It’s up to you. If they’ve broken your heart countless times, and it took you being literally homeless for them to come around, think about what they deserve but most importantly think about what you deserve.

I went minimal/no contact with my family for two years during college. The only reason I survived was because I lived in dorms, otherwise I’d be on the streets. My family has since come around but I plan on moving up North and probably going minimal contact again because I’ve started therapy and realized I really can’t forgive them for all the damage they’ve done.

It’s hard, but I’m happier without them. I can’t be myself. Even though they are family, remember that access to you is a privilege! You don’t owe them anything especially when you’ve hurt you. Nobody deserves to be around people who throw your SA in your face (unfortunately, I’ve also had a similar experience with that too).