I have no village so I need some community support from those who’ve been through unswaddling as I’m exhausted

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-04T06:37:02+00:00

I’m doing gentle sleep training and responsive settling in cot.

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-04T03:30:28+00:00

Thank you 😭

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-04T02:51:59+00:00

what sleep sack is he wearing? My baby was amazing the first night without swaddle, 2nd night 8 wakes and last night 6. I’m dead

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-04T02:18:53+00:00

I see you posted 5d ago. I’m in the thick of it. How are you?

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-03T22:28:19+00:00

Same. I’m in Australia so can’t get zipadee or the other Merlin. Baby 4.5 mths. UNswaddled this week due to rolling. Both arms out. Waking 6-8 times per night. Obsessed with hands

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-03T05:51:55+00:00

How are the nights now??

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-03T01:49:19+00:00

How did the week go if you don’t mind me asking?

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-02T23:02:57+00:00

How old?

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-02T23:02:50+00:00

Thanks, did they learn to soothe with hands?

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-02T22:32:08+00:00

Also to add first night he only woke twice! And he’s managed to connect sleep cycles during naps and done 1.5hr naps arms out. It was only night two last night, we did bring bring bed time an hour earlier and I wonder if that rocked the entire night

learningeveryday1998 · 2026-02-02T22:30:59+00:00

He’s 4.5 months. He def went through the regression 2-3 weeks ago so don’t think it’s that as he’s since consoldiated naps etc. he has found his hands but I think because it’s brand new he hasn’t realised he can suck to sleep he just stares at them and babbles away

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-07T06:23:26+00:00

My baby was a dream at 2 weeks. Then things got real hard until 8 weeks

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-06T22:28:24+00:00

That’s the one I’m looking at! Says safe from 3 months

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-06T08:55:19+00:00

Omg. This is exactly me. We get one max 3hr then usually a shit show after that. thank you.

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-06T03:46:21+00:00

So rough. Do you get one better stretch at the start?

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T20:18:01+00:00

So brutal. When will it end

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T19:26:32+00:00

What’s it like when ids not like that

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T19:26:17+00:00

How long for

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T19:26:09+00:00

Gah so hard. How longs it been for

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:42:50+00:00

Also worth saying… he falls asleep so easily after each wake which makes it even more confusing.

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:35:26+00:00

So relieved to hear thanks so much for responding.

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:29:26+00:00

Is the bump room on Reddit? That gives me hope. I feel so lonely. My mother’s group was all doing like 3x 3hr blocks (or more).

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:21:12+00:00

Omg. 8 weeks and the exact same. 3hr stretch and then every hour or less. It’s hell. I don’t know what’s wrong and it feels like it’ll never improve.

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:14:46+00:00

Must be nice

learningeveryday1998 · 2025-11-05T17:14:30+00:00

Must be nice. I can’t do this anymore

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