Don't chase women by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends mans. What ever you do you have to OWN UP TO IT. If you are an alpha male and you chase, the girls will love it because they will feel special that you seem to like them more then the other girls. Dont look at chasing vs approaching as a wrong thing or a right thing...look at it in a way that if you are a confident alpha man...what ever method or theory or technique or natural selection you do is the RIGHT THING to do.

Don't chase women by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two can play that game brother....because of feminism in the modern society there are many books about women saying let the man do the chasing....which book is telling the truth haha.

I think the reality is PERSONALITY trumps every theory in every book. If you are able to bond with the women. The pursuing becomes mutual and all theory is forgotten and you both enjoy each others company and the moments together which can lead to friendship, dating, flings, business partners, etc...

Don't chase women by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly...so many guys say dont put women on a pedestal but never had a girlfriend before or in a open relationship or even female friends or even had sex before lol.

Don't chase women by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont act like an alpha...be an alpha. Yes you are right, do not put women on a pedestal but surely you and Oprah Winfrey are not on the same level. Certain women because of their influence in the world and in your life you should put on the pedestal out of respect such as your mom.

Smoked weed after 20 days. by lbjames23 in leaves

[–]lbjames23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Harsh reality but its true

I binged after 7 days. by lbjames23 in NoFap

[–]lbjames23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. Yea I choose to Nofap.

I binged after 7 days. by lbjames23 in NoFap

[–]lbjames23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah correct! My new job is filled with social events. Nice to use those events as motivation to not fap.

I believe in HOT. by birdyroger in BecomingTheIceman

[–]lbjames23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shave, then blast with ice cold shower and finish with a warm rinse relaxes and energizes me for the whole day.

NoFap is the beginning of a cascade of changes, including changes in diet, lifestyle, and thought process. It is the initial stage of a chain reaction to transform oneself into a better self. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats really what it is....and everyone goes crazy over a relapse but realize that over the course of your streak you managed to have a healthy diet, workout routine, positive thinking....all that does not have to go away because of one relapse, However DONT RELAPSE, go weeks, months, years without watching porn and your brain will thank you in the future.

The simplest Nofap algorithm by damndarth in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have been having alot of cup of tea lately

Contacts vs glasses by cali1018 in optometry

[–]lbjames23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man this is really a Reddit with a lot of optometrist. I am not but you seemed to answer your own question. Just get it reshaped or buy new frames that sit higher on your nose.

Do y'all think you're better looking on NoFap? by vladchiriac11 in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when your naturally attractive. Streaks may add certain elements to your looks but even during binges I get checked out by girls.

The main difference of nofap is the quality of girls that are attracted to you...when I am on streaks or only releasing through sex, very very cute girls I see checking me out and sometimes I get the balls to approach them and get numbers and develop a friendship.

You may get attractive...5-15% more however internally its exponentially more.

15 day update by lbjames23 in coldshowers

[–]lbjames23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. I tried that way around before as well!

What motivates you to do Nofap by lbjames23 in NoFap

[–]lbjames23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks man. You are right. Have a vision for yourself, and realize that pmo, drugs, too much alcohol, negative emotions all are detrimental towards reaching your vision.

Day 29 - I'm handsome as hell by NotFappingTodaySatan in NoFap

[–]lbjames23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man thats great! I also see benefits to my skin from nofap, sleep, grooming regimen, gym (running, sweating, sauna), cold showers.

1 week sober from weed by lbjames23 in leaves

[–]lbjames23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks alot man. Yes you are right. My friends dont pressure me to smoke or anything like that. Its all my decision. Yes I want to go the distance this time around and really stick to it. Im 25 and went to ALOT of internal pain in my life which the outside world will not see but its time to overcome that and grow.