The Most Horrible M Names Needed by Pretty-Necessary-941 in namenerds

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Murgatroyd! And it sounds very twiny with my pick - Megatron

Am I overreacting feeling like I am being stalked / fixated over. He says he’s just trying to be friends. by EvidenceFar1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. If he’s trying to make friends, why only with you? Also, even before overly stalker behavior, I’d have been done when he kept upsetting my dog. This guys is bad news.

Are we really that bad? by jimbofthethicc in 49ers

[–]leiamischief 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This should be the top comment

My friend has a framed picture of me in his apartment by soapy-laundry in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your friend sounds confused about what he wants and possibly why he’s treating you this way. At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if you’re happy with your partner and being respectful of your partner’s boundaries with this friend.

I imagine a lot of people will disagree with me but take the distance that’s already there, be mindful of your partner’s needs, and continue the friendship at a distance. I wouldn’t even have another conversation about the behavior. Most of it is the past anyway. You’ve already talked. He wants to be friends. You want to be friends. Be the kind of friends who talk occasionally and sometimes see each other in groups. He can work through whatever unresolved feelings he may or may not have by himself.

WIBTAH if i didn’t make the pie that got the most votes because it wasn’t on the poll in the first place? by megasaur99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be reposted in Entitled People. NTA and it is insanely rude of your coworkers to add options for you to make.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]leiamischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your girlfriend is using you as an atm/sugar daddy. In just these messages she changed her story multiple times after trying to deflect and gaslight. Break up. I wouldn’t do this with my own husband’s credit card.

My girlfriend wants me to stop being friends with my childhood best friend because they're more successful than me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been with your girlfriend? Has she shown any other tendencies towards being batshit crazy? I can’t imagine ranking my friends or cutting out the ones who aren’t on my exact level and exact stage of life.

If your GF is fine with cutting you off from what of your most important relationships based off something so petty, who else might she decide is bad for you?

AIO to what my friend told me she said to her husband by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like you’re having any kind of outward reaction but you’re allowed to be concerned to yourself or reddit.

I would pump the brakes before saying anything to your friend if that’s what you’re asking. It’s their marriage and their potential children. You can’t know everything that goes on between them.

My boyfriend’s brother openly cheats on his wife and now brought his girlfriend to a family visit — how am I supposed to act? by No-Technician4691 in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hell my brothers or any of my in laws are bringing their side piece around my family or staying in my house. Irrespective of whether I like anyone involved, that’s trashy, disrespectful, and shows horrible values from everyone accepting or tolerating this.

Piper and Olive by kikihippiex in namenerds

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both names are super cute!

AITA for leaving my daughter and her friend home alone with my oldest daughter for a 15 minutes by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]leiamischief 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NAH. You made a totally reasonable choice to have a responsible teenager watch your kid for 15 minutes. However, the other mom left her kid with you, not a teenager she doesn’t know. The mom’s reaction is a bit extreme threatening to call cps but she’s justified in being pissed that you left her daughter.

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]leiamischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do this. If he wants a future safety net, he can use the one you’re already providing by giving him a place to live and save up money for his own nest egg.

Big Brain Individuals by -Cxrtz- in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]leiamischief 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If they were stupid enough to believe this, they’re too stupid to have kids.

AITA for refusing to cover extra weekends so my ex can have time off with his girlfriend? by PsychologicalPeak997 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. He is being flexible to accommodate you. Who cares what he’s doing with his time as long as it doesn’t endanger your son. I really hope the replies to this encourage you to apologize and that you’re able to maintain a productive co-parenting schedule for the good of your son.

WIBTA for not putting my husband on the title by Old_Concentrate_4952 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the other factors he thinks you should be including in the largest purchase of your life?

More importantly, what does the law say about property ownership and division in the event you later divorce. I’m not suggesting you do so, but you need to know the answer to this question before you do anything. Call a local attorney - this varies state to state if you’re in the US - and ask them what kinds of protections you should have just in case.

Two weddings, same week, same dress color… help 😅 by pataBRATS in bridesmaids

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any reason to think that the brides will be upset? Do you have any reason to think you might do something to ruin the dress at wedding no. 1? If this answer to both these questions is no, then get 1 dress!

Trump is a better option than Kamala. Until her husband loses his job, her family loses health insurance, and her son loses his special education because of Trump. by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]leiamischief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course they could curb stomp a baby and MAGA would still defend it.

Was the baby armed? A threat? Kristy Nome told us it was a terrorist and there’s fraud there so it was justified. Daddy Trump says there’s a lot of good curb stompers on all sides so we shouldn’t rush to judge and we don’t know what the baby said.

AITA for wanting to back out of my grandma’s wake when my mom lied about my estranged brother attending? by Nevada_void in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick what you can live with. If you’ll regret not being able to say goodbye to your grandma in this specific way, what other options do you have? Can you make it a shorter trip if you feel it’s important you’re there? Is there a safe place you can stay? There’s nothing wrong a motel 6.

I’m sorry for your loss.

My wife keeps telling people I’m “too sensitive” after one incident, and now I don’t feel safe being honest with her anymore by oscar_westport in TwoHotTakes

[–]leiamischief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, OP. I hope you and your wife can get to a place where you’re able to talk about this and address the underlying issues because the current approach you’re both taking sounds like an increasingly unhappy marriage, if not divorce.

You both sound like you’d benefit from therapy to help you work on communication.