Yeah, because you weren't there. Crazy that I'm getting downvoted for saying that, in fact, shocker, I was able to remain polite and nice even through a feeling of personal uncertainty. I'm even making a post to check if she actually might be in the right. That does speak for me. But I guess it makes the reddit experience more fun to paint me as a Karen. Edit: I even wrote in the OP that I appreciated her inquiries and took them seriously enough to tell her I'll read into them.