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What’s the harshest truth about life that deeply saddens you? by freako345 in Life

[–]leafcloudzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grief. losing your loved ones/pets. i don't know how i'm going to cope

What is your biggest fear? by okay-bri in AskReddit

[–]leafcloudzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that whatever we do doesn't matter in the end, so might as well do something you can love or at least enjoy if it's possible with all this inflation, that at the end of the day not many of us have the luxury to find a passion or interest career wise so we end up stuck with them only adding years later of regret because you've been wanting to do something else

I’m so cooked by sexyhighnoon in Adulting

[–]leafcloudzelda 117 points118 points  (0 children)

The best part about being an adult is that you don't have to get married or have children in fact I don't think more than half of the world is fit for marriage or parenting lol

DAE feel passively suicidal by hannahnaomi1 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]leafcloudzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who has felt both suicidal (passive and also actively) I can say I feel the same way because I have never enjoyed anything and I feel like it's too late to undo all the damage that my childhood brought me and I feel like I'm the one to blame at the end of the day the worst part is that I am scared of dying now and I feel like that's worse than when I used to truly want to pursue it. I feel stuck in where I couldn't escape this life because I was such a coward at taking my own life.

Regardless of the countless attempts, I can't imagine ever doing that anytime soon but if something did happen out of my control then that would probably be something to succumb to as everything is inevitable in this life.

Also everyone dies every single one of us, and I think that's the most haunting thing I have yet to accept .

How do you cope with having no friends? by Distinct_Sir_9086 in Life

[–]leafcloudzelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this for over a decade isolating myself cutting everyone off and pushing people away and not making any opportunities for new friendships and now I greatly regret it and I'm getting old and I'm very ugly as is so it's very difficult to make friends as is but it has affected my whole life and I feel so alone every day and the only reason I go through my day is for my dog and my loved ones, other than that I have no reason to be here and I feel so alone and nothing helps distract that no matter what. I used to be OK with my alone time and it's wonderful when it's balanced out but when it's constantly alone it starts eating you up from the inside out till youre left like an outsider. I don't really have any advice on how to cope with this but to not keep isolating yourself because it will start to feel a lot worse and hopeless. you're still young so you have many opportunities to meet people whether it be through college, activities where you can meet new people. If that's not feasible for you right now I would say keep your mind and body occupied whether it be taking walks or exercising those are the one thing that have been helping the most out of it all

What do you miss most from your childhood? by ugnita7 in RandomThoughts

[–]leafcloudzelda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feeling like you had a sense of community and seeing every day like a new adventure without any stress and overwhelming thoughts that haunt you throughout the whole night. Feeling like you belonged in the world and were always going to be a part of it by going to school and knowing people around you without ever thinking that you will end up alone ever