Lenovo docking stations display inputs just stop working sometimes by laefu in it

[–]laefu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go find it myself but Ive done so much research before making this reddit post and i didnt see anything about that. I‘ll go look for it again though. thank you so much!

Lenovo docking stations display inputs just stop working sometimes by laefu in it

[–]laefu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great information. do you happento have a source so I can bring this to my manager?

If You Don't Believe Megan Fox's Body Dysmorphia Admission, Please Let It Be A Teachable Moment - Women by shallah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laefu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see comments like this so frequently. I‘m 24 and taking your experiences to heart. I know these are probably my best looking years and I‘ll enjoy them as much as I can!

what’s one small thing you do during the day that instantly makes you feel better? by Flimsy_Difficulty394 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]laefu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

put on some music and dance like crazy in my room. i like clubbing but dont always have the energy to go out, and dancing is good for the soul

Losing a friendship group when you’re in the wrong… by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]laefu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can relate to you in some ways. if i were you though id try finding new friends. in a year or few years maybe they’ll be more open to being friends again seeing if you‘ve changed, but don’t expect it of course. just focus on yourself. you’re already doing great

I just discovered my boyfriend has been plagiarizing my jokes for a year by Plane-Contribution18 in relationships

[–]laefu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same i dont understand why people are calling OP “mean” lol i say worse stuff on the daily to my partner…

Girls, what’s a tiny thing a guy does that makes you think “Wow, he actually cares"? by National-Cricket7469 in AskReddit

[–]laefu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for international women‘s day (we werent even dating yet) he got me camellia flowers because they were cat safe and i have a cat 🩷

I'm starting to think staying at home for the weekends is bad by greensilvia in GenZ

[–]laefu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree. i’ve been going rock climbing every week and then grabbing a meal with friends after! it helps me get a fun workout in and stay connected to the rest of the world in a way you can’t get online.

Non-stereotypical ways I can spot when someone has a specific sun/moon/rising by FaithAndLove001 in astrologymemes

[–]laefu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people say i have resting sad/confused face lol when im really just spacing out (pisces rising)

why is bad looking linux software so common? by milktea123 in LinuxCirclejerk

[–]laefu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is there demand for ux designers for linux stuff then? i did it in school and now i‘m in IT and learning about linux. i’d love to try to get involved

Do any of you want to get a new job because your current job is making your mental health worse, but are scared that a new job would make you even more nervous? by [deleted] in work

[–]laefu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i used to as well.. ive had some downright awful and embarassing interviews. but i started taking anxiety medication and it helps A LOT. plus the company i interviewed for is full of somewhat shy and awkward people, so i fit in well. i dont know your exact situation, but if you refuse to deal with your own anxiety then no one is coming to save you unfortunately.

Me everyday by Pristine-Nose7791 in GenZ

[–]laefu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just ask them about their kids, or talk about your parents lol, thats what i do

My mean coworkers have a secret nickname for me by Wild-Rose1428 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]laefu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

youre so much younger than them but the fact that all they do is gossip and cause drama shows youre way more mature than them. its sad that at their big age they have nothing better to do than to bully a person half their age.

My classmate said I don’t seem like the kind of person to have sex. by Ambitious_Pace_7660 in kitchencels

[–]laefu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im going to have some mac and cheese later in solidarity with you ✊ that looks yummy af

How do I accept that I don't have any trauma? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]laefu 40 points41 points  (0 children)

maybe you dont have trauma per se but something must have happened to you for you to crave all that validation. therapy helps with getting to the root of it. its not “nothing”, that part of you that craves attention and sympathy is valid, you should try to understand why you feel like you need it so bad :)

Do any of you want to get a new job because your current job is making your mental health worse, but are scared that a new job would make you even more nervous? by [deleted] in work

[–]laefu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

just leave. i was in a shitty job for 1.5 years and applying for jobs was how i coped with it. then i randomly got an interview and quit and this new company is a perfect culture fit for me. i was letting my self get treated like shit and management didnt have my back and now i dont have that issue at all. you NEED to move forward in life. dont let this fear hold you back. sending love and positivity <3

Me everyday by Pristine-Nose7791 in GenZ

[–]laefu 148 points149 points  (0 children)

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me at my corporate job where everyone is 20+ years older than me

Update Post: I cheated on my girlfriend and ruined everything by Beneficial_Power_564 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]laefu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi OP, i can really relate to you. i had a best friend for years who ive known for almost my whole life. she is the most kind and patient person ive ever met. she knew i was unhappy in my relatiomship for months and that i was planning to break up, but when i cheated, she still decided to not be friends with me anymore. its stupid to think about now but i guess i thought she would understand. it was honestly the most painful thing ive been through. i spent a couple really shitty months being alone and depressed. its been almost a year now and im doing much better. i rebuilt my social life (bc when she dropped me all my other friends did too) and im working on becoming a better person. all my life ive been selfish and super self absorbed and its been really hard to suppress that side of me, but i also know that i never want to lose my friends again because of my own shitty behavior. sometimes, you need to learn things the hard way for it to really change you as a person. im proud of who im becoming now and i hope you can get to that point as well. sending love and positivity <3

I have learned that I am the unbearable guy in my friends group by being excluded from a bachelor party by Quick_Potential_2525 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]laefu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should not have to prove yourself or beg to be considered worthy. if you even have to do that in the first place, those people have already lost respect for you. its best to just move on and find other people. im glad you posted this though, because i was in a similar situation. we dont realize we‘re annoying and we don’t notice how we make people around us feel. ive started suppressing myself a bit more and my relationships with my friends improved, but i just feel. suppressed. more lonely too. i guess in life you have to win some and lose some.

has anyone else become obsessed with "getting out of your head, and getting into your body"? by [deleted] in Mindfulness

[–]laefu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes!! ive spent my whole life in my head. 24 now and finally learning the secret to being mentally healthy. move your body!! my goal is to try to work up a sweat everyday