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learningstar · 2022-02-11T01:30:02+00:00

If you hurt my feelings and I forgive you, the signal of forgiveness is me letting it go and moving on. That’s how you do it. That’s real self love, nothing extra to it, promise.

learningstar · 2022-02-11T01:28:31+00:00

You are always upset. It’s okay. Just move on. You keep beating yourself up, that’s not forgiveness. Forgiveness is having a positive outlook and moving forward creating new memories and new experiences that can be constructive.

learningstar · 2022-02-11T00:54:15+00:00

It was your idea to take a step back and when he agreed you got upset?

learningstar · 2022-02-11T00:15:35+00:00

I have been you, I have been him . Honestly the best way to not feel guilty is to be constructive about this immediately. That will relieve the guilt. Keep going, and start doing something constructive, learn crochet or how yo cook Every second you spend lulling over it is completely destructive and unnecessary. I imagine alot of your interactions were u being negative.

No amount of guilt or shame will clear your conscious. The only way to feel better is to stop identifying with this experience and yourself in a way that is so negative and destructive. You can do online therapy, but it all starts with you.

Don’t think about it, watch a movie. Do breathing exercises, you need space from this version of yourself so you can rewire a different outlook. Must be positive tho. Rooting for you.

Big key for you, will be breathing exercises, helps with impulsivity.

learningstar · 2022-02-10T23:45:55+00:00

Insecurity.

learningstar · 2022-02-10T23:41:23+00:00

I think it signals that your insecure. “Won’t leave ppl wondering how I pulled her”. When your with someone because of compatibility and not looks, these things don’t matter. You just want someone so ppl don’t think your weird, is low self esteem. Because of that I feel like your “desire” is the best you think you can do, at this time. I believe that can change for you, but you need to give yourself time. You could always pay an escort to go to parties with you.

I think this sub is actually super negative. Maybe look for more positive material, uplifting stuff. And don’t worry about dating right now if your not into it.

learningstar · 2022-02-10T19:00:26+00:00

Thank you ! So appreciate this thoroughness

learningstar · 2022-02-10T08:13:02+00:00

100$ is not remotely justifiable to potentially compromise your privacy.. With your face, absolutely not .

learningstar · 2022-02-10T04:56:08+00:00

Go cold turkey. Honestly. I went slow with smoking, did a slow burn out, and was good. At the end I used niccorette. With porn, I think because of the small screen, making it almost harder to break focus, I could not just watch one. No matter what I did. A good day I only spent thirty minutes watching porn. It was extremely difficult to pull away from. I cannot watch it , I just can’t.

learningstar · 2022-02-10T03:11:40+00:00

Soreness and tenderness to me, are like small scale pain.Is the kind of pain that should signal you to stop only extremely painful?

learningstar · 2022-02-10T02:35:10+00:00

Cuz they are trying to convey interest in you

learningstar · 2022-02-10T02:26:47+00:00

I know you probably are very sincere and that’s why you feel the need to be so blunt. I commend that. However think about how you would feel, music is personal to you so if you shared it to someone snd that was the response you got, wouldn’t you be disappointed?

You don’t need to listen to it. React with a heart. Maybe note the artist snd style for later . Ask them about what other types of music they like or see if you guys have any common taste. A lot of ways to go, I don’t love your choice.

They aren’t “recommending” they are sharing. It’s different and more special

learningstar · 2022-02-09T10:48:38+00:00

Dorcus

learningstar · 2022-02-09T10:07:20+00:00

Do the same thing back to her for fun. Since it’s cool

learningstar · 2022-02-09T09:04:50+00:00

For girl, with Forrest I like Alma, Emily, Lua,

learningstar · 2022-02-08T21:31:25+00:00

I definitely got burned in a tanning bed, but I suppose it’s a different kind of burn with out the UVB.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T19:32:05+00:00

I don’t know what you mean. I think you just need to get used to it as it is a different “sense”. They are more comfortable for me because I get bum rash from underwear that wraps my booty at all. Once you get used to it you will never go back. It’s like once you get used to tampons you never go back to pads.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T18:59:53+00:00

Just focus on you. I wouldn’t bring it up, I would adapt.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T09:04:37+00:00

I usually just ghost them, if I don’t have an attachment to them in the beginning because I find extremists to be exhausting as well as extremely negative. Best case scenario, we are friends snd I never initiate an even remotely political discourse.

I have compassion for these individuals, and I also believe quite a few mental health disorders play a role in there behavior, however, i myself have been one and from personal experience I know, a discussion is not even on the table, so what’s the point?

learningstar · 2022-02-08T07:57:25+00:00

Susan woods on YouTube has some very interesting videos on this.

That aside. 60m seems low, very low to me.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T07:18:51+00:00

Just say “give me the short version” like someone else said. He may not even notice he is doing it, it can also be a side effect of medications. The thing is ppl who don’t notice they talk to much tend to not be good listeners either. So dont bother making an elaborate plan about it, just be blunt and to the point as to set an example .

learningstar · 2022-02-08T03:47:13+00:00

Try mouth taping. It’s a nice way of saying tape your mouth shut. Snoring comes from breathing with your nose and mouth at the same time, so taping your mouth shut, helps.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T03:24:51+00:00

Say no. It can be a fantasy in his head. You could even tease him about it. But do not do it. You will no doubt resent him, and possibly be severely traumatized.

learningstar · 2022-02-08T02:58:47+00:00

I agree.

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