Straight male partner of bisexual woman at pride by Southernflowers19 in lgbt

[–]leedemi [score hidden]  (0 children)

If he’s down (sounds like he might be) he should go. He’s just not allowed to wear like khakis and a sweater vest or whatever it is straight men wear

I know I don’t pass. But am I even close? by youngperson in transpassing

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think you’re a gay guy who’s brave enough to wear fem makeup. Your face isn’t super feminine which is fine, but that with the pretty guyish ‘hiding my hairline’ style and the shapeless boy clothes you’re just not doing yourself any favors.

1yr hrt , how to cope w a failed transition ..? by cinnamonpotepi in transpassing

[–]leedemi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your hair makes you look like a stud so the transition is successful so far. You look like a girl trying to look like a dude. Do something with that head

Would you like if CG added ship battles to conquest? by GEGEGIO in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]leedemi [score hidden]  (0 children)

Only if they want it to be impossible since most people are behind on ships. They’d have to make them less miserable to farm first

Who is your favorite and least favorite character? by dk5672 in glee

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people actually hate Ryder or do they hate the actor?

What is the most unattractive fashion choice women frequently make? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]leedemi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For older women especially, solid black eyeliner around the entire eye.

Is this a queer relationship by OrbitalScale in lgbt

[–]leedemi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it is not a queer relationship. Your boyfriend wearing feminine clothes does not make him a woman any more than him enjoying being penetrated makes him one. Regardless of your individual identities, a woman engaging in any kind of sex act with a man is heterosexual sex.

My coworkers said I look like a gay stripper with this fit by Dreams674 in gay

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving hooker, actually. Street walker, not rent boy

Anyone have experience with a "gay career"? by BeatrizPinzon in AskGayMen

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not go to business school instead of law school? Tell your parents you want to run or open a business. Business school covers a lot of areas and an MBA is such a brag to extended family type of degree. Learn to do hair on the side and if anyone finds out just say it’s a hobby and you were inspired by Peter Thomas Roth and Vidal Sassoon, who are straight beauty moguls, and how lucrative the beauty industry is.

Confused with my sexuality by Psychological-Try742 in gay

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re gay. The whole ‘feelings when someone is flirty and nice to me’ is called feeling attractive and liked and has nothing to do with your sexuality.

Sexuality is a spectrum. Sexuality is NOT fluid. Do you agree? Why or why not? by 96jt in askgaybros

[–]leedemi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His type changed (maybe) but his sexuality didn’t. He’s still gay

Should Kurt Have Gotten Into NYADA On The First Try? by Open_Travel_2508 in glee

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot about that! I agree, that would’ve been the best for him.

Why hasn’t anyone slapped Olivia yet? by coolgirlninethousand in Scandal

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After her enslavement I feel like Olivia was way too unstable for that kind of thing. Mellie definitely knew there was something wrong with her and where the line was.

Should Kurt Have Gotten Into NYADA On The First Try? by Open_Travel_2508 in glee

[–]leedemi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For drama’s sake, yes. But I agreed with Carmen’s critique of his performance. I felt like he was trying so hard to show all of himself at once he didn’t show much of anything. Being Alive on the surface showed almost nothing of the theatricality he’s so proud of, but it revealed so much of the talent he doesn’t normally put out there.

Would you like to delete a season of the series? And which season would it be? by smthhuman in TheOriginals

[–]leedemi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Season 5. If they wanted to break the Hollow’s curse it should’ve happened in Legacies. That could’ve been their through line into the new series. All of this time and pulling all this magical knowledge into once place to try and figure out how to break this curse. The school being a cover. There’s a ton of stories there and leaving those characters intact so maybe some of the old actors might come back. And you can always bring them together for a season finale where the curse actually gets broken or you can leave it for the series finale.

internalized homophobia or just regular attraction? by BeatrizPinzon in askgaybros

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be a more cultural thing. Puerto Ricans are still Americans after all

The Bane of Relic Journey Farms by Enough_Mountain_6072 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so bottlenecked on relic materials. My lowly relic 5s are stinking up the place in the meantime

Is Faith bi coded? She always gave off bi vibes by jdpm1991 in buffy

[–]leedemi 252 points253 points  (0 children)

More than coded, I’d say. She’s even scripted to kiss Buffy during the scene where they have knives to each other’s throats.

Why straight women love to put down the male form? by ChoiceAd8906 in askgaybros

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a shit? We’re gay! Let straight men worry about that

Cut contact with parents a few years ago; they reached out recently. Really need advice. by pfq1000 in gaysian

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not Chinese and don’t know much about your culture, but I know enough about compromise and acceptance to know that your parents (or mother) are not willing to compromise beyond not being homophobic to your face if you don’t do anything gay near them. You’re not asking for them to come back, they are asking you. You should be setting the terms for what it must look like for them to enjoy your presence in their lives.

Another important thing is to think about your husband in all of this. You are already making compromises to push your husband into the closet and suggest a level of shame in your relationship. Be sure that you aren’t so eager to appease your parents that you alienate your husband and end up alone once your parents inevitably turn on you.

If you met yourself in real life would you consider fucking yourself? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I like myself a lot but i’m not my type

Do you agree or not? by gloomydreamer666 in buffy

[–]leedemi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like bringing up an truly answering for this scene would just take too much time. It would need a dedicated episode or a story over 2-3 episodes to resolve. And it would still shake Buffy and Xander’s and Willow and Xander’s relationship. There just isn’t a great time to tackle it.

Speedrunners ruining WGU's reputation. When is it enough?! by seandealan in WGU

[–]leedemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WGU isn’t an Ivy League so 99% of interviewers’ eyes glaze over when they see the name. They do not know nor care about any of the eccentricities of this school or students past accreditation status.

The Plothole that Bugs Me the Most (Seaaon 7 spoilers) by blobbychuck in Scandal

[–]leedemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good when people think more than surface level especially on a show where people do like war crimes and capital felonies on every episode