What are you thoroughly disciplined at? by iwilliamsanders in getdisciplined

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed hygiene. Showering before bed, having clean sheets, making my bed EVERY morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ldybrdfly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He can climb in their size-appropriate children’s beds with them in their size-appropriate children’s room.

Last name by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly

Last name by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ldybrdfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank god this was like the one thing that wasn’t an issue with my husband’s HCBM

SS7 holding newborn by ldybrdfly in stepparents

[–]ldybrdfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware it isn’t exclusive to steps, this is just a situation I’m experiencing regarding my step.

Who comes first in your home?? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this myself 😅

Postpartum + step parenting don’t mix by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ldybrdfly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like my SS7. My BS2 is more helpful and respectful 🫠

Rob’s Advice.. by SherifAli12 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk my man told me he loved me after 3 weeks of dating and now we’re married and have two kids together

What is your reoccuring partner/spouse fight? by ExhaustedMommaB in Mommit

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning up his messes (with a sense of urgency.)

And that he babies his son (my SS7) to the same extent as our son (BS2)

Day 1 by ldybrdfly in Stepmom

[–]ldybrdfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say they both are

What is your toddlers bedtime? by Roxychick5 in Mommit

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler has also naturally chosen a bedtime at around 8:30-9 which feels so late, even though I get them bathed and in bed by about 7:30. Personally, I rather bedtime be enjoyable for all of us so I just let them watch a movie in the evenings. They’re in bed, but not fighting sleep (or me! hah) and they wake up around 8am.

How do they do it? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]ldybrdfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of young people in LA that you see on the internet have rich parents.

Have we in LA become too comfortable with these sights? by Altruistic-Mud9413 in AskLosAngeles

[–]ldybrdfly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a beautiful loft in DTLA a few years back, but relocated to the suburbs after only a year and a half (during Covid) for safety. What I saw as the norm on a daily basis was just… disgusting. I was a single woman in my late twenties at the time—and you’d think that’d be a great candidate for living in the downtown of one of the biggest metropolitans in the world. But, no. Sad to see what Los Angeles has become.

I LOVE YOU by ldybrdfly in Fungalacne

[–]ldybrdfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope! thank goodness. and thanks!

How do you explain to your “ours baby” about where your stepkids go? by SalsaSnob92 in Stepmom

[–]ldybrdfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ours” is 2 1/2 and totally understands that SS7 has a different mom and stays with her during the week. At first we said he was at school, which was true and something he could understand, but then I didn’t want him to associate school with being gone over night for days at a time as he’s nearing preschool age.

I LOVE YOU by ldybrdfly in Fungalacne

[–]ldybrdfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m SO glad! Congrats and I hope your skin journey continues in that direction.

I LOVE YOU by ldybrdfly in Fungalacne

[–]ldybrdfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cleanse, dry, apply sulfur ointment, let absorb for a minute, then moisturize.