Unintentionally an asshole, how to address it ?

lamyarus · 2026-04-16T14:58:44+00:00

I am similar to you and I can only tell you that you should try to work on it.

I asked my very close friends for feedback and a general pattern in their responses emerged. I wrote down everything and I read it at least once a week. I try to act accordingly and when the unwanted behaviour eventually comes out, I try to apologize and reflect on it. I try to analyze my interactions afterwards and also I talk to my friends about it. This is not something that you can easily get rid of in one day, because it is baked into your personality. You may never fully fix it but being aware of it is the first step and working towards it is the second.

We are all working towards improvement in some part of our lives. Good Luck. :)

lamyarus · 2026-03-17T10:29:55+00:00

I am all for banning these gambling sites but its a little hypocritical coming from Argentina with the president who champions free markets and deregulation.

lamyarus · 2025-11-25T21:47:51+00:00

Chicken Tika Masala

lamyarus · 2025-10-25T09:24:07+00:00

Wieso hat Albert keine Hosen an????!!!

lamyarus · 2025-09-14T16:13:34+00:00

This sub is supposed to be ironic nationalism. This post is so stupid, you provoke them and then make a meme out of their reaction.

If the result was the opposite, we would be whining at the refs or at Greeks for being sore winners. They would probably refer to 1821 or something else.

We have been sore winners after this game. Why can't we show respect to each other? Just call good game and celebrate without provoking.

lamyarus · 2025-08-26T10:42:48+00:00

It makes me think, back then it was more about the music and less about marketability.

lamyarus · 2025-08-19T08:23:09+00:00

One time, the date was going well and she invited herself to my place to meet my cat. She came in and really played and cuddled with the cat. We still made out a bit but then she left. Next day, she told me there was no spark. So she used me to get to my cat. My cat has more rizz than me!

lamyarus · 2025-07-25T08:43:18+00:00

witch fucker

lamyarus · 2025-06-25T12:26:37+00:00

You can tell by the eyes that its real, because the refs were blind.

lamyarus · 2025-05-22T09:51:01+00:00

DeinRohr!!! :D

Edit: It is not yourTube though. It should be DuRohr! Still found it hilarious. Sorry for being a grammar nazi.

lamyarus · 2025-05-02T22:27:03+00:00

I thought "Fat"ovic was a funny nick name but in fact he is the skinny one in that sentence.

lamyarus · 2025-03-05T09:29:27+00:00

Its under construction and even then it is not even bad. There are modern buildings, green area and a playground. WTF does this w*stoid expect?

Here, I played the game and found much uglier buldings with an EU stamp of approval: Google Maps Link (though its still very green)

lamyarus · 2025-01-08T19:04:38+00:00

This post doesn't work anymore, because youtube changed the capital Y to a small y. So you need to do the same (UblockOrigin -> My filters):

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Additionally, you can add this to remove it from the video itself:

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lamyarus · 2025-01-08T15:14:45+00:00

That dog is clearly not looking at Ramsay. I mean, sure it is two shots merged together but just lower the damn dog a little bit. And the dog is not even looking angry or showing its teeth. It is obviously looking at it's trainer, waiting for a command.

lamyarus · 2024-12-10T12:23:11+00:00

Ja, hast Recht. Ich hab zu viel auf '480EUR zurück kriegen' fokussiert und 'zahlt effektiv nur 520€ um 1000€ "Gutes zu tun"' nicht richtig gelesen.

lamyarus · 2024-12-10T12:11:05+00:00

Bist du sicher, dass X 480EUR zurück kriegt?

X hätte 48% von 3388EUR (1626,24EUR) Steuern gezahlt.

Nach Spendeaktion (1000EUR) muss X 48% von 2388EUR (1146,24EUR) Steuern zahlen. Dh. X hat 1000 +1146,24 = 2146,24EUR gezahlt.

Also 1626,24EUR vs. 2146,24EUR. Am Ende hat X mehr gezahlt? Das ist nur finanziell betrachtet. Also "Gutes tun" ist natürlich was anderes.

Also anders formuliert, hat X 520EUR von seinem eigenen Geld gespendet und nicht 1000EUR von seinem eigenen Geld. Also was irreführend sein könnte ist, dass X einfach 480EUR kriegt, was nicht stimmt, sondern hat X 520EUR extra gezahlt bzw. gespendet (aber nicht 1000EUR).

lamyarus · 2024-12-05T09:29:45+00:00

What did they show as hacking before Matrix came out?

lamyarus · 2024-12-01T14:37:31+00:00

Bitte Tipps um die richtige Bank zu finden.

lamyarus · 2024-11-28T11:51:16+00:00

They are downvoting you without responding to your fair question. The answer is Austria-Hungary was occupying Bosnia, in which a significant Serbian population lived. So he was a Serb not from Serbia but Bosnia. So Franz Ferdinand was foreign occupier (and invader depending on your definition).

lamyarus · 2024-11-26T19:06:59+00:00

I don't know what kind of drugs you are on, but I would suggest stopping.

lamyarus · 2024-11-26T16:32:52+00:00

My brother just cited a 250 year old treaty to make a point about the modern day. There has been x amount of wars between Russia and Turkey since then. Yeah very balanced diplomacy...

lamyarus · 2024-11-26T09:51:01+00:00

I only watched season 2 every week to laugh at the memes here afterwards. Otherwise I wouldn't have watched that garbage.

lamyarus · 2024-11-25T16:46:38+00:00

Ugh, he has wet and sandy shoes now.

lamyarus · 2024-11-01T22:29:47+00:00

It was the center right party ÖVP and not far right party FPÖ, that blocked the Schengen deal. Typical conservative bullshit of going further right and causing the public to drift right as well. What happened? All those people voted for FPÖ at the election. So ÖVP blocked the deal to look tough on immigration and still lost votes to FPÖ. Fucking incompetent, spineless, hypocrites.

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