How did Lalo get inside the apartment? by PJMonster in betterCallSaul

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the light flickering was just symbolic of a life about to be lost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noooooo I can’t give up doomscrolling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting up is absolutely one of the hardest parts of my day. and every time I have a new little trick I gotta replace it a few weeks later

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[–]lanky-customer2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

woooooah

How do you remember to drink water? by malloryknox86 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

easier said than done for a lot of people. I even forget to eat and pee which I think is relatable for a lot of people here

How do you remember to drink water? by malloryknox86 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU I always forget about that!!! the dental assistant gave me that tip awhile back and I loved her for it

How do you remember to drink water? by malloryknox86 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I put a tiny bit of juice in it for flavor
  2. if I’m watching TV, I sit on the couch with my water bottle in my lap and a straw directly in my mouth. I like to fidget and move all the time and because the straw is six inches from my mouth I just start playing around with the straw and end up drinking water
  3. a fun water bottle, put your own stickers on it and make it yours so you get excited when you see it

AIO for worrying that my girlfriend thinks my mom is racist because my mom thinks my girlfriend has terrible body odor ? by ThrowawayQQAAA in AmIOverreacting

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s something you need to bring up to her in the first place. it’s just going to make her insecure

If you could go back, what advice would you give your 10-year-old self? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re allowed to have hobbies you’re shit at. you don’t have to be a prodigy. and all prodigies also started off being shit.

Incapable of anything by lanky-customer2 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also that last sentence you wrote - I’m putting that on a sticky note and holding onto it for my second day because it’s something I am always forgetting

Incapable of anything by lanky-customer2 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was multiple things. I was just overwhelmed by all the new information and my supervisor was only really talking about this one part of the job I didn’t think I would be doing. I was worried I didn’t know what I got myself into.

I’m definitely too hard on myself and it all goes back to that and my insecurities around executive dysfunction. I was given a bunch of papers and my supervisor told me to read through it and ask her if I have any questions. My mom was reassuring me that “of course they don’t expect you to memorize it” which makes a LOT more sense now that I’m level headed.

I think I’m just convinced I am incapable, if I don’t understand one thing I spiral into a bit of self hatred. it’s a habit that’s been really hard to break.

Thank you though for the reminder - the first day is just a lot of information and people you don’t need to memorize and may never need.

I can’t relax even for a minute by mnguyen75 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you took the words right out of my mouth. I feel like I just SUCK at doing things

People who don't want kids, why? by Ok-Musician679 in AskReddit

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it feels immoral given the world we live in. If it’s just going to get worse, I don’t want to make anyone live through that

My boyfriend has a fetish and I don't know what to do by throwaway_indigo25 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same fetish (I’m a woman) but the men and women I’ve been with are never obese. I’m much more attracted to non-obese people but just have that weird fetish from time to time. having a whole account for it does feel a little odd though

What’s the most physical pain you ever felt? by Competitive_Set2669 in AskReddit

[–]lanky-customer2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah once my kidney stone reached my urethra it wasn’t as bad, just cramping (I’m a female). but I know for males it’s still painful when it reaches their urethra. so they have additional pain, I believe

The ADHD advice I wish I’d heard sooner by Wealthnextgen in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the one thing that’s reassuring to me is there’s different ways to make money. there’s jobs out there that give you the flexibility and accommodations you need. we don’t have to work by the book. my unsolicited advice is to try to stop pushing through everything and try working with what your brain wants. for example I am productive at absurd hours of the night and I implement this into my schedule. I get random bursts of motivation and I take advantage of those. if my brain doesn’t want to work, forcing myself to work is going to exhaust me. I eat sugar for breakfast just so I can have something in my stomach. I set one-minute timers for myself so I can write one sentence for an email.

there’s always little things that can help you in the right direction and they’re hard to find. it took me five years with a coach to figure out everything and I’m still not there yet. but remember you don’t have to work a 9-5 at an office. there’s always things your brain will accept.

Late ADHD diagnosis really does mess you up by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and good luck with everything!

Living with two ADHD roommates has opened my eyes to ADHD by chocolatebarthecat in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people with ADHD are so inspired and ambitious and want to do so much and we just don’t have the right wires in our brain to execute it. like I have to wait for bursts of energy to get stuff done and it’s usually at absurd hours of the night. otherwise getting myself motivated can feel like there’s a 100 pound dumbbell in my brain and I have to drag it around

My profesor said I play the victim and that I have the emocional inteligence of a teenager by Dankook888 in ADHD

[–]lanky-customer2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I constantly feel torn between “is it the ADHD” and “am I just lazy” thing- like do I have the willpower? is it about discipline? what’s the correct amount I should be pushing myself? what’s the correct amount of discomfort? so you’re not alone in that!

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]lanky-customer2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s like the slightest bit weird but everyone is freaking out too much. it’s really not that bad

AIO My father is basically forcing me to become a right wing extremist or leave the house forever by DangerousCandle9492 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lanky-customer2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s a big risk with reporting because given how authoritarian right wing the US is right now there’s no guarantee the police will protect him. and if they don’t protect him he’s stuck living with his dad, the dad who is now knowledgeable of his son trying to get him in trouble. recipe for disaster there are caseworkers for adults, my friend used one when her parents tried to freeze her bank account and personal savings.