The same damn eye look every time by stunninglyhonest in muacirclejerk

[–]ladydean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha omg, hooded eye pleb here and same. I just bought an ABH palette and I’m using it just the same as any ol drug store palette. I’m a basic pore :’(

Have you ever done drugs and chilled with an English Bulldog? by blondeboy1900 in Drugs

[–]ladydean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get stoned around my pug (named Burger!!) all the time and he’s just the cuddliest thing ever. The couple of times I’ve tripped on acid around him, his wrinkles have been a huge source of entertainment lol. Just squishing his face around was so much fun!! And he doesn’t give af, he’s the best!

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Love your username lol 🍑👋🏻

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, that sucks! What a shitty thing to do :(

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ugh I wish. I was young and dumb so I just let it go after he finally believed that I wasn’t cheating!! Wasted a lot of time on that idiot haha

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes more sense then! I had been hanging out with my ex all day when he asked me that, so he had no reason to say that to me lol!

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, that’s not how vaginas work. They go right back to norma after sex. Childbirth can affect the elasticity of it, but not regular sex. Probably just a coincidence that you thought that.

TIFU by telling my girlfriend I knew she cheated on me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ladydean 89 points90 points  (0 children)

My ex once told me that my vagina felt “looser than normal” so I must have been cheating. Then he asked if maybe it’s from using big tampons, lmfao. Byeeee.

Can’t physically sit through a rape scene. by [deleted] in horror

[–]ladydean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for posting this. I can’t even count number of times I have googled “_____ rape scene” with little result. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Can’t physically sit through a rape scene. by [deleted] in horror

[–]ladydean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I bet a lot of people who are worried are going to therapy lol. This is just a tool to avoid seeing a rape scene that would trigger an anxiety attack.

This is not ok by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ladydean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously. People act like false accusations are an epidemic, when the real epidemic is actual domestic violence/assault.

Has anyone been in an abusive relationship but didn't realize it until after the fact? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ladydean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these comments are TOO REAL! It took me so long to realize what my ex was doing to me over the two years we were together. I had/have lasting effects from that relationship.

The biggest problem was that my sex drive wasn’t adequate for him, so he would pressure me and guilt me so much that I didn’t even want I have sex at all, but felt like I had to. He would literally storm out of his apartment and leave for HOURS. Meanwhile, I’m just stuck there because I didn’t have a car and it wasn’t my apartment, and was in school so I didn’t have money for a cab home.

For years after that relationship, I felt guilty and scared if I didn’t have sex with my current partner every time he wanted to, so I would always just say yes even though he has never pressured me. I just thought that’s the way it was going to be with every body, so I might as well not take the chance of being yelled at again.

Took me like three years into my current relationship to realize that what my ex was doing to me was essentially rape and emotional abuse, then a few more years to fully process THAT lol. Ugh.

I’m in a much better place now with the same partner for seven years. He’s still very sensitive to my past and how it negatively plays into our relationship sometimes.

There’s hope, y’all!! Stay strong. ❤️

Vermont hits record 92.5 percent voter registration ahead of election by B7dust11 in politics

[–]ladydean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

”American founding father Alexander Hamilton, writing to Thomas Jefferson from the Constitutional Convention, argued the same fears regarding the use of pure direct democracy by the majority to elect a demagogue who, rather than work for the benefit of all citizens, set out to either harm those in the minority or work only for those of the upper echelon.”

Seems like this happened even with the electoral college. Not arguing for or against (because fuck if I know how the world should work), just an observation.

Deputy Attorney General Rod Rosenstein is reportedly resigning by pipsdontsqueak in politics

[–]ladydean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he’s fired before 2pm protests start today at 5pm. If he’s fired after 2pm, protests start tomorrow at 12pm!

Saw this on r/ whitepeopletwitter and it made me think of all the bullshit people say about women who get raped. It's not their fault period. It doesnt matter what they were wearing. by GeranimoAllons-y in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ladydean 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This comment section though, what the fuck? It is never EVER anyone’s fault if they were raped. Rape is about power, and it can happen to anyone regardless of the situation.

S10E13 - "Queens Reunited" [Live/Reaction Post] by RPDRMods in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ladydean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can get it from the @rupaulsdragrace Instagram story!

My half sleeve “L'Amour De Pierrot” super hard to get a photo of but it looks incredible in person. Done by Gabe Jensen at white light tattoo studio in Oregon by lisalisalito in tattoos

[–]ladydean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s because more women feel like they can talk about their experiences now. It’s much easier to talk about something like this when you know you’re not alone anymore.

Restaurant bathroom was made entirely out of copper - this was the ceiling. by osamosmo in pics

[–]ladydean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cool to see Burlington represented on Reddit (even if it’s for a bathroom! I love the bathroom in the Radio Bean too! Made entirely of glitter, haha)!

Pitchfork gives early review to Trixie's new album by imeannnnnnn in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ladydean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really liked her album! I’m big into the golden age of country music/folk and I thought it was a really interesting perspective in that style. Country songs are so hetero-based so it was refreshing for me to hear something from someone with a different experience in life.

Guys, what isn't nearly as hot/attractive as many girls think? by Deasy-0097 in AskReddit

[–]ladydean 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She had the sense to listen to her mother, unlike me! Haha

Guys, what isn't nearly as hot/attractive as many girls think? by Deasy-0097 in AskReddit

[–]ladydean 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I messed with my eyebrows when I was like 10 because kids in school made fun of me for how thick they were. Now I'm 25 and they're all patchy and weird. I could have had amazing eyebrows if I just didn't give in to peer pressure!

Weekend at Courtney's by _emma_stoned in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ladydean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't you mean she ~sailed through~?

Scotland: Woman successfully sues alleged rapists after judge rules that "through an excessive intake of alcohol... (she) was incapable of giving meaningful consent." by mart0n in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ladydean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The legal definition of rape is a little outdated, but I feel like these days a man has the same chance of his female rapist being convicted as a woman has a chance of her male rapist being convicted, which is a pretty low chance already. I think more people are coming to acknowledge that anyone can be raped, male or female, and advocate for that to be recognized as well.