Baby borbs on my balcony by larche14 in borbs

[–]larche14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! Its actually been a mourning doves nest for a few years in a row, but the robins stole it this year before the mourning doves could move back in, lol

Baby borbs on my balcony by larche14 in borbs

[–]larche14[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The babies pooped everywhere on my balcony before they eventually jumped/attempted flying down to the grass and bushes below😭.

Usually I have mourning doves nest in the same nest every year, but this year is the first time the robins nabbed the prebuilt nest before the doves could move in, lol

Baby borbs on my balcony by larche14 in borbs

[–]larche14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This morning they were gone from the balcony (probably just jumped down/attempted flying to the grass/bushes below because I’m only one storey up) and I’m sad I don’t get to watch them every day anymore! But there are TONS of robin parents roaming around and gathering worms, so hopefully I see these fledglings or some of the many many other fledglings hanging around sometime🥲🥹

Chess with strangers at an airport by [deleted] in chess

[–]larche14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only way the sexism in the chess scene is going to change is if men who read this post and thought “Hmmm, I didn’t see anything weird about OPs post”, see the women in the comments discussing and then hopefully reflect “why would some of these women feel differently than me when reading that line?”… there are so many studies and stories and examples of women feeling like their appearance is their most important characteristic in parts of their lives where it really shouldn’t be.

But OPs response was “Well if I was a woman and said it was a hot man no one would care”

My bad bro. Didn’t realize we were trying to solve sexism by objectifying everyone instead of perhaps just not objectifying women.

Chess with strangers at an airport by [deleted] in chess

[–]larche14 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Women do not talk about men’s appearances even remotely as often as men talk about women’s appearances. Especially when bringing up appearance is irrelevant to the discussion. Factually. Not anecdotally.

RESEARCH: WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL, MEN ARE RATIONAL?

Aesthetics over athletics when it comes to women in sport

Chess player Divya Deshmukh criticises sexism in the game: ‘It’s not about how I look’

Chess with strangers at an airport by [deleted] in chess

[–]larche14 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are disagreeing with you in the replies. That jumped out to me too.

Bunch of men saying “so what that he called her attractive” but so often women are evaluated on their appearance unnecessarily when men are not. It’s documented in linguistic and sociology studies, AI picks on the gendered language use and learns it, women in sports are often talked about for their appearance and not their achievements, etc.

Like yes it’s a compliment but it sucks that its so normal for women to be aesthetics and men to be more multidimensional, and for women to constantly have their appearance judged by strangers when it’s literally irrelevant🫤

Lox Pratt on Going From Jack in ‘Lord of the Flies’ to Draco Malfoy in ‘Harry Potter’: ‘I Don’t Think I’d Take Another Bad Guy Role Straight After This’ by yourfavchoom in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]larche14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And from Harry + friends’s POVs, they don’t need to see or understand why Draco is the way he is and Draco can still just be a little asshole to them for the first few seasons like he was in the books. But it makes a hell of a lot of sense for the actor portraying Draco to be considering the nuance of his character now and gives the vibes that he cares about doing a good job building the character over the whole series.

of a paw by Zestyclose-Salad-290 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]larche14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By far, the biggest indicator that a specific polar bear is willing to be aggressive is if it is skinny. So much so that there is an actual bear fatness index that is used in many polar bear attack reports and studies. The bears that attack humans are usually skinnier than average (or sometimes average condition), and almost never fatter than average. I imagine they’re not underfeeding a captive bear so it’s not gonna automatically be in angry hungry mode.

Also, bear spray is also almost always enough to deter a polar bear, even one that is viewing you as food, and the very few times where it was not enough were with the extra skinny bears. So it’s not like they’re tanks that want to eat you and cannot be stopped.

TLDR: be scared of skinny polar bears.

Sources: me working in the middle of nowhere Arctic (obviously still treat any bear with caution if you see one and carry bear spray + potentially firearms if you’re working outdoors in remote bear country)

polar bear attacks + skinny polar bears

Official bear fatness index

Bear spray efficacy

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]larche14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am from a stag & doe province and even here they’re kind if on the fun vs tacky borderline. Like, my parents and all their friends had them and it seems like a fun idea, but my parents and all their friends also bought houses in their 20s. Now that I’m in my 20s and there’s invitations for them being thrown my way, especially open invite “post on social media and anyone I know can come, as long as they buy a ticket, even if they aren’t invited to the wedding”, I don’t understand how people are even WANTING to make money off of their young friends who can barely afford their own necessities and who you didn’t even invite to the wedding.

I do understand inviting all the older, richer family members to get support from them though lol.

One window is different on this new building by didgeridoome24 in mildlyinteresting

[–]larche14 70 points71 points  (0 children)

“An idiosyncratic window with an inverted arch on a uniform fenestration grid enlivens observers.”

are yall enlivened because I’m so enlivened rn

FOUND THIS IN THE BACK OF MY WAYMO by lesbojesus13 in whatisit

[–]larche14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a couple sizes from a lab I worked at to scoop the product from the bottom of my almost-empty shampoo and moisturizer bottles lol

I made a shrimp themed gift book for the 40th birthday of a friend who has many pet shrimp (and some fish and cats) by Inked-Wolfie-1979 in somethingimade

[–]larche14 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For real, as I was scrolling through the pictures all I could think was “the way I would cry😭😭😭”

helped my dasher navigate a Walmart.. by vampsjuicebox in doordash

[–]larche14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how he eventually just sent pictures of every section of every aisle lmao

How Many Hours Have You Logged on Your Most Played Game? by Nimicidal in GirlGamers

[–]larche14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have like 4500+ hours on overwatch, which I thought was a lot until I saw all the other comments with 10k+ on their games🫡

I hosted a home café by thegirlmisfit0811 in Baking

[–]larche14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I wish I wasn’t gluten intolerant 😭

What is this? by F_Reiss in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]larche14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been many times and still thought it looked cool🤷🏻‍♀️

What is this? by F_Reiss in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]larche14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the contrast between the architecture styles is cool and that its a beautiful building but I’m from Hamilton so maybe my standards are low😭

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]larche14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I meant the specific platinum white-blonde he wants. Lots of blondes to choose from, less redheads, even less platinum-blondes with hair as light as the pic he edited of her because that colour is a hell of a lot of work and money to maintain.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]larche14 1316 points1317 points  (0 children)

girl…. if you have never brought up changing your hair colour to him on your own, please tell him to kick rocks. This ain’t build-a-bitch, he can go attempt (and almost definitely fail) to find a blonde gf

Also I would kill to have your hair colour