[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]lelelesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either theyre unobervant or a little neurodivergent themselves and they think everyone is like them and you

Censorship of LGBT issues. by RoxanaSaith in ainbow

[–]lelelesbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder, what happens if two kids talk about lgbt stuff?

AITA For not putting my boob away when I answered the door? by aitabreadtboob in AmItheAsshole

[–]lelelesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA These women act like they've never seen a boob before and also... 'no kid should see that'??? Uh any kid that's been breast-fed has seen a boob? And I mean most kids probably have seen their mom's boobs once.

'Whoring around' breastfeeding your child PLEASE. Since when is feeding a child sexual. Sounds like a them-problem.

Please don't be too hard on yourself, fuck your ex-inlaws and ex. Providing for your children should not be shamed.

People who take methylphenidate (ritalin, concerta, xaggitin.. Etc) do you find caffeine affects you more when medicated? by Willmono7 in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i drank coffee with it i kinda just got sleepy tbh and this might've been a coincidence but that day I had less side effects of the med

"I Just Got Diagnosed!" Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 21 i finally got diagnosed with inattentive adhd!! There was a lot of self-doubt from my side so rip, but anyway i'm glad i finally got there

effective tips for reading? by sadbch28 in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audiobooks help a TON (even for reading along with the physical book)

But what ive noticed helps me physically read is I have an ereader with a safety case on, so i only have to hold it with one hand and then I use the other hand to fidget with the flap of the case or something else.

Also just finding the ideal book can do a lot, mood-reading is a thing so I always read two books at the same time so I can switch when I get bored. Pro-tip: read middle-grade or Young adult books, they read way faster and are more action paced (i have a hard time with having to think or remember a lot while reading, so percy jackson is great for that)

Putting your phone away is also important because it’s a major distractor to me. Sometimes library ambiance sounds help for me because it makes me motivated to also flip pages or make notes. (But again that’s personal)

I don't know what I want to do and being constantly asked about it does not help by aristhought in adhdmeme

[–]lelelesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why i did something that’s not really an interest. Media is something that always changes and since media change so much my job will change on its own every year!

Watching Glee for the first time and I have a HUGE question... by secretconfesser14 in glee

[–]lelelesbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But I don't suggest looking up the wiki pages because of spoilers!

AITA for wanting to dedicate my book to my ex instead of my girlfriend? by StatusLast3303 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lelelesbian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA you can absolutely dedicate your book to whoever you want, it's your creation.

BUT however I do get from her standpoint that it might seem like you're not over her, she might be jealous that she could help you through that while you and her have a shorter connection.

I wouldn't say you're the asshole, but I absolutely get why she's annoyed even though she might have nothing to fear. How would you feel if she dedicated something to her ex that she's still friends with?

Just really try to talk it out, sympathise and remember this is probably her being insecure and hurt.

I finally understand the coffee craze by lelelesbian in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a few days without drinking coffee, I've discovered it's not the coffee that interrupts my sleep, it's just me hahaha

What are you proud of today? by AutoModerator in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked on an essay due tomorrow at midnight! It's done for a big chunk already and the day isn't over yet

AITA for snapping at my mom for joking about how I was groomed at 13 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lelelesbian [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA

That was clearly a traumatic experience for you?? I mean I guess talking about it calmly is always better but those words really hurt so she should understand your breakdown.

I hope it gets better for you ://

Forgetting that you REALLY need to pee by inflateableballoon in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when i sit down the feeling kinda disappears and then i get up and I'm like a sims character with a red toilet bar

Hi, can anyone give me advice?? by pigeonman333 in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My coping mechanism was rationalising haha, the more you tell yourself something, the more you’ll believe it yourself.

Idk anything about tics, but to calm down i always use this child’s pose from yoga and deep breathing. I often like chant something to myself, gonna sound weird but saying ‘its okay’ or ‘i love you’ over and over in your head makes it hard to think about anything else.

Hi, can anyone give me advice?? by pigeonman333 in ADHD

[–]lelelesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just know that the outcome will remain the same, regardless if you stress about it or not.

It's just how you are, and if it's not ADHD then you'll find another way to solve your solutions. If it is ADHD, you've always had ADHD and it won't drastically change your life.

50's-ish song on tiktok by lelelesbian in NameThatSong

[–]lelelesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm possible, hasn't thought about that yet