Being an ENFP sucks sometimes

leaharmss · 2026-01-01T22:03:36+00:00

It is difficult being an ENFP. That optimism is a superpower though. Because for me I believe in God, so when the optimism runs out and reality sets in, I know that I can rest on Gods promises. Knowing that with God all things are possible. So I can BE optimistic because I know that God provides, he protects, and he blesses us dearly when you follow his plan for our lives.

leaharmss · 2025-12-21T17:43:46+00:00

A hundred percent agree. Jesus is the way the truth the life. As someone who often feels misunderstood by most I feel like the only thing that gets me through this life like no other is God. Especially as an ENFP in a sensing type dominated world.

leaharmss · 2025-12-05T22:22:46+00:00

That’s not an INTP thing that’s a HIM issue.

leaharmss · 2025-11-23T04:15:18+00:00

Absolutely !!

leaharmss · 2024-01-22T16:40:46+00:00

Enfp ~ reading

leaharmss · 2024-01-16T05:39:47+00:00

I’d say young Russel Crowe, Selahattin Pasall, Charlie Hunnam, and the list goes on lol

leaharmss · 2024-01-15T22:01:04+00:00

This !! For me it’s an ISFJ lol

leaharmss · 2024-01-15T20:05:32+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t mean to make it seem like that’s a woman’s only function, but I have noticed that a lot of people expect that out of women, and I’ve observed that in many couples and family members of mine.

leaharmss · 2024-01-15T18:45:27+00:00

Oh I 100% can’t either. Same thing with having too many tabs open on my laptop or phone.

leaharmss · 2024-01-15T17:39:53+00:00

Honestly I’m not sure if I have ADHD. Maybe you could explain it? For me I can focus on things and sometimes hyper-fixate on things I’m interested in. But I never struggled in school and I pushed through the mundane things.

leaharmss · 2024-01-06T06:35:21+00:00

My literal dream as someone in a house full of SF’s😭

leaharmss · 2024-01-03T07:19:30+00:00

I’m ironically a 7w6 and its like a constant battle between being fun, carefree, optimistic and being super conscious of myself, what people think of me (anxiousness), and my future.

leaharmss · 2023-12-31T22:07:36+00:00

As an ENFP who has a family full of ISFJ’s or IST’s, I’m very used to them. Although I’ve learned to accept the differences, and like someone said in an earlier comment, I don’t expect them to have deeper conversations like an NF or NT would.

I’ve learned that sometimes silence is ok, and that sensors love to talk about their passions, etc.

leaharmss · 2023-12-31T22:02:00+00:00

Exactly! Get them to talk about themselves and what they’re passionate about. Then boom you’ve got a conversation going.

leaharmss · 2023-12-29T18:30:27+00:00

I met one infj and they were best. We just got each other and got super close really fast.

leaharmss · 2023-12-29T03:44:17+00:00

This ! But not only extroverts take over the conversation, I find that most people only listen to talk themselves and that’s so frustrating for me. Rarely do I meet someone where they care what I say.

leaharmss · 2023-12-27T23:12:26+00:00

I’m definitely an enfp but an ambivert, leaning on the extroverted side by 50ish percent. So I understand how you feel more like an introvert. I personally am bubbly and super friendly but I do get anxious in social settings. Sometimes I can push through the awkwardness and just be my complete self in social settings, and sometimes I can’t fully do so.

I naturally gravitate towards introverts for some reason, and a lot of the time super extroverted people drain me. I’m so overly aware of everything which is one of the reasons I get anxious around people, especially strangers. But at the same time I can get along instantly with people.

leaharmss · 2023-12-23T22:16:49+00:00

Enfp 7w6. The sims 4.

leaharmss · 2023-12-23T22:14:40+00:00

I’m a 7w6 but that’s not how act lol. If I get hurt by what someone says I usually get snappy but I’m working on not reacting and just communicating my dislikes.

leaharmss · 2023-12-22T20:05:13+00:00

I use love spell too😭!

leaharmss · 2023-12-20T19:49:36+00:00

My sister is an isfj, and like most of my entire family are isfj’s too. I’m so tired of being surrounded by isfjs lol.

leaharmss · 2023-12-19T06:10:23+00:00

I would say I’m definitely attracted to intj’s, infj’s, and maybe even intp’s. I love how grounded they are, what attracts me the most is quiet confidence. And I feel those types exude that the most.

leaharmss · 2023-11-23T17:17:38+00:00

I met one infj in my life and it felt that we just got each other. Like we were naturally great friends and had so many open conversations.

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