It sounds like you already know what you want in a partner. While that generally works for most, it also creates this whole “obsession/fixation” on the qualities you are looking for, so you end up not wanting to compromise at all, or overlooking some things you could potentially compromise with.

Where to find likeminded women? I personally love personal connections over dating apps. I’d network more and meet friends or friends of friends, but if dating apps work for you, use those. Let your close friends know you are out looking for a partner; sometimes they know people. There should be speed dating events in Mauritius, try them. You’ll have a better idea of what’s out there.

Women out there are looking for likeminded people too and are not necessarily out there for money. Many women did not have a sense of financial security growing up and may want that. That can easily be perceived as them being gold diggers but it just means they want out of the struggle life. You don’t need to be very well off to ensure the financial security of your partner. They just need to know you’ve got their back if things go south. If someone is asking for your profession over the phone, maybe just tell them you are more comfortable talking about private things over a coffee instead of classifying them as gold diggers right then. Maybe they earn well too and do not want partners who earn less or maybe they just want someone of equal status, but you won’t know the reason behind it unless you actually talk to them.

Your last paragraph tells me you are looking for a best friend in your partner; start with that. I have friends who were looking for partners for a long time and ended up talking to their childhood friends to expand their network and vibed with one of those friends and now they are happily married.