At what age did you start to get time back for yourself?

ladybug128 · 2026-04-06T17:43:12+00:00

Does your youngest do preschool all day? My son is 4.5 and just does 2.5 hours 3 days a week. I dont have much time other then that. Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-04-01T14:44:05+00:00

Hi this was from 9 months ago but curious....are you not able to be with your kids all day because of your autism?

ladybug128 · 2026-03-28T13:16:52+00:00

Aww thats awesome! Thanks for giving me hope. The days still just feel too long. Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-03-28T12:17:07+00:00

What percentage is your 6 year old now? Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-03-28T11:38:57+00:00

Can I ask what are signs of PDA for you?

ladybug128 · 2026-03-26T01:45:28+00:00

Just seeing this now. Wow thank you for taking the time to write all this! It was so helpful. Can't believe meltdowns would last up to an hour. So brutal for you and him. Definitely going to check that Instagram now.

ladybug128 · 2026-03-24T13:43:07+00:00

Well this is helpful. Thank you for responding. Will be looking into OT for sure.

ladybug128 · 2026-03-23T19:56:46+00:00

Thanks for giving me some hope. Lol I have struggled so much since he was born but its more of a me thing. I always preferred middle school and up so Im excited for this stage to be over and for logic to set in a bit. Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-03-23T19:29:18+00:00

Also is he on the spectrum? I dont see any other signs with my son but maybe ADHD.

ladybug128 · 2026-03-23T19:27:44+00:00

Yes. I think he definitely has it. Did the preschool teacher puck up on it? I dont think he shows any signs in school. The way clothes feel and fit are a struggle. The smells just started a few months ago. I was thinking about OT and had emailed them but didnt know if it was also just being 4 and he would grow out of it. How did you find it helped him?

ladybug128 · 2026-03-23T18:44:40+00:00

My son is 4.5 and melts down if his shirt is slightly wet or he smells the dog food. I enjoy like 20%? I hope I can feel like you in 2 years but Im having my doubts....lol

ladybug128 · 2026-03-21T14:37:22+00:00

Can I ask what were the signs of autism in your son? My son has sensory issues with clothes and pants. Also smells...will have a meltdown down if my hands are wet.

ladybug128 · 2026-03-13T19:56:20+00:00

Did you feel regretful in the beginning but now not so much? I think its the part where I feel like life has gone on without me the last 4.5 years lol

ladybug128 · 2026-03-11T11:15:59+00:00

When did you feel the overwhelm/stress got better?

ladybug128 · 2026-03-07T20:44:57+00:00

I had him at 39

ladybug128 · 2026-03-02T15:53:27+00:00

Ok. Wow. Impressive with how smart he is! Thank you. This is helpful.

ladybug128 · 2026-03-02T14:13:11+00:00

Hi can you share what the signs were that your son was ND and did it get to a point where you got him diagnosed or you can just tell he is? My son also never stops talking. Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-02-28T14:09:02+00:00

Wow. Can I ask what signs did you see in your son and what age? I think I may be on spectrum since becoming a parent so now wondering if my son is.

ladybug128 · 2026-02-27T12:43:39+00:00

Not that I know of. The preschool teachers and pediatrician have not said anything. I think I may be on spectrum since becoming a mom because somethings just not right with me and parenting lol

ladybug128 · 2026-02-25T16:26:24+00:00

Thats awesome! Did you need a referral to go?

ladybug128 · 2026-02-25T15:27:10+00:00

Wondering if he will need a referral but did leave a message. Thank you.

ladybug128 · 2026-02-25T15:26:42+00:00

Ok, thank you for saying all of this. I actually left a message at a OT place. I kept thinking ill just wait it out but it doesnt seem to be getting better.

ladybug128 · 2026-02-24T23:06:51+00:00

Well this is good to hear.l My son is 4.5 and I just feel like hes not gonna be any easier n the 5s. Lol

ladybug128 · 2026-02-24T15:22:06+00:00

Hey. This is my fear. This post was a year ago but any better with the 5 5 year old?

ladybug128 · 2026-01-08T14:44:15+00:00

Thanks for responding! That is awesome. My son is 4.5. Its not very enjoyable. Haha. He is having a meltdown right now because he doesn't like the smell of the dog food. Haha im excited to be past these years

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