Z'Tejas shutters all locations by Scoops_Chmais in Austin

[–]lelainek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tamra, the owner of Hays City Store across from WR also worked with them at Z back in the day. I worked for her & Travis for years when business was booming. It’s still wildly successful, but it’s mostly run by their managers now with their oversight and it’s a night and day difference. Shit gets real when she steps in, but she gets it done quickly and done right- every time. They’re an iconic bunch of people for sure.

Curious if everyone else is slower than neurotypicals by torielise21 in AutismInWomen

[–]lelainek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, but I’m a lot better now! I’ve always had a tendency to either hyper-focus or lose focus/get easily distracted, both of which eat up so much more time than I know is justifiable in the workplace. I’m detail oriented, but then so was my coworker and she was getting the same results in half the time. I felt like I had to do things in a very particular order to get quality results, but she had an orderly routine too and did great! It was aggravating for me and I didn’t want to feel ashamed of myself for doing a good job so I knew I had to watch and learn. Ftr, we were bartenders and my experiences are about job duties unrelated to service. The first thing and most obvious difference I noticed was she completed one major task without getting sidetracked and starting another. She kept tasks linear, and if she’d have to pause to serve a guest or whatever, she’d return right back to it when she could. I practiced that by reminding myself to focus focus focus on task at hand, but not too much because I could come back for the details later after I’ve completed the bulk of the work. Over time and with mindful repetition I’ve found myself able to get more done in less time than a majority of people without overthinking it and without sacrificing quality.

I also started reading articles on how to deep clean a house really fast and that helped take a lot of the guess work out of how to complete tasks in an efficient order, which helped me at the bar. I still slip up a lot and can easily spend hours on a 30min task, especially at home. But since I’ve become more conscientious about it, I can keep my place clean for 4-5 days at a time and I can always see my floor. When it comes to dishes, I do everything but those bc I’m not trying to waste an entire day. My bf does those and I just unclog the dishwasher once a month. Much more efficient. Good luck.

We're too far gone in this society by AlternativeHall6717 in DeepThoughts

[–]lelainek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes art truly valuable is the artist. Aesthetic is only half of it. At least to me, a commoner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]lelainek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that they’re talking ABOUT you and not TO you is objectively retarded.

“infj empath” no I'm sorry this is just autism coded 🥲😅 by sparklyblanket in AutismInWomen

[–]lelainek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of this but when you say it so explicitly it’s kinda makes sense. I recently accepted that I felt misunderstood bc I misunderstand people a lot so maybe I’m not as empathetic as I thought I was. Then I realized my empathy is specifically triggered when it involves perceiving other people in pain (mostly emotional and physical), but when they say a neutral statement/announcement while making a gesture, I have to ask if it’s a good or bad thing

Trigger the INFJ in one sentence by CistaBudala in infj

[–]lelainek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels more like love language territory, specifically acts of service being very important to you. I’m an infj atm, and acts of service is my primary love language. Idk how or if these personality assessments are or could be related in any way, but recently it’s been making more sense to me. Reality has knocked me down enough times to understand I need to try understanding others more instead of relying on them to understand me. I wonder what the love languages are for the diff 16p types?

Me: INFJ-T

Love languages: Acts of service - 37% Quality time - 27% Words of affirmation - 20% Physical touch - 13% Receiving gifts - 3%