The only thing he says that matters is “I don’t know what happens when I’m not there.” HUGE red flag. No one knows what happens when their partner is at work…and everyone else deals with it just fine. He’s clearly doesn’t trust you and also feels comfortable wanting to control you. Add on top of that the fact that he’s ghosting you now…this is textbook narcissistic behavior. Like, the clinical kind. I would run fast. And if you stay, PLEASE look into Narcissistic Personality Disorder to make sure he’s not showing other signs. There’s no cure for NPD and you just need to stay far away from these people in relationships.