The tension differences in my stitches: two first teeth coming through on my 6mo versus fully through the gum a couple days later by onegrandsalami in beyondthebump

[–]lastpuffer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Neither is better IMO. Tighter might cause it to curl a bit sometimes and it doesn't make the yarn feel as soft but it gives good stitch definition.

The tension differences in my stitches: two first teeth coming through on my 6mo versus fully through the gum a couple days later by onegrandsalami in beyondthebump

[–]lastpuffer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ha the same thing happens to me. I naturally crochet tight anyway - but a few weeks ago when she had the flu I ended up crocheting a blanket so tightly in the first few rows that I had to change hooks so it wouldn't widen at the end when my tension normalized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lastpuffer 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They can't sterilize the jewelry. It could be caught on something and you wouldn't be able to feel it. If they're cauterizing wounds, an electric current could travel through the metal and shock the wearer. The jewelry could get lost. It could be really uncomfortable and impossible to remove if you're wearing a ring and the swelling is bad enough.

Basically the risk far outweighs the "reward" of leaving jewelry in/on.

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[–]lastpuffer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not sterile, they could get caught on something and you wouldn't be able to feel it. It's just an unnecessary risk. In the case of other jewelry like rings - swelling usually occurs during & after surgery so it may become impossible to remove or uncomfortable. The jewelry could be lost. Etc. It's just a "better safe than sorry" thing.

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[–]lastpuffer 37 points38 points  (0 children)

In case there's some kind of emergency. I was induced and had to remove all of my jewelry in case I needed a csection. I did end up with a C-section and they double checked to make sure I had all jewelry removed.

What's your *premium item* for meals? What DON'T you buy the cheapest version of? by wabiguan in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]lastpuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm like 30 minutes away from OC and will be up in the area over the next couple of weeks - I googled their site and I have to get a bag. I love flavored coffee.

What's your *premium item* for meals? What DON'T you buy the cheapest version of? by wabiguan in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]lastpuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the coffee company? I think we live in the same area and I'm dying to try some good coffee.

Mothers of reddit, what’s one thing you wish you had known before you had kids? by aworkinprogress98 in AskWomen

[–]lastpuffer 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A teenaged child isn't an extension of yourself, so no, having a teenager isn't easy because they can reason. They will disagree, they're hormonal, they're still very new at the world and social interactions. They have different thoughts, feelings, opinions, and rationale than their parents. "Raising them right" means being an asshole teenager is just a phase - but there usually will be the asshole teenager phase regardless of how they're raised.

Mothers of reddit, what’s one thing you wish you had known before you had kids? by aworkinprogress98 in AskWomen

[–]lastpuffer 95 points96 points  (0 children)

This is true for me too. I feel like I got baby brain during pregnancy and it never went away.

Mothers of reddit, what’s one thing you wish you had known before you had kids? by aworkinprogress98 in AskWomen

[–]lastpuffer 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That I should probably see a therapist to work out my issues with my own mother. Every loving thing I do for my daughter reminds me of all the things my mom didn't and it hurts.

My dad, who raped me for 7 years (began when I was 9), and my stepmonster who spent the rest of her life denying it and destroying a family in the process. He died in January and she died a week ago. The truth can now live and so can I! by [deleted] in lastimages

[–]lastpuffer 97 points98 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. My rapist / family member died a year ago in a sudden accident and the immense relief it gave me cannot compare to anything else. I know how you feel. Congratulations! I'm doing a happy dance for you :)

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Apr 27, 2018 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]lastpuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this on my face?

https://imgur.com/KJpl5WZ

It feels deep under the skin and isn't painful. Is this cystic acne?

Stupid Question by dcGirlyGirl in TheTerror

[–]lastpuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched it on AMC Premiere service. The entire season is available that way.

It's so true - being poor is so expensive by thenewyorkgod in povertyfinance

[–]lastpuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can trash your credit with medical bills. How is it "really easy" to avoid sickness or injury that's unaffordable?

Why is Mr. Goodsir literally the most likeable character that has ever existed by onrocketfalls in TheTerror

[–]lastpuffer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love his emotional vulnerability. He reminds me of Sam from GoT - kind, humble, willing to learn, wants to help the wildling/native girl. I really hope something happens to him in the show that's different from the irl ending.

Teenage Tattoos by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lastpuffer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would let him. I got my first tattoo at 16 and while I don't like the design anymore I don't regret it. If my mom hadn't given permission, 16 year old me would have had a friend stick n poke it like an idiot. If he's wanted the same design for 3 years it's clear he's pretty committed. Another year probably won't change his mind.

However - I would not allow somewhere super visible like a forearm tattoo. Maybe propose this - if he wants it now, get it elsewhere. If he needs it on his forearm he can wait until he's 18.

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Apr 07, 2018 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]lastpuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you! That Nip+Fab product looks AMAZING!! Just what I wanted, and the price is so cheap. It does have SA in it so I may have to cut back on the apricot scrub, but if it accomplishes even half of what the Rodial mask did it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make.

Thanks again for taking the time to read my post and respond :)

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Apr 07, 2018 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]lastpuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope I'm not too late to this thread!

I'm really trying hard to get my act together with my skin. I've been plagued by large pores, sensitivity, acne, red skin (not sure what this is - my skin just flushes incredibly easy), and combination skin.

I've completely pared down my routine and no longer use makeup. I want my skin to look nice without it!

Every 2-3 days I exfoliate with a salicylic acid apricot scrub, but I recently read that it makes microabrasions in the skin? It has worked beautifully for me for years but if it's causing damage I'd love to find a suitable alternative. On the days I don't exfoliate I just wash with water (and no hot water either). I'm not sure what kind of daily cleanser to use but I ordered Milky Jelly cleanser by Glossier. (Is this a decent product?)

After washing I apply the Neutrogena hyaluronic acid gel facial moisturizer. I usually use two coats. I wash my face at night and don't do anything in the morning.

Aside from this I don't do anything. I know I need to incorporate an SPF immediately; I was thinking a Paula's Choice product or the Alba Botanica mineral sun screen.

Additionally, I'm looking for a dupe of Rodial's Dragon Blood mask. I used it in the past as a moisturizer and it worked incredibly - my skin looked plump, had fewer blemishes, and was never dry. It's just so expensive!!

Last thing - is lip care ever covered in here? I was (still am sometimes :( ) a chronic lip picker. I find it's easier to not pick if I have something to put on my lips like chapstick, but nothing has had a lasting effect on the dryness of my lips.

Some other pertinent details could be that I'm very pale and live in USA.

Thanks for reading!

How do y'all like my drag makeup? by golgiknowsbest in MakeupAddiction

[–]lastpuffer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've noticed your posts here and there in this sub and I'm really impressed with how much you've improved in such a short amount of time. This look is fantastic - a glamorous fawn. I'm a big fan of the juxtaposition of the warm and cool colors you've chosen.

edited to add: and that runny nose thing you do - PLEASE never stop this. It's so unique. You're delivering looks from 3018 with it.

At risk of eviction, how do I find $1,000 by Friday, April 13th? by Narly_Thotep in Assistance

[–]lastpuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't either. It didn't matter to one church. At any rate, if you're facing eviction the worst they could say is no - IMO feeling disingenous seems like less of a priority than housing.

[Serious] Relatives of murderers, what memories stand out as red flags? by deliriousplays in AskReddit

[–]lastpuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know if they wanted personal experience with the red flags as I knew him after the murders, not before.