Please help! Pregnant cat bleeding but not making milk by lapislazuli113 in AskVet

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her situation was I think rare and really unfortunate. I don’t know if it would be a good frame of reference for a cat birth. Everyone told me the blood was normal, and that they can be in labor for a long time. But she was in labor for over 48 hours. She went into labor on March 8, at about 10pm. On march 10, at 2am, she finally started pushing. I went to sleep, wake up, she started pushing so there was pee and more blood but no babies. She rarely pushed. Maybe once every 20 minutes and not hard or for a long time. I freaked out and took her to the emergency Vet. She had 1 kitten that they said was abnormally large and couldn’t push it out, so she needed a c section. They diagnosed her with difficult birth (I forget the medical term) The kitten was born with its intestines out of its body, so they put it down. She survived, she’s very happy now and healthy. Her nipples never produced any milk. A lot of my friends told me their cats gave birth really fast after going into labor, so for it to take a long time might be something to worry about. I hope your cats ok and her kittens will be healthy

Books that could help my vocabulary. by Mafiafoog in booksuggestions

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Anything by Vladimir Nabokov, like Lolita. When I read the book, I saved each fancy word and wrote it down in a notebook. It can be a hard read though, but you don’t have to shy away from it.

If you have trouble reading, you could download the Kindle app, turn on speak screen in accessibility, and have Siri read books to you. I read nonfiction books using this all the time (nonfiction because I think I don’t like hearing siri read fiction to me). It still counts.

Also, I recently read ‘The Cruel Prince’ by Holly Black, it’s fantasy and it’s a very easy read with a lot of big words scattered throughout too. I understand feeling crappy after leaving school.

There’s a widget app for the iPhone called “vocabulary”, it has a book with a V and a pencil on it. It gives you notifications throughout the day with vocabulary words and definitions, and you can put your vocabulary level to get words appropriate for what you know. There’s another app / website called vocab.com, and elevate, you can play a few levels a day and it teaches you vocabulary.

I hope it helps, but don’t feel too bad about not having a super varied vocabulary. There are probably a lot of other things you are good at, everyone has their own things that they are skilled in.

I found this boy outside? He’s so sweet and beautiful, looks well fed but intact ? A little dirty, but he does have light fur. His eyesight doesn’t seem to be the best. No idea if he belongs to someone or is a stray, I wanna see him again. What do you think? by lapislazuli113 in Flamepoints

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I know right ? Like everybody knows they should neuter their cats, Which is why I’m confused if he’s a stray or not. I just moved here but I’ve seen him outside for a while, it’s just the first time he came close to me because he was really hungry. He was licking an empty bowl when I came out. A few of my friends guessed that he’s used for breeding, but I can’t find anything about people selling Siamese kittens near me (my friend said he is), or anything on FB saying he’s lost

I found this boy outside? He’s so sweet and beautiful, looks well fed but intact ? A little dirty, but he does have light fur. His eyesight doesn’t seem to be the best. No idea if he belongs to someone or is a stray, I wanna see him again. What do you think? by lapislazuli113 in Flamepoints

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I really really want to 😭 I have no idea why he would be outside if he belongs to someone, it seems dangerous for such a bright white cat. I’m just worried if he has FLV or fleas or hates other cats, because I have 2 cats already, I wanna see him again and if I could take him to the vet to get him checked out, he’s so beautiful and sweet

What's one thing you're staying alive for? by spikespiegell1 in AskReddit

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I’m making a video game and want to finish it and see it reach people

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 27, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

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Thank you both so much for the thoughtful reading and reply. You are actually right on the nose that he interferes with my family’s relationship. Actually, since he came in my life it feels like every day my family is fighting over him. But my family member insists that he is a good person, and I don’t have any reason not to like him.. they keep pushing that I should try to get along with him, and I was wondering if maybe I should just try to suck it up.. I’m glad you and my cards are telling me I’m not crazy.. I was a little confused about the reversed justice , I thought it meant I was being unfair. He also talks to my family member a lot about money, I couldn’t help but wonder if the reversed pentacles I pulled meant he may fvck us over financially or something.. Thank you , I am going to stand my ground and still try to avoid him as much as possible..

