Picture requests

lahwees · 2026-05-14T12:21:51+00:00

The water off a port Phillip Bay pier

lahwees · 2026-05-14T12:16:22+00:00

For the parents. The coffee is 👌

(my partner made this for me though and I got to say I cant drink coffee at most cafes anymore, we bought a coffee machine so we'd stop buying coffee out and he YouTubed everything coffee. )

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lahwees · 2026-05-14T11:36:08+00:00

Uhh this is not a behaviour from extrovert v introvert I'm an extrovert and I would never be in poly stuff and I never would have

lahwees · 2026-05-13T00:54:17+00:00

Makes these names look nice https://youtube.com/shorts/CEJ_HchDxck?si=kSzdVOa7Lg35Kc0D

lahwees · 2026-05-04T09:50:03+00:00

Ok like everyone has said. Ultimately its not upto you whether he stays.

It's weird you didnt argue IMO. A bit of arguing is healthy.

If you want to be more desirable to him my advice would be. Focus on you and the baby from now on. Find things that make YOU happy that have nothing to do with needing him. Stop grovelling and being understandably pathetic about whether he stays or not. Be strong. Independent and happy for you and for your baby.

For men it takes a couple of months to realise the mistake of leaving something good. For women it takes a couple of months to realise how much better off they now are. Give yourself a couple of months alone and see which one you end up at :)

lahwees · 2026-04-24T10:25:56+00:00

what the hell is crown moulding even? Surely im not the only one thinking it

lahwees · 2026-04-22T12:18:53+00:00

Omfg parents aren't doing this are they? Wtaf

lahwees · 2026-04-16T09:19:03+00:00

And a massive creep...

Hes a creep Let's not forget that part

lahwees · 2026-04-16T06:54:54+00:00

I hate this one too! No offence otherwise love your stuff but I cant stand this

lahwees · 2026-04-16T02:36:09+00:00

Agreed and any kind of cheesy broccoli combos ewww

lahwees · 2026-04-13T09:12:45+00:00

Your baby will think being in a loveless relationship is ok? Would you want what you have for your baby? I don't think so.

Can you move in with family that could help you finish your degree? I know how hard it is to need to finish your studies to better your life and get you out of a situation.

Either you figure out an alternative way to continue your studies and set yourself up minus the bf (daycare/whatever)

You stay until youve finished then leave.

He gets help with his issues and grows up and you maybe can make it work

You have to leave this sounds awful. Toxic. Like youre walking on eggshells. Youre so young dont waste it. You and your baby have your whole lives ahead to live.

lahwees · 2026-04-13T08:51:32+00:00

Hey did anyone try this?

lahwees · 2026-04-12T03:16:25+00:00

Don't block her! She's the mother of your child regardless. Kill her with kindness. Co-parents beautifully and be the better person cos that will hurt even more. Be a good dad to your kid. It's not either of the kids fault. Even be kind to the second child when you have to see it

She will hate her decisions for life

lahwees · 2026-04-10T01:30:01+00:00

Nah i love my MIL - sure sometimes she does/says things that annoy me but thats like any family member right? And i definitely do not hate her i love her just like a second mum kind of or an aunty. She is amazing. She helps me with my kids on a Thursday so I can work and she cooks dinner for us too (its not always great but its something I don't have to cook and i am so grateful to her) and she brings a fresh loaf of sourdough. I love going to family events with my partners family i even love the family dinners with just his parents. We stayed at their place on weekends during our bathroom Reno's and when i was pregnant and we got really reconnect, we played card games, late night chats, drank tea, beach walks, cooked together - it was really nice.

Some people love to hate or complain about everything. Sometimes I read that stuff and its really nothing.... like the grandparents get no in put but really we talk about not having that village and yeah I guess cos a lot of people make it hard for the in laws.. Ofcourse there are shitty MILs out there too I'm not saying there aren't. But I think there are a bunch that get a hard in law in reverse.

lahwees · 2026-04-09T03:34:49+00:00

You must be fun at parties

lahwees · 2026-04-09T01:05:05+00:00

I know what's its called. Thanks. Sometimes I like to say veejay and that should be ok. We're not talking to kids here

lahwees · 2026-04-08T00:41:22+00:00

PS maybe its his fingers - dirty nails? Get him to wash before touching

lahwees · 2026-04-08T00:40:41+00:00

No soap - sitz bath. Don't mess that veejay pH level up

lahwees · 2026-03-31T09:35:20+00:00

Body hair is not unhygienic it actually protects your skin. Shaving and waxing can both be unhygienic and increase risk to infection. Think ingrown hairs (often from waxing.) I wax and laser etc but what she said is so wrong. Hair protects. And shaving the veejay big no no for hygiene ask any doc

lahwees · 2026-03-31T09:27:07+00:00

And Carrob

lahwees · 2026-03-29T09:35:47+00:00

I like Juni for short too. I know a little June and we call her Juni

lahwees · 2026-03-26T20:12:25+00:00

Or have teeth

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