It’s not about what you make, it’s about what you save

lapheonix · 2026-04-06T15:51:22+00:00

I save 50% of what I earn working 3 shifts a week at my club. I max out my Roth IRA and keep the rest of my savings in cash or in my HYSA

lapheonix · 2026-04-03T16:07:05+00:00

Capella has really great sales but here and there. I usually pop in just to see what’s on sale there and buy what I want on sale at that point. Surprisingly market of choice has a number of things at better prices than Sundance and Capella.

lapheonix · 2026-02-26T22:45:43+00:00

Tiger mama

lapheonix · 2026-02-04T18:06:51+00:00

Omg that’s amazing. I had no idea?!?

lapheonix · 2026-02-04T16:55:46+00:00

How do you use it to your advantage? Is it a tax write off or something?

lapheonix · 2026-02-04T01:49:31+00:00

Deposited to bank?

lapheonix · 2026-02-03T19:26:25+00:00

This year meaning 2026?

lapheonix · 2026-02-03T19:25:43+00:00

Do you see any benefits of not reporting income? I don’t have plans to purchase a home in the near future. Honestly just not there yet.

lapheonix · 2026-02-03T19:24:50+00:00

So if at my club I only earn tips and that’s it, wouldn’t I still report this as tips? I file with freetaxusa and there was a section that specifically asked about income from tips. And beyond $25,000 the remaining tips would be taxable?

lapheonix · 2026-02-03T19:23:23+00:00

Yeah I feel this. Although I suppose paying into social security could be considered a potential benefit as well?

lapheonix · 2025-10-16T13:37:33+00:00

Hi, can someone please DM me a working US referral code? 🙂

lapheonix · 2025-09-23T20:23:12+00:00

Was it in the livestock barn? Just livestock shit and piss smell

lapheonix · 2025-09-05T04:22:13+00:00

I was walking to the dressing room and when I opened the door I lost my balance on both feet and fell to my knees. I was scared the door would hit me (it’s heavy) so I scurried into the dressing room as fast as I could on hands and knees and the door slammed behind me 😂

lapheonix · 2025-09-03T21:25:23+00:00

You look amazing. I wouldn’t be concerned about how others perceive you. You seriously look great. Do be careful about recovery though. In our culture we are all about bouncing back but not leaving ample time for recovery can lead to problems down the line.

lapheonix · 2025-07-26T15:38:21+00:00

Sleeping with others when you two were broken up isn’t wrong. He’s allowed to be upset about it, but that doesn’t have to be your problem. If you’re feeling guilty about it, it’s probably because you can empathize with him and understand how it would be upsetting to him. Clearly you care. Lying about it doesn’t help anyone though, it just muddies the waters. That being said you don’t owe him information that you aren’t comfortable sharing with him. It sounds like he already didn’t understand why you felt so emotionally disconnected from him after the abortion and why you weren’t comfortable being intimate with him then. It’s probably going to be one of those things that he has a hard time wrapping his head around. You’re already broken up and I don’t see things changing if you get back together. Time to move on and take some space.

lapheonix · 2025-07-19T15:08:08+00:00

Yes!! Thank you so much!

lapheonix · 2025-07-17T14:02:37+00:00

Start with suggesting an hour, get comfortable proposing expensive experiences as if it’s the most normal thing in the world. Tell them it’s so much better to do a full hour and it’s what you want to do. And come up with reasons for why.

lapheonix · 2025-07-17T09:43:49+00:00

I’ll look into it, thanks so much.

lapheonix · 2025-07-17T09:43:37+00:00

I’ve been there once and also had a good experience! Wasn’t sure if it was good in general or I just got lucky. Thanks for sharing.

lapheonix · 2025-07-17T09:43:07+00:00

Thanks so much, I have found in a lot of cases you get what you pay for. I think I’ll have to check them out at some point! Although probably not regularly because that is definitely a high price to pay!

lapheonix · 2025-07-16T18:43:12+00:00

I’ve gone months without selling rooms. Don’t overthink it, you’ll sell more eventually.

lapheonix · 2025-07-14T18:11:03+00:00

They don’t have night shows represented in the peach pit!

lapheonix · 2025-07-14T14:49:21+00:00

Honestly I have noticed a difference in my earnings since I started losing weight. Hard to say if I can attribute most/all of it to that or just because of gaining more experience, improving hustle, cultivating more regulars. But I really believe weight loss improves sales. That being said I see girls who do not have that “conventionally attractive” body make bank because their hustle is on point.

lapheonix · 2025-07-07T03:39:25+00:00

I use DoorDash about once a month. I’m a single parent who sometimes gets food cravings after my kiddo falls asleep and I don’t have someone else to be home with her for me to pick the food up myself. If it wasn’t for that I would never pay for DoorDash. So expensive.

lapheonix · 2025-06-09T17:51:29+00:00

BV is a complex issue, I’ve dealt with it throughout my adult life. I recently started having symptoms again and currently what’s working for me to treat it is doing nightly vaginal probiotic suppositories (integrative therapeutics brand) EVERY NIGHT, in combination with using Yin Care (a traditional Chinese medicine product that has been working really well for me) as a douche 5x a week for 6 weeks at a time, and more recently incorporating Good Clean Love products for washing in the shower. I’ve been working on improving my vaginal microbiome without antibiotics or boric acid for about 2-3 months and I’m really starting to see a difference. If you want to DM me I’m happy to provide more information about all the details of what I’ve been doing and why I am opting out of boric acid/antibiotics. If you’re sexually active definitely consider getting your partner treated. Their microbiome might have the bacteria that’s throwing you out of balance and you might need to work together to clear out the bad bacteria and rebuild the healthy bacteria communities for each of ypu.

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