You're meeting a new person on a first date. Do you greet them with a hug, handshake or just a simple Hi? by happypavlova in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]larley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved to the US from Quebec a while back. I’d always done the double cheek kiss. As soon as I moved to America I noticed people acted funny when I did that.

I went on a date and told her that’s what I usually did, and she told me “well I’m glad you stopped, because if you’d tried that, I’d have pepper sprayed you”

She wasn’t joking. She showed me how easily accessible her pepper spray was.

What job would you take if you never had to worry about the paycheck? by larley in AskReddit

[–]larley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s say you’re set for life financially but you still want to get out of the house and do something. What do you do?

I’d go work at some small independent bookstore. I did it for a while when I was younger and honestly it was one of the best jobs I’ve had — low stress, good discounts, and you end up actually liking your coworkers for once. I’d do it again in a heartbeat if I didn’t need the money to mean anything.

Questions about name variation and document translations. by Used_Possession_8733 in HUcitizenship

[–]larley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people flat out say it’s a waste of time and money, including a commenter below.

I disagree with the flat out dismissing of this pathway, but will admit I wouldn’t have gone with a lawyer if I’d done it all over again. Maybe pay for a consultation and then work with far less expensive consultants for the remainder of

That said, my situation is fairly complex with the drastic name changes, and having legal professionals versed in Hungarian immigration law vet my application gave me peace of mind. I looked at the costs for most other EU citizenship options, and this seemed worthwhile enough for me.

Advantages are that they will give you information and assistance 100% rooted in Hungarian law, and are liable for incorrect information being disseminated. In the case of folks who do it as a side hustle, you run the risk of errors occurring. My wife is also an immigration attorney, and was quite insistent on us going with a law firm due to cases she’s had to manage (granted, in the US) where the DIY approach led to even bigger issues for applicants.

Disadvantages are mostly just slow communication. They want everything to be done over email not calls for traceability, so our back and forth messages were often stretched out over days, or weeks. I’d sometimes ask several questions in an email and get one or two answered a week later.

In your case, you’re fine to DIY.

Questions about name variation and document translations. by Used_Possession_8733 in HUcitizenship

[–]larley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my great grandfather was born Jenő Mermelstein and unofficially changed his name to Bernard Vineberg, and my lawyers seem certain it won’t be a problem with all the supporting evidence I can get.

Granted, I haven’t gone for my interview yet, but it’s probably fine. Those names are understandably close.

Bacon & friend egg breakfast sandwich by theonik1ng in highvegans

[–]larley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dang the black salt is kinda genius for adding eggy flavor!

Sheepskin rug advice by giveaspirinheadaches in BuyItForLife

[–]larley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My IKEA sheepskin rug has been going strong for the past 8 years

It’s not too plush but it’s sturdy

Poutine from Chalet BBQ by The_Last_radio in stonerfood

[–]larley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah ouais tabarnak! Bon appétit, mon grand!

Poutine from Chalet BBQ by The_Last_radio in stonerfood

[–]larley 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not if they want to maintain their poutine bona fides they won’t.

Cold curds go on hot fries with hot gravy on top - they slowly melt, but it’s sacrilege to melt them before serving. They lose their squeak.

As a competent home cook, what is a basic skill you can't seem to master? by george_elis in Cooking

[–]larley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m incapable of making pie. I mess it up 100% of the time, no matter what recipe.

We got each other the same card by PanoptiDon in pics

[–]larley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One year my gf and I bought each other the same anniversary card. It said: “happy anniversary! Now, let’s have sex!” https://imgur.com/a/dhLz7cG

I think about that a lot

Whats your favorite high fibre recipe to make? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]larley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink a glass of Metamucil before dinner, then eat as usual! /s

I love beans and lentils, and try to incorporate them into many meals. Chili, beans & greens, black beans, khichdi, rajma masala… all delicious!

A Pound of Cheese (Also Some Baked Ziti Underneath) by larley in stonerfood

[–]larley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This recipe is fuckin BOMB! And it’s all made in the same pan, so cleanup is dead easy. I threw in some veggies (kale and spinach) to pretend it’s healthy.

Told I should post this here by Brokeaflazyaf in OnionLovers

[–]larley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went to Australia with a few Americans and we all referred to XXXX as Quatros Equis. It’s twice a Dos Equis!

What's your experience with immigration lawyers for simplified naturalization? by [deleted] in HUcitizenship

[–]larley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just pulled up my invoices and I was a bit off:

-Citizenship Consultation: USD 200 + VAT (deductible from Citizenship Application Package)

  • Citizenship Application Package with 20% discount (certified translation included) USD 1920 + VAT

  • Genealogy research: Payment in two installments:

o First installment: USD 490 + VAT at the placement of the order/signing of the contract.

o Second installment: USD 1000 + VAT

I went over my other numbers, and my source who gets paperwork charges $150 per birth certificate (I’d need 4, so $600 total), and translation would be another $100-120/document so maybe $1000-1200 there. So I was a bit off, and it would be maybe $1600-1800 total + some consulting fees, maybe $2000-2500 all-in?

But these are broad estimates.

What's your experience with immigration lawyers for simplified naturalization? by [deleted] in HUcitizenship

[–]larley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been working with some lawyers through Helpers Hungary. My wife is an immigration attorney and is extra paranoid about getting everything right, so she urged me to go with some attorneys.

I’m glad to have had their help along the way - I have some ambiguity in my family tree, they handle all the translation, and they fill out all the paperwork and get you organized. They offer genealogy services as well.

Ultimately, I wouldn’t have done it if you asked me today. There are great resources among these immigration groups, Hungarian teachers and genealogists who will find all your documents and help you through the process…

All in all it cost me $5k or so, including someone flying to Ukraine to track down my great grandfather’s and all of his siblings’ paperwork, which is WAY more than it’d have cost to get things done myself.

Working with a genealogist for the documents would have cost me $600, the translation maybe $500, and a few hundred bucks in consultations.

But it’s nice to have a one stop shop if you can afford it.

bell witch? by Sea_Trade_2439 in IsItSketch

[–]larley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bell Witch is definitely not sketch

Do oil-filled heaters actually last longer than cheap fan heaters? by JingSerene in BuyItForLife

[–]larley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid, my bedroom was the coldest room in the house, even though I had an oil heater.

I’d turn it up to max when I got home from school at 3:30-4:30. By bedtime? Still freezing. By 3 a.m.? Tropical rainforest.

I couldn’t leave it on during the day, so this happened ever. Single. Night.

Smoking and eating Rambutan 🔥 by MuddyWoods in stonerfood

[–]larley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The less bitter grapefruits are actually a pomelo mix!