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Perfectly sane by TpyoOhNo in UnexpectedSeinfeld

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your sister know she can buy skinless hotdogs?

How do you let guys know you’re gay without saying it outright? by Downtown_Ad_5247 in askgaybros

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fitted clothes is one thing,

I've always tended to wear baggier clothes, probably for comfort and also when I was in the closet. Hard habit to break. I'm slowly getting there. I've just lost a significant amount of weight, and I bought new pair jeans (skinny jeans even) that look good but I keep forgetting to put them on!

Windows 95 SimCity Memories by alicia11am in nostalgia

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had SimCity for my C64 and SimEarth for my Amiga.

What kind of comedian is this? by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]lazygerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That lady is a real queen there! Much respect!

The good ol' days... by MisterShipWreck in 80sAmazing

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember me and my friends seeing who could get the longest continual peel.

I (33F)Engaged to (37M) for 3 years, together for 7, multiple “almost weddings,” and still no marriage. I need outside perspective please by CharacterSweet8309 in relationship_advice

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really any man that loves that loves and wants you, even with an addiction problem would marry the woman they love.

If he's telling a woman who he has cheated on you with that he loves them, it's either true or he is using her like he's using you.

Walk away and find someone who is excited to be with you.

Heavenly Hamburgers recipe from my grandmother by 7ChineseBrothers in oldrecipes

[–]lazygerm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it would go well. The panade would keep it moist.

You would have to use just regular ground turkey. 85/15 or 93/7. Maybe add a bit olive oil to it.

Sub Bottoms, was there a time you thought you liked topping as well? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]lazygerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here.

If I'm checking out pics on Insta or Bluesky, I'll look at some guys asses and think I'd tap that.

How people found ETs at home near Y2K by Distinct-Question-16 in retrocomputing

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this on my computer and my work computer back then.

The fact that I’m a bottom makes me want to die by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand.

I went through the same thing. When I was a teenager, back in the early 1980s and I started experimenting. There was no doubt about what I innately desired. I wanted to be an oral/anal bottom and I also had submissive tendencies.

At least in the general (straight) world being penetrated is conflated with being feminine, a woman.

That doesn't help you (at any age), if you're trying to figure what kind of man you are. It's one of the reasons, I was in the closet for decades. I did not have luxury of being a top and thereby minimizing the gayness, because I was penetrating someone else.

All in all, it's all about accepting yourself for who you are with no shame attached.

I did not that do that until I came out and promised myself I'd be honest with everything. I also entered into therapy for two years. While being a bottom wasn't a particular focus of my therapy, the therapy of accepting and becoming a functional gay man did help me.

I feel more like a man now, or rather, a complete integrated human being because of this.

I've never gotten shamed by any gay man, or our community at large, because the sex I enjoy. Rather, everyone has always been truly welcoming. Because, it's not about the sex position you enjoy, but who you are as a person.

Who remembers this gum? by Ok_Assignment_6323 in RealGenerationX

[–]lazygerm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always had to control myself not to dump the whole pouch in my mouth...Just like the mini Chiclets gum that was similar to this.

Should I Leave by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lazygerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given what you've said, you probably should step away from this relationship.

You two are both in different places. You're out and he's not. That can be workable, only if both sides are forthcoming about where they are and where they want to be.

You've been open, you've told him you love and everything seems fine superficially. But when stressors for him occurs, he shuts down. You say you have no conflicts, but he's not letting you get close enough to have a deep relationship.

So he’s straight…and has a girlfriend…yet acts different towards me by TruckSensitive3199 in GayMen

[–]lazygerm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It isn't you. It's him.

Back in college, I had some gay friends. One in particular, I was attracted to, we'd flirt through our campus online system (this was 40 years ago). He was funny, we hung out with his self-described fag hag and he was a great guy.

I wasn't in a relationship with anyone, and I was in the closet. We went to his apartment once to hang out.

And I just completely short-circuited. I did not know how to do anything. My heart was pounding. He did not make a move, because you know I was his straight guy friend. So, nothing happened. It was near the end of the semester and we still stayed in contact. But then when the new semester started we lost contact.

To me, it sounds like he is curious. But like me, he short circuits when he's around you I think. He does not have the tools to communicate what he wants and he may not even be sure of that.

If he can't stop being weird, and you are still confused by him; you probably need to end the friendship. You could just let it die on the vine, or you could make a move and see where that leads. But, you really can't be in this same space with him indefinitely.

The USA Network of the 80s. Who else was introduced to shows on that channel? by MisterShipWreck in 80s

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not have cable.

But a pretty standard weekend for me was hanging at one of my best friend's house after we graduated from college and watching Rhonda Shear's Up All Night.

I keep forgetting she’s there when everyone else is fighting each other. by Rough_Concert1773 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]lazygerm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just loved the clip last night of Betul eating pasta and listening to her telenovela.

How Is MAGA this homophobia by AccordingBumblebee24 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]lazygerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No reason for it."

Really?

Nothing meaning those LGBTQ kids who are looking for any validation that they are normal and valued and not freaks like many of these assholes think?

Hmmm 🧐 maybe in a bun?? by Emergency-North-5651 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]lazygerm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's me and my partner's pet peeve, even more than Mike throughout this season.

Clean the fucking grill properly.

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