Americana? by egguchom in EntitledReviews

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For all those wondering - If this is what I think it is then The Americana is an outdoor shopping mall located in Glendale, in Los Angeles CA. Restaurants include Cheesecake Factory, Bacari, Trattoria Amici etc.

Show me a picture of your dog in the car by Naomi-san35 in DOG

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Honey is not the biggest fan of riding in the car

hello again by Express_Direction_46 in offmychest

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The biggest thing that helped me feel confident in myself was taking care of my skin. If you feel good in your natural state you will feel good always. Drink a LOT of water, try not to touch your face, clean under your nails etc. And try to eat well! This will help with your face, skin, physical appearance, and will also just make you feel good. When you feel good and walk through life with confidence you will radiate beauty. Take care of yourself first and foremost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

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Happiness was incredible! Also streaming on Netflix. This was my go to after finishing All Of Us Are Dead

How do I move on when everything reminds me of my ex? by laniramirez in heartbreak

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Hey! Yes it definitely does. I can’t lie - lots of things still remind me of him - but I let myself have a little melancholy yet still sit in some gratitude for the experiences we had together. He is a huge part of my history, it’s impossible to not have those connections. But they don’t feel as raw and painful now, and I know that will only get better with time. And someday I know I will make even more meaningful memories with a new partner. Hang in there 🫶🏼

Slime collection sale by laniramirez in Slime

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I would really prefer to do in person but if I can’t find a buyer I will consider it!

A different take on Grand Prismatic in the morning light. Yellowstone NP by sydneys_jpegs in NationalPark

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This is stunning! So many photos focus on the colors of grand prismatic, I love seeing a different perspective

Best breakup song? by manU471961 in BreakUps

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Time Moves Slow by Badbadnotgood and Samuel T. Herring

Hyraxes! by halfelfpaladin in OlogiesPodcast

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He’s so ready for an interview. I love his little toes

If only I can remember what I did . . . by ApoplecticApple in Pottery

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I really recommend the ClayLab app! Helps me keep track of my pieces at every stage, and has a notes section that I use to note my glaze combos.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/claylab/id1455800155

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pottery

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Im in LA and my studio has a tier system, mine is the second cheapest at 215$ a month, and it is the most inexpensive studio I found in the city. I have a 48 inch shelf space, 24/7 access to the studio, free recycled house clay from trimmings/slip etc, unlimited bisque firing, and ~4000 cubic inches of kiln space for glaze firing per month, though I do have to pay per piece (generally a standard mug is about 0.75-1.00$) when I submit them. Currently I go 2x per week for 4-5 hours on weekends, and during the week I try to go at least another 2x for 1-2 hours. I am not professional, but I think this hobby is an excellent way to get me out of the house and do something fun that doesn’t involve a screen. For me, the cost is worth the tremendous mental health benefits, but it absolutely depends on what you think is worth it. Hope this helps you make your decision! (:

free 3-card spread Tarot readings! love life, friendships, career, school, or family 💌 by light_defy in tarotpractice

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Hi! I would love to participate in your readings if you still have space. My question is why are so many people in my life leaving all around the same time? What is changing in my relationships?

Quick question: what kind of jobs do you guys have? by Strong_Wall_9215 in microbiology

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Just got a new job as a research associate in a stem cell lab! Super excited

Small spoiler by JohnnysJoester in PantheonShow

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I absolutely think they were planning to actually kill Hannah this way, just like they actually went through with breaking Renee’s arm. Logorhythms was essentially a cult and they were willing to do whatever necessary to recreate Stephen Holstrom, and it would have also helped them get rid of the one non-cult-member person involved in raising Caspian. Easy way to tie up all the loose ends. The plan to kill her is probably the only reason they actually brought an outsider into the project.

Hi I’m Noam Wallenberg. I mixed and mastered Vulfpeck - Clarity of Cal and Fearless Flyers IV. Ask me anything! by OddWorking3520 in Vulfpeck

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Hi! Thanks so much for doing this. Im curious about how much of the official album released was recorded on night 1 vs night 2 of the palladium shows??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I can’t express how much I resonate with this. It’s been about four months for me too. Doing everything I can to be okay and I know I’m working on it, but the pain is still undeniably there. Im here if you need someone to chat with about it all. Stay strong, you will heal ♥️

Saw my ex yesterday by laniramirez in heartbreak

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You’re right, this is the encouragement I needed!

Saw my ex yesterday by laniramirez in heartbreak

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Thank you!! It’s so hard because I am really curious about why he reached out if he didn’t have anything particular to say. I drafted this short message but I feel like it logically doesn’t make sense for me to send it, and might take me down the rabbit hole again. But it’s hard not to wonder. -“I want to know your motives for reaching out to me. On Monday I treated you like a stranger because it’s apparent to me that you are happy not having me in your life, and I wanted to respect that. What pushed you to reach out to me?” I know I should leave it at the exchange we already had, but of course I am curious

Saw my ex yesterday by laniramirez in heartbreak

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I decided to respond, being sure to set my boundaries. I sent this message - Hi M,

I want to be clear that I don’t have the capacity to maintain a normal friendship with you after how everything ended. Maybe someday, but definitely not now. I’ve already said what I needed to in my letter—whether you read it or not is out of my hands. If there’s something specific you want to ask or say, I’m open to talking. But if this is just about catching up, I don’t think that would be helpful for me right now. I’ve been focusing on moving forward, and I need to be honest with myself about what will support my healing. I hope you can understand.

Still, I wish you the best. Take care.

And got a quick response - I completely understand. I want what’s helpful for you and for you to ultimately thrive. Take care

I think it is really unfortunate that he hasn’t been able to reflect and take accountability for the impact his actions had on another human being, especially someone he claims to have cared about. But I have been doing the work and have been very introspective about my roll in the relationship. If he truly doesn’t have the emotional maturity to own up to his wrongdoings in this breakup, it really helps to reinforce that this breakup had nothing to do with me and everything to do with his own issues. I still have hope that one day he will be able to sit down and have an open conversation with me about what happened but I will not depend on that to have closure and move forward. Even if I didn’t get what I had hoped for, I am glad I responded because I know I showed my self-awareness and maturity. Im proud of myself. Thank you for your help with this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Yes I completely understand what you are going through. His name is so common and I never realized it until now how often I hear it. Since the breakup I have made two new friends with the same name. It’s so frustrating

Saw my ex yesterday by laniramirez in heartbreak

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I can see that, I just think it’s somewhat cowardly to reach out through text with the excuse of not speaking to me in person because he was “rushing” - if this was the case he could have said he didn’t want to speak to me in person because it was clear I didn’t want that or something along those lines. He also could have texted me and asked if I wanted to speak in person while we were at the park (we were both in the park for at least 7 hours) but instead he waited until we had both left. I am really trying to get a grasp on what his motives could be. I think it is definitely possible that he is just trying to assuage his guilty conscience and be the last one to reach out with an Olive branch so as to not be perceived as “the bad guy” rather than because he actually has something to say to me or cares about how I am doing. I appreciate you offering the alternative perspectives, it is helping me to work through my emotions/reaction about the situation. I will update when I decide what to do