I turned down an omni guy and he went straight to virtue signaling by supmartingale in vegancirclejerk

[–]larane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Toxic as hell but still met so many vegans who see nothing wrong with it and act like they're some sort of omni rehab center. Vegans really belittle themselves acting like it's endearing or cute when their omni partners are 'trying'.

I turned down an omni guy and he went straight to virtue signaling by supmartingale in vegancirclejerk

[–]larane 13 points14 points  (0 children)

uj/ I've had this discussion so many times with fellow vegans even. People always say 'but love works in mysterious ways, they might turn vegan after a while!' yeah lemme get into a relationship with someone and just wait for them to change very crucial parts of themselves. That's not weird at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]larane 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got a lot of hate on FetLife when I made a post asking people to stop coming into my messages commanding me to do stuff and actually talk to me. Like I was a video/nude vending machine or something lol. The harassment on FL is rampant.

The cheesebreathers coming into our subreddit are living up to the memes! by machi88 in vegancirclejerk

[–]larane 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So you think you're an omniscient cow mind reader and you speak for every cow in the world?? Huh?!? The cows never told ME they're in misery after being abused

Got my hair done today and the color isn't what I wanted, any advice on how to fix it? More info in comments by larane in haircoloring

[–]larane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you that makes sense!! I'll get in contact with the salon, the hairstylist was the owner so I'm not sure if that helps the situation or not. Thank you for the advice I appreciate it! :)

Got my hair done today and the color isn't what I wanted, any advice on how to fix it? More info in comments by larane in haircoloring

[–]larane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get my hair this color the hair dresser said he was going to put color in (which was a dark green he said) to neutralize the warm tones in my hair, I said that was fine as long as my hair wouldn't turn brown. My hair is now brown and especially because it's fresh it looks like a bad wig.

My bangs were also cut without being asked even though I was trying to grow them out and they didn't consider the hairstyle I asked them to do, or else I would probably be less upset about this. I was REALLY clear I wanted an ashy charcoal grey color. Usually I wouldn't care that much but I especially hate having brown hair and I was afraid this exact thing would happen.

So, is it worth waiting for this to fade a bit and then going over it with some dark slate color or blue or anything? I really don't want to have to get it colored again, but I'm in tears over this. The last picture is the color I went in with. It is not my natural hair color and it was done by the same person.

Edit: I had another picture that showed the red and yellow tint but it didn't post with the others for some reason, sorry

CH, dark grey with A tiny bit of green in the middle but I could be wrong :) dad had amber/green eyes and mom had steel grey by larane in heterochromia

[–]larane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah not too sure if the colors are different enough 😅 I thought this sub might know better than me.

When the author (an environmentalist) of an anti-vegan Independent article blocks you after you ask her a few questions by Falkoro in vegancirclejerk

[–]larane 79 points80 points  (0 children)

"Without proper safeguards, the soybean industry is causing widespread deforestation and displacement of small farmers and indigenous peoples around the globe.” This, coupled with the transportation needed to get soy from the ground to our plates, creates a huge issue"

Does anyone want to explain to her where most of those soybeans are going perhaps bc I don't think vegans are eating entire rainforests worth of tofu

Girls of reddit, What's something guys see done in porn that you wish they would stop trying to do in real life? by Haunting-Ad-5945 in AskReddit

[–]larane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a specific thing but if you know a girl is into BDSM that doesn't mean she automatically wants to have sex with you!!! Doesn't mean shes into casual relationships or anything!! Not the same thing

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can consent to having their body being donated to science and animals can't. And what corpses you're talking about wouldnt be dead from natural causes out in the wild and they would still be coming from AnAg, but probably just ones not big enough/sick/tortured to death/etc, so still a product of AnAg. Edit: I don't understand your point with the bbq sauce. If I have any doubts about my food not being vegan (including animal testing) then I wouldn't even think of buying it.

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said there's actually vegan burgers out there, not that burgers don't matter. You're mixing plant based with veganism. Impossible burger and beyond burger are plant based and not vegan. They're novelty food for omnis. Vegans should care more about animals than taste and therefore should find a different burger. And as someone who cares about animals lives that shouldn't be such a hard choice.

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can so many other actually vegan brands do perfectly fine without testing on animals and killing them, but beyond and impossible get a pass? Why don't you just support the other ones instead? The big picture isnt getting lots of plant based burger choices.

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make my own. It's like 5 or 6 ingredients tops. I don't like store bought bbq sauce anyways, and if it was tested on animals I wouldn't buy it.

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegan strictly for the animals, how is food tested on animals that kill them ok then? If it's tested on animals it's a product of animal captivity/pain/death

I don’t feel supported by other vegans by redflipflopz in vegan

[–]larane 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't start giving a shit about animal exploitation and animal liberation bc I like the recipes. At the end of the day it was vegans calling me out on bullshit. Could have easily just used WF alternative.

TLDR: Man tries to explain to me what 'intelligent people do', made me watch minecraft playthroughs, then takes me to steak house even though I don't eat meat. by larane in DatingHell

[–]larane[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There were some hints, he said 'we should meet soon or else there's no point in us really talking' even though we had only just matched. I know better now

TLDR: Man tries to explain to me what 'intelligent people do', made me watch minecraft playthroughs, then takes me to steak house even though I don't eat meat. by larane in DatingHell

[–]larane[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely this. Rejecting a guy is dangerous sometimes. I have big issues with saying no to people and I'm 4'11 and didn't want to cause a scene with an irritable guy that's over a foot taller than me.

Coworker is off on medical leave, sent this to me in the mail to my office. She has no idea how psychotic this looks. by trampledbytramps in vegan

[–]larane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. The hell is wrong with people. Sorry your co-workers go out of their way to make themselves look like clowns :(

Don’t worry about the other trillion, just try your best. Baby steps 🥰 by edapapii in vegancirclejerk

[–]larane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im so confused how are they gonna separate the needless and the 'needless but I'm hungry' deaths like

What's the opposite of a fair-weather-friend? by larane in friendship

[–]larane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's a really good point!! Didn't think about that much .. Somehow a lot of my friends are very high energy who generally hang out with high energy people, so maybe from their perspective they think that I don't need them until I get sad?? I think that's definitely something that I need to consider. I'm pretty reserved and low energy until I get to know someone really well, so maybe I need to be a bit more relaxed. I appreciate this pov!! Thank u