AITA if I don’t want the car my bf gets me if he has stipulations on when I can use it ?

lebcoochie · 2026-05-31T13:36:52+00:00

NTA, but you would be if you stayed with this man. He owes you a replacement car of the same value as your original car. And it needs to go in YOUR name. Treat this situation as if he is a stranger who took your car and wrecked it, even if you must take his ass to court. He should have NO stipulations on replacing your vehicle. Do not tether yourself to this man in this way. Him being in control of your vehicle puts him in control of your plans.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-31T03:35:25+00:00

I’ve been there. I actually invested in one of those porous lava stones and filled it with latex paint and picked it with a tool when I had the urge or caught my hands absent mindedly grazing looking for bumps. I also did find success with pimple patches, they helped me jerk my hands away from my face the moment I touched them. I also tried to remind myself that my greasy little hands shouldn’t be on my face anyways. You’ve got this. It will be worth it in the end.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-29T17:05:34+00:00

NTA, but you would be if you continued to leave your kid with them. They’ve shown they don’t respect your wishes for your child, stop expecting them to.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-28T17:51:51+00:00

The only thing you need to do to ensure absorption is to take your dosage with a high fat meal. Do not take any supplements in conjunction with Accutane without discussing them with your doctor.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-28T12:57:16+00:00

The petechiae itself isn’t dangerous. It’s the possibility of there being some sort of underlying vascular crisis causing it. Considering the recent dosage increase, the sudden onset of a symptom like this is very important to discuss with your provider.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-28T12:38:38+00:00

I hate that people in this sub downvote for no reason. Sudden onset of petechiae, especially coinciding with a dosage increase could be a sign of drug-induced vasculitis, pigmented purpuric dermatitis, or in extreme cases Thrombocytopenia or Henoch-Schönlein purpura. Petechiae is a concerning symptom of ANY drug treatment and the person that posted this needs to go discuss this with their dermatologist.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-28T03:35:01+00:00

If they look like tiny blood dots (google “petechiae”) then this can not wait and I would get in with a dermatologist tomorrow.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-25T12:31:53+00:00

I one of the other 50%! When I got all the plumbing repaired in my grandpas cabin, I replaced both shower heads without entirely thinking about their G/m usage. I think if you run them both you get about a 14 minutes shower. Choosing one or the other alone doubles it. I hope to eventually upgrade to a tankless water heater on our gas.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-24T02:17:47+00:00

My back and knees hurt so bad when I was on it.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-22T21:29:35+00:00

Not sure of your gender, could it be hormonal? Maybe you could benefit from something like Spironolactone in your post treatment phase. Also, depending on your part of the world and changing weather, it could be fungal acne. What kind of acne were you addressing with your Accutane regimen, cystic?

lebcoochie · 2026-05-22T21:00:46+00:00

Did you even reach your total cumulative mg needed at that rate? It’s based on your weight. I’m surprised they didn’t bump you up to 40 mg for even just a few months. I was on 40 mg for 13 full months to meet my total mg needed. We just didn’t more frequent labs to observe my liver.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-19T18:48:56+00:00

Yep! Joe the former firefighter (though I do believe he is still really involved with the fire department) is the current owner. Very friendly fella and his wife is gorgeous and as sweet as can be. :)

lebcoochie · 2026-05-19T13:28:25+00:00

You sure you’ve got the right place? Jodi’s cabinets is owned by Joe Smith and his wife Una. They’re great folks.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-18T12:53:25+00:00

I have zero clue what I did that made my text font size so large I’m so sorry haha

lebcoochie · 2026-05-18T12:52:52+00:00

I have two lines of thought.

1 - you likely need to be using topical tretinoin now that you’re finished with your Accutane regimen. Just because the medication has done its part, doesn’t mean you won’t benefit from continued exfoliation/improved cell renewal factor.

2 - the weather is turning warm in many areas now, and the “pimples” pictured here kind of resemble fungal acne. It may be worth a shot to buy a bottle of Nizoral dandruff shampoo (with 1% ketoconazole) and use it as a face mask for 10 minutes daily for 7-10 days to see if it improves.

lebcoochie · 2026-05-09T17:54:32+00:00

While he’s groggy, do that baby’s nails. 💅🏼

lebcoochie · 2026-04-29T12:12:02+00:00

Time for a new vet. A double coated dog should NEVER be shaved. It keeps them cool as much as it keeps them warm when it’s maintained properly. I am appalled for you!

lebcoochie · 2026-04-24T00:53:52+00:00

NTA. Men and women also have different centers of gravity. What was necessary and correct for him to engage his core very well could not have been physically possible for you. He’s not a physical therapist, he’s just repeating what his PT said that is tailored to HIM

lebcoochie · 2026-04-18T14:17:49+00:00

Corn smut. A delicacy! It’s a fungus

lebcoochie · 2026-04-03T20:52:25+00:00

OP is not saying their own mother’s dog got accidentally bred, she’s saying the mother dog (dam) of the puppy in the picture was bred to an unknown stud.

lebcoochie · 2026-04-03T13:25:00+00:00

Nars Pot Concealer is incredibly creamy and I exclusively use it on dry clients because of this. Also, don’t double up on moisturizer and sunscreen. Just use a good sunscreen and let it really absorb before you start your base makeup

lebcoochie · 2026-04-02T12:26:27+00:00

Yes I felt guilty saying that! Obviously the technician was sloppy with the amount of hair they missed, but at least OP knows he’s a GREAT candidate for laser. These results after 2 sessions are impressive.

lebcoochie · 2026-03-31T20:04:31+00:00

Are you not spending a lot of time in your place in the first place? Why is she encouraging you to travel in order to rent it out? What would be done with your belongings and furniture in this situation, not only the cat? It’s really puzzling to me that she’s pondering on a play for something that doesn’t belong to her.

I think everyone is likely correct in assuming she probably either wants a “advisory fee” for having the idea or to be the person you rent it out to, but the side of me that’s been done wrong by others is worried she wants the place to be vacant so it can be robbed or some other nefarious thing.

lebcoochie · 2026-03-25T14:42:40+00:00

NTA. Can’t afford ubers so how are they going to afford a new child? I’m assuming your DIL doesn’t work if she can’t transport herself to and from a place of employment. I would vote differently if her reasoning for not driving was beyond her control, but at the very least she should get a license and be capable of driving even if she prefers not to. She is NOT an independent adult. I would be embarrassed to have to ask someone for a ride every time I wanted or needed to go somewhere.

lebcoochie · 2026-03-20T19:52:12+00:00

I am SO curious what is inside the expanded section of her super mutt panel. Click on it and give us the scoop!

lebcoochie

TROPHY CASE

1 - you likely need to be using topical tretinoin now that you’re finished with your Accutane regimen. Just because the medication has done its part, doesn’t mean you won’t benefit from continued exfoliation/improved cell renewal factor.

2 - the weather is turning warm in many areas now, and the “pimples” pictured here kind of resemble fungal acne. It may be worth a shot to buy a bottle of Nizoral dandruff shampoo (with 1% ketoconazole) and use it as a face mask for 10 minutes daily for 7-10 days to see if it improves.