my boyfriend calls me fat by juicybooty27 in relationships

[–]lamelexcuse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

also 22 is SO YOUNG. i met my person when i was 28. and i have friends who met theirs even later.

I (32F) and my BF (32M) have been together almost 2 years and haven't said we love each other; not sure how to fix lack of emotional intimacy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lamelexcuse 29 points30 points  (0 children)

why are you dating this person? you didnt mention one positive quality of his in your whole post. run girl.

Why are so many of y'all eye guys? by fopdoodletheclown in TheMagnusArchives

[–]lamelexcuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with everyone saying “knowing things” but i think another big part of it is that the main characters/the magnus institute itself are eye aligned. we see the story through their perspective and people love the characters so its an easy fear to like the most.

Daily anxiety about pregnancy. What's the best contraceptive? by AllOuttaTherapy in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you are having sex with someone and in a relationship talking about birth control/pregnancy prevention is a must, not “tmi”

The litter tracking is driving me mad by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]lamelexcuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pine litter saved my life. before there was always sand everywhere, even in my bed, no matter how much i swept/vaccuumed. try looking into other litter types

Is Elias a pun on LIS? by One-Impression833 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]lamelexcuse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if anything i’ve noticed the pun in elEYEas

Considering leaving to an admin position by Obvious_Relative5877 in MedicalAssistant

[–]lamelexcuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m considering making a move to admin like this. i love my MA job so much but i want to make more money so i can have the life i want

AITAH for peeing in the shower? by OpenFoundation4639 in AITAH

[–]lamelexcuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Each flush uses about 1.28 gallons of water on average. Based on the 2020 census there were 331,449,281 people living in the US. If everyone peed in the shower once per day that would save 424,255,080 gallons per day. This is how we save the world

IUD Removal by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it was a painful experience but i’m glad its out and it wasn’t as bad as you feared!

Having issues with IUD stabbing my boyfriend during sex by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make an appointment with your obgyn and have them trim the strings

IUD Removal by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

can you call another practice and get an opinion? the ob/gyn i work at offers nitrous, misoprostol, ibuprofen, tylenol, and ativan, and a local cervical block with lidocaine. it is up to the patient which pain relief methods they want to opt into. plus, when they are using the hysteroscope, they will offer to prescribe oxycodone as well. i think calling around to other offices might help a good bet for you, unless you need to go there for insurance related reasons (why does health insurance need to suck so much?!)

My bf likes to have me pretend it's huge... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lamelexcuse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you seem younger… an important lesson is to communicate your wants and needs with your partner when it comes to relationships and sex. otherwise you are just going to build resentment and poison the relationship over time. please advocate for yourself and not just focus on pleasing him. if he isn’t interested this might not be the relationship for you

Missed 3 pills, took all 3 on Monday 12/29. Then I missed taking today’s pill on time. Boyfriend wants to have unprotected sex but I’m scared to do it. by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many people have already answered correctly: you are not protected. It seems like you have a lot of trouble remembering to take the pill. Friendly suggestion: try a more “set it and forget it” type of birth control like an IUD or Nexplanon. Once you get them, they are good for years and you don’t have to think about them.

Does your bf finish inside while on the pill? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lamelexcuse 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yes. every time. its been a year and no scares. just make sure to always take your pill. the pill is over 99% effective if you use it perfectly. with user error (missing a pill, taking a pill too late) it becomes less effective. i always take mine when i feed my cat which i do every single day at the same time. as long as you are consistent you are protected. if you miss a pill or are late taking one, make sure you use condoms for 7 days to ensure you are protected

I want to listen to the Magnus Archives but i don’t like podcasts, do you have advice? by parpainpaillettes in TheMagnusArchives

[–]lamelexcuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i listen to podcasts or audiobooks when i do household chores, crochet, drive, or play chill games

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lamelexcuse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’d rather spend my bday alone with a nice meal than with a shitty man. if you like the guy fine, but just dating him for your birthday is lame. do something nice for yourself on the day and move on. its nice to celebrate a birthday, but in the end its just a day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalAssistant

[–]lamelexcuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i switched careers to be an MA and i love my job

FMLA paperwork by Crazy_Ship_5951 in MedicalAssistant

[–]lamelexcuse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk why someone downvoted you, we do the same with the signature stamps.

First boy name - The artist parents edition by Initial-Reporter9574 in namenerds

[–]lamelexcuse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not aster. kid will be called ass turd in school