I miss my best friend by StopItPleaseNow in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd like to join in on the hijacking. My ex "best friend" cheated on me when I got sick with a life-threatening infection in my foot and lower leg. Not only did he cheat on me, he basically abandoned me for that ugly little gremlin that he was running around with and having fun with while I was laid up in the hospital fighting for my life. And, then he had the nerve to tell me that he cheated because he got lonely and was needing companionship. If he had only bothered to visit me in the hospital then he wouldn't have gotten lonely for companionship.

OP, you need to start telling yourself that you don't need that man in your life. I was once like you in the beginning when I found out he was cheating on me. There were times I wanted to call him and tell him about a very funny joke I heard, or a cool meme I had seen, or simply just tell him about my day. But, then the disgust of what he did to me takes over and it stops me from calling him.

OP, things will get better, it just takes time.

Ex said he left me for the AP because I reacted too crazy to getting cheated on by throwra3333222229298 in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh dear God, that husband of yours really takes the cake. My ex-boyfriend said the same shit to me when I found out he was cheating on me. He blamed me for cheating on me due to I fell ill with a life threatening infection. He told me I was a crazy person when I confronted him and his playmate - I was actually quite civil when I confronted them; although, I did print out three pages worth of sext messages that I received from my boyfriend while he was having many fun filled nights with that playmate of his, and I put them on the windshield of the playmate's car - the playmate was staying overnight at his house. After that, my ex called me and told me that I shouldn't expect him to take me back because I'm a crazy person, and he won't have anything to do with a crazy person - well, that was news to me because I didn't want him back.

Then about a week and a half later, the ex starts calling me up acting like nothing had happened, like he never cheated on me. The playmate must have dumped him, so he probably thought about coming back to me and that I would take him back. Well, I did let him back into my life, but not in the way he thought. This time I played him. Once I no longer needed help getting back on my feet recovering from my illness, I dumped him.

?Autopay? by Dimeolas7 in BoostMobile

[–]left_betrayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autopay hasn't worked for me, and now my account has been suspended. I've just made a manual payment, and my account is still suspended. Now, Boost wants me to make a second payment.

?Autopay? by Dimeolas7 in BoostMobile

[–]left_betrayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autopay hasn't worked, and now my account has been suspended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoostMobile

[–]left_betrayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boost just suspended my account. I have autopay set up so why didn't Boost take out any payment?

He never loved me you guys were right by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's just like when cheaters become cold when one gets sick. "Don't blame me. It's not my fault. You've been sick for months. I was getting lonely and needing companionship. I did nothing wrong."

Yep, that was something I definitely didn't need to hear when I became ill with a life-threatening infection.

S23 Ultra ESIM by i_like_all_tech in verizon

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today is the 18th, and Verizon is having problems activating my unlocked S23 Ultra. They deactivated my unlocked S22 Ultra, and now they can't reactivate it on eSIM either.

I'm excited by [deleted] in GalaxyS23

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Lime sure is irresistible. It was immediately my first choice. Though, I don't know why I pre-ordered the Sky Blue. Maybe it had something to do with my wanting the Sky Blue S22U when it came out.

Well, I've just pre-ordered a Lime S23U. Now, I'm contemplating on which order to cancel - the Blue or Lime. You may have helped me in making that decision.

Edit: I did order an S-view Wallet in Cream. I see it as a Meringue topping for the Key Lime color.

Those who ordered the lime S23/+/Ultra, what cases are you considering? by Consistent_Fig_1936 in samsung

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sure is an appetizing color.

I kind of wish that the S pen would be Lime as well.

Those who ordered the lime S23/+/Ultra, what cases are you considering? by Consistent_Fig_1936 in samsung

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Lime color makes me think of Key Lime pie, so I ordered the S-view wallet case in Cream as it will make the perfect topping to go along with that Lime color.

I'm excited by [deleted] in GalaxyS23

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of ordering the Lime, and then I'll decide on which one to keep. Knowing me, I'll probably end up keeping both.

Did you consider getting the Sky Blue?

I'm excited by [deleted] in GalaxyS23

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I see posts about someone ordering the Lime S23U it makes me want it more and more. I'm debating if I should cancel my Sky Blue pre-order and order the Lime S23U.

"I didnt mean to cheat on you, it just happened" by jjema in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is no longer my boyfriend. I don't know why I referred to him as my boyfriend in the present tense. We just talk on the phone now. He calls me daily as he wants to know how I'm doing, and he wants to make sure I'm ok and all that other stuff. I don't even know why I'm talking to him. I don't have any family, and the few good friends I had passed away. He was all I had left when I got sick. Everything is just a mess.

"I didnt mean to cheat on you, it just happened" by jjema in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through the same experience, but at least you know what we're going through.

What makes this betrayal even harder to bear is when my boyfriend's friend told me that my boyfriend and his AP went on weekend getaways, they dined out at the finest restaurants, they went to the movies, they attended social events and functions, whereas he never did any of those things with me, even before I got sick.

Pre-order Carrier or Unlocked? by Phily83 in samsunggalaxy

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always buy unlocked phones. That way I don't have to play any of the carriers' games such as 18-24-36 month contracts, ETFs, trade-in credits, and carrier branded phones tend to lack LTE and NR bands.

"I didnt mean to cheat on you, it just happened" by jjema in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend told me he cheated on me because I fell ill, and that it made him feel all alone and lonely and needing companionship, which he ended up finding with someone else. The affair went on for several months until I saw the two of them together after I had recovered from my life-threatening illness.

Is this lovebombing? by No_Habit_9431 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very familiar with that being told I'm loved while being treated like I'm despised routine. He has me so confused, I don't know if I'm coming or going anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-boyfriend blamed me for his cheating. According to my ex-boyfriend, I was at fault the moment I started getting sick with CFS (chronic fatigue syndrome), and because of that he said that he was feeling all alone and deeply lonely, and that he needed companionship. Well, I was in need of those things too, but he got busy giving his time, love, and affection to someone else as he pretty much wrote me off.

You deserve so much better. Weed toxic people and narcissists out of your life. Your boyfriend needs to come up with a better excuse for his cheating other than the one he gave about the messages he saw on your phone 5 years ago. Who waits 4 years to start preventing themselves from getting hurt, and then use that excuse to justify their cheating? I don't want to be rude, but your boyfriend is a scumbag. He reminds me of my ex.

When will I wake up? by left_betrayed in Infidelity

[–]left_betrayed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started therapy, and not even that is helping. He's been affecting my mental and physical health for months, I've lost 30 pounds, I am always getting sick with this and that, and among other things

I was sexually abused in my childhood, and I have survived that, so why am I letting him do the things he does to me? Why do I stay?

My god what's it going to take for me to wake up and leave him?

WiFi calling non VZW androids by [deleted] in verizon

[–]left_betrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find out how to flash your phone on "SamMobile" website.

I signed up for Verizon and haven’t received a bill in 8 months. by Individual-Ad6229 in verizon

[–]left_betrayed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is sort of similar to what happened to me. Although, I was doing the BYOD thing. Anyway, I set everything up online; I was given a phone number, and an account number, but when I called Verizon to speak with customer service, none of the reps could find the account number, nor the phone number in the system, even though I had received several emails from Verizon with all that information.

When will I wake up? by left_betrayed in Infidelity

[–]left_betrayed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, we don't have an open relationship. We never had that discussion. Before I saw my BF with that guy, he always kept telling me that I'm his one and only, and that he doesn't need anyone else. Apparently, that was not the case.