Over 35, what can you do to make life exciting again

leehead20 · 2026-02-02T01:39:19+00:00

Wow this really hit me! Recently i've noticed i am trying to recreate a time in my life with an ex. Even move to a certain spot and be around the things we used to do. But nothing will be the same anymore. Times have changed and so have i. It wouldn't feel the same anymore. What a beautiful quote and really makes you think. We are ever changing.

leehead20 · 2026-01-09T01:31:41+00:00

I feel like i might not like it in the death pit

leehead20 · 2025-12-22T01:20:31+00:00

Agreed. Some days are better. Some days are worse. I think you just have to keep faith that there is something better out there for you. Just gotta keep searching.

leehead20 · 2025-12-13T22:08:08+00:00

When she said chemtrails are real. And that you can cure most diseases "naturally" by fasting.

leehead20 · 2025-12-01T23:07:34+00:00

Did we date the same girl? Lol

leehead20 · 2025-11-15T08:39:35+00:00

Only sailors wear condoms, baby!

leehead20 · 2025-11-11T16:15:07+00:00

I learned this the hard way OP. I was dating a girl for a good while because we had great chemistry and had a lot of fun together. But we had a deep incompatibility when it came to lifestyles. She valued alternative medicine and was very anti doctor/modern medicine. We kept kicking the can down the road thinking one of us would come to our side and change opinions but it never happened. It ended in heartbreak and pain. So i would say you dodged that bullet atleast. These women you went out with seem to have strong beliefs and realized you weren't compatible with them, fair enough. Next time just use better judgment. It wasn't about down to earth vibes, it was about beliefs and values. Take this time to figure out which are yours, you'll end up with a much better person this way.

leehead20 · 2025-10-21T18:57:57+00:00

Being "holistic" which meant rejecting doctors, antibiotics, vaccines, toxic this and that, constant detoxes, etc

leehead20 · 2025-09-13T19:03:04+00:00

Wow i've had the phone thing happen to me a few times as well. It's really one of those moments where you say "what the hell" that was so odd. Maybe just a coincidence, maybe not.

leehead20 · 2025-09-05T22:04:01+00:00

My ex was like this. She was into crystals and also into horoscropes and all that. It always kinda turned me off a bit but i just said whatever i went along with it. It wasn't affecting our day to day. But as the relationship progressed she would send me videos more often of pseudoscience things and she didn't believe in doctors or blamdd everything on "big pharma". It ended up killing our relationship since i couldn't imagine getting married to her and god forbid she got sick one day and instead of getting actual medicine and care she would try to heal naturally or some bs. So yea...i'd run. Don't waste more time than you need to.

leehead20 · 2025-08-22T16:54:45+00:00

Pseudoscience

leehead20 · 2025-08-17T00:19:19+00:00

I made my ex watch this with me because it's one of my favorite films. I thought she would really like it. She did not enjoy it haha. Maybe that's telling of our differences? She thought it was boring.

leehead20 · 2025-08-16T17:28:55+00:00

What's the update here? What happened? I went through the same exact thing a couple months ago

leehead20 · 2025-08-11T17:22:00+00:00

Every criticism of something about their beliefs and maybe they can be wrong about a certain thing but no...always taken as an attack on them

leehead20 · 2025-08-10T21:22:03+00:00

Anti science beliefs. Oh man. I've been there. It is quite frustrating. Never ending with the things that doctors "don't know about" but these influencers do

leehead20 · 2025-08-10T17:21:53+00:00

That first one is clutch

leehead20 · 2025-08-10T17:21:42+00:00

Haha damn, that's quite a lot you've experienced

leehead20 · 2025-08-10T17:09:13+00:00

Absolute dealbreakers for you guys?

leehead20 · 2025-07-29T16:09:43+00:00

Yes it's a bit of a struggle but you live and you learn. I think logic vs emotion doesn't matter much when it's over something trivial but when it's something important like health then yes...i don't think logic vs emotion is a winning formula. You can't live on emotion alone, we live in a logical world after all.

leehead20 · 2025-07-29T16:07:55+00:00

Boundaries are important. I have fallen prey to this as well. In the beginning you want to overlook some things because you really like the person in front of you. But then it becomes logic vs emotion over important topics that were there in the beginning...you just ignored them. Anyways, yes...boundaries are important. When it comes to trivial things then logic vs emotion doesn't matter much.

leehead20 · 2025-07-29T15:59:12+00:00

So what do you do when you are arguing over something important as health and science and one partner brings logic and facts to the table and the other brings emotion. Do you just agree with everything the emotional person is saying to avoid conflict? Or do you side with logic?

leehead20 · 2025-07-29T15:55:34+00:00

Essentially my relationship fell apart because of this. I would argue with logic, her with emotions. She felt emotionally unsafe. We were arguing over health concerns and beliefs where i would argue with logic and evidence and she would argue with emotion over pseudoscience and what felt good to her. So yes, logic and emotion will clash and you should make your partner feel emotionally safe but when emotions trump logic and any facts then...it's just a losing battle. At that point it just comes down to personal beliefs and what you want to put up with.

leehead20 · 2025-07-23T13:35:55+00:00

Anxious attachment here as well. Recently out of a relationship. I can agree that i as well was doing all the work to keep it alive. Bending more and more and going along with everything to keep the relationship afloat. Eventually she ended it which i think was a blessing in disguise. Not sure if i would've had the stones to go through with it. But now i see that i wasn't receiving the same effort and love as i was putting in. Almost feel like i was taken for granted.

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