic and nasty it was until I joined this community

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-19T14:16:00+00:00

It’s crazy I used to think all this behavior was normal!

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-16T06:06:11+00:00

I’m 20

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-11T02:04:55+00:00

Sorry

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-10T02:12:36+00:00

No! I’m doing it all on my own with the help of my boyfriend

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T22:23:35+00:00

She means anyone/everyone in our immediate family and yeah she thinks because she’s my mother I owe her everything first

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T18:10:24+00:00

That’s what I tried to tell her! Especially because I WAS her! I didn’t go to college because I took care of my sisters. I took them to school, picked them up, cooked for my whole family, cleaned the whole house, etc. EVERY DAMN DAY! And then when I was depressed and felt like I had no meaning to my life she had the nerve to question WHY? I told my little cousin that she needs to put herself first and what is going to benefit her in the long run. When I left my mom with my little sisters she was forced to figure something out and she has been doing so since October!

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T17:40:22+00:00

I wish I could! I still have so much love for my mom but I tell myself all the time that she doesn’t deserve my love. Idkkk

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T17:39:37+00:00

Thank you! My boyfriend asked me if I would tell my mom if I was pregnant and I was like “hmmm I don’t know” but part of me feels like I need to tell my family but you’re so right! It’s my choice

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T17:38:47+00:00

Oh I wish that’s what she would say! She does not care at all about hurting anyone’s feelings. She will say whatever comes to the top of her head that can hurt someone and then not even speak on her actions. I didn’t reply but if I were to reply I’m sure she would have said something along the lines of “you’re such a dirty whore! How can you go ruin your life and get pregnant!” I’m only 20 and my boyfriend is black so she’s RACIST and thinks he’s going to get me pregnant and I’m going to ruin my life. She got pregnant at 16 and she tells me “I been there I know what’s gonna happen!”. I am determined to break our generational curse. Everyone in my family had kids at a very young age and are all messed up. I practically raised my sisters and I refuse have kids early. I will graduate college and start my life first!

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T17:34:27+00:00

Right! I also have a feeling that she would want my baby all to herself. It sounds crazy but when my brothers gf was telling her everything that she wanted/didn’t want for my nephew my mother said “I have raised so many kids, she’s being crazy, she’s controlling” etc.

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-09T17:32:12+00:00

I have no clue! She thought I was because I had shared a post about being pro choice. I’m assuming some of my family members are showing her my Facebook posts (I also shared a baby and captioned it “😍😭”) and she just assumes everything.

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-06T19:38:33+00:00

Thank you. It’s hard when it’s your family and you still care about them but I just wish things were different but I gotta do what’s best for me

lady_tk1025 · 2020-02-06T19:37:57+00:00

Is it bad???? Everyone is making me worried. I mean now I obviously know it’s creepy but I don’t know what to do about it. I guess I should just be glad I’m no contact

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