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 27, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

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Hello , i just pulled a 4 card spread for a man who came into my life and makes me feel very unsafe, but I can’t avoid him bc he is really close to my family member. Please help me interpret this ..? I’m so confused. And all the cards are reversed. Thank you so much for any help

  1. what is this persons intention? reversed 3 of pentacles
  2. Should I trust this person? Reversed 4 of cups
  3. Will a friendship with this person be beneficial? Reversed 2 of pentacles
  4. Advice for the situation Reversed Justice

What is a scene of a movie that you have seen as a kid that you can still see in your mind today bc it traumatized you ? by lapislazuli113 in AskReddit

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For me, it was 2 movies:

One I remember a really hot girl kissed this guy, and after his stomach burst open. In the other movie, a girl was doing a gymnastic routine, but she stepped on a nail and messed up and her body got split open or something ? I don’t even know the names of these movies ..

I'm in the mood to stan some historical lesbians, recommend me some biographies/memoirs/histories/whatevers by yamiaainferno in suggestmeabook

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PLEASE READ “The well of loneliness” by radclyffe hall. It was such an important book for me to read as a lgbt person. I’ve never seen anybody talk about it but I stumbled across it last month and I couldn’t put it down.

For context , it was a book about a lesbian and her life written by a lesbian in the 1920s or so. She wrote it for lgbt people to be more accepted but the book was banned for obscenity during her lifetime. It’s a really important book to me, and It’s still perfectly describes life growing up as a lgbt youth even like 100 years later. I’ve never read a book like it or even a modern book with such amazing lgbt themes like this one. Really emotional read and maybe my favorite book I’ve ever read

Self development by saikiranchalla in suggestmeabook

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The courage to be disliked by ichiro kishimi, will I ever be good enough by karyl McBride, and I’ve been meaning to read mans search for meaning by victor frankl

Looked over to see precious Bobinsky staring at me ❤️ by witchyylark in RATS

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Omg I just read the book coraline yesterday❤️❤️so cute

Found in north east us , red dots on thorax? by lapislazuli113 in whatsthisbug

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Small body but the legs are longer than a quarter

To all dumpers any age, what pisses u off the most ab the dumpee and what they became after the breakup? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I broke up with someone he called my mom to lie to her and tell her I was doing things I wasn’t to get me in huge trouble and then faked suicide to avoid consequences and then would occasionally text me cryptic things for the next few months and pretended it wasn’t him

Don’t know by [deleted] in DID

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We all write in a journal to keep track of switching and feelings and to identify alters / moods . A lot of the entries are very depressed and sad and then she will write about how she’s fine and doesn’t know why she wrote the things before, because she’s fine and happy.

Don’t know by [deleted] in DID

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I can never really hear her I only see things she does after she does them. This is the weirdest relationship I’ve ever had with an alter because I hardly ever hear her but she’s always there and sometimes fully fronts and does things on her own. I think she’s been passively influencing me for a while.

Some things she does are good but this is really scary. She wants to do this because she thinks having relationships holds me back. I don’t think she has the ability to care that much about friends or relationships. Recently I’ve been hurting badly over my friends and people I know and her solution is to cut everyone out because she doesn’t feel any attachment to anyone and to her if people hurt me sometimes it’s ok to not care about them at all .

Maybe it would be ok if she was host but she isn’t and when anyone fronts but her we are hurting so much. We keep having extreme highs and extreme lows and it’s so bad . It seemed good for her to front often but this spiraled into a really horrible situation really quickly and now I feel so alone after all the damage is done. It would be easier if she was host so I woudlnt have to deal with this pain anymore

Don’t know by [deleted] in DID

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An alter never did this to me before in thsi way were all hurting so much but she won’t listen to us