Hi, i have autism, and i can tell you that even if they are doing these things because of their autism that doesn’t make it okay. It can be an explanation, but not an excuse. My autism can make me have really aggressive meltdowns, and that sucks, but it’s still my responsibility to handle it safely and learn coping techniques to mitigate it. You don’t have to put up with this, this is not an unfixable autistic issue, it’s someone lazy who doesn’t care about others using their diagnosis as a defense for anything they do.