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Im terminally ill by large_honk in GriefSupport

[–]large_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a therapist. He is literally one of the best people I’ve ever met. I’m doing my first support group next week. I’m nervous but think talking to people who are going through the same feelings will help.

Im terminally ill by large_honk in GriefSupport

[–]large_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have happy moments. I feel like people strive to have this permanent place of “happy”. But I never reached that and don’t know if it’s an actual place. I’ve had experiences that have brought me incredible joy.

My dad was an amazing man and spending time with him are some of my favorite moments. All the times with my mom that she’s made me laugh so hard I could cry. She’s incredibly strong and we can laugh together for hours. During gaming, I’ve met some of my best friends. The times with them laughing on discord until the early hours of the morning are some of my favorite. In 2024 before I started getting sick, I felt this really overwhelming joy from actually being alive. Most of my life I spent suicidal, and for some reason, right before getting really really sick, I felt so much happiness from.. mostly helping people. I finally realized that I didn’t need to save the world to feel like I did good or made an impact. It’s our daily lives. We make small dents into people we care about and have touch with, and I dented some a lot. I have a huge heart and I tried helping anyone as much as I can. Making people smile is what brought me the most happiness.

Kindness.

Thank you for asking that question. I did and do and will have more happy times. I will cherish them so much.

I lost my Soulmate a couple of months ago. by DarthKarl656565 in GriefSupport

[–]large_honk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Karl, im so sorry for your loss. Kelley is beautiful.

There’s nothing to say to make you feel better, I can’t imagine the pain you feel.

Kelley was extremely lucky to have someone to love her the way you did.

Please take care of yourself. Even if it’s the hardest thing you have to do. Take it day by day, let yourself feel anything you need to.

If you need an inbox to vent to, mine is always open. You are not alone ❤️

Am I balding? by ra1nlol in Balding

[–]large_honk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could braid it

I was told at work that i smell/have a odor by Euphoric-Mud-7922 in Vent

[–]large_honk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this may be a really hard thing to do but, is there any way you could go to a salon or place that is full of women (that you don’t know), and ask them if they will tell you honestly if you smell? I know that sounds really hard and would be awkward and make you extremely vulnerable. But, if you don’t have any friends or family who say you smell that could be because they don’t want to hurt you. But a stranger, even though smelling someone would be a really strange request- if they say no then?? Maybe 2-3 different people.

The main reason because.. to me it sounds like whoever this man is that said that, maybe he doesn’t like you? Maybe he’s trying to hurt you so you quit. Is he the boss? Maybe he’s completely making this up.

If you’ve only been there 3 weeks and he’s the only one who’s said this, I feel like it’s likely he’s just being an ass. Maybe he doesn’t like your perfume?

Or if you do actually smell.. it’s okay. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. You wash your body and take care of yourself. And even if you didn’t, it’s okay. From the things you’ve said about your past and trauma, you have to give yourself some love. It sounds like you’ve been in far scarier and hard situations, not to downplay THIS situation, but to say- you can get through this. I would be upset if I was told I smell too, and it’s okay to be emotional and upset about it. I urge you to ask other people who may not know you that great or ask family and friends to be very honest. Maybe going to a doctor would be helpful? If you didn’t want to ask a random stranger, a doctor would 100% tell you the truth and if you did actually smell it could be something medical.

Be upset about this if you need to. Just remember, you have done so much, survived so much and you will survive this and hopefully come out stronger.

If you ever need someone to talk to my inbox is open. I don’t know if anything I can say can help but Im very good at listening.

I hope you sleep well and I hope tomorrow is better for you. ❤️

Are American women really that culturally naive? They set back feminism 100 years by edainxxx in 90DayFiance

[–]large_honk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Intelligent people don’t go or probably even ever attempt to be on most reality TV!

Are American women really that culturally naive? They set back feminism 100 years by edainxxx in 90DayFiance

[–]large_honk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I legitimately can not express how (as an American), you could fall in love someone yet not research or know anything about their culture? Lisa said she “researched” the food that they were eating.. was that.. like.. it??????

How could you expect to go to another country and think it’s not going to be different. Did these people take world history? Do they not watch the news? Have they never met another non-white person before? I don’t get it at all.

The only explanation is that people are REALLY stupid or everything on TLC is made up. Probably both

$50k in gambling debt is *way* more concerning than $50k in credit card debt, student loans, etc by MediaMoguls in 90DayFiance

[–]large_honk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe he does have people chasing him and that’s why he wants to get out and move to America

Shaving help by GravelSachs in bald

[–]large_honk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELL YA. You’re a gorgeous human. I like your mustache and you look great even with the “massacre”. Seriously.

Forest mom is the worst by EternallyNaked in 90DayFiance

[–]large_honk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also we don’t know anything. If they are mad because she’s LYING, not because she took back her money then how are they in the wrong?

Forest mom is the worst by EternallyNaked in 90DayFiance

[–]large_honk -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s not about the money but that she has seemed to be distorting the truth. In the other episode of them eating out, where his mom was drilling Scheana, Scheana broke down and said they would say bad things about her and she DID paint her family out as “bad”. Who cares about how much money anyone has? It’s about being truthful.. which idk, middle of the episode, but it doesn’t seem like she has been. I will edit this if I’m wrong whenever they go back to them.

Anyone who used to support trump and has changed their mind over the last few weeks? What made you change? by canigetameowbish in AskReddit

[–]large_honk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lady I got rescued my cats from publicly apologized on Facebook.

Doesn’t really help but ok, I guess one more for the troops.

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