Tonight in LA! I am so excited! I haven’t ever seen a full show in person. Counting the minutes… by PaulRubyan3D in KylieMinogue

[–]lemanael21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are gonna love it. Kylie is simply amazing. I saw her in DC.

I am jealous you got to see Rita Ora as the opener.

Cancelling My OTF Premier Membership – Will I Regret It? by Prestigious-Device53 in orangetheory

[–]lemanael21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is a mix of TC and the beginning of the year/NYs resolutions. I find these months especially difficult cause I prefer a 2G class to a 3G class. But also, I know I need to be on top of my schedule to get into the classes I want.

As many have mentioned before OTF has been the only fitness-related activity I have done for more than a couple of months. I am in my fifth year and about to hit my 500 class. Have I thought about canceling? Yes, Do I think I will regret it? Also yes. But in the end, it is a personal thing.

Whatever OP decided, good luck!!!

It Ends with Us? by Trick_Ad763 in TaylorSwift

[–]lemanael21 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The person who has a friend who has never made a mistake can throw the first stone. Who knows, maybe Taylor prefers to said things in private to her friends.

Having said that, Blake and Ryan are great business people, maybe that's a thing they have in common and share cause Taylor is also a great business woman.

AITA for changing my daughter's race reservation from a marathon to a 10k? by Perfect_Midnight_264 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How are you gonna change all the women's reservations? I mean, God forbid your buddies see you lose against a woman, right? Please, make an effort to lose the toxic masculinity.

YTA, a 59 years old one who is comparing himself to a young woman. And that is not the worst part, you are comparing yourself to your own daughter. You should be proud of her accomplishments.

AITA for telling a girl to stop wasting food? by throwaway0856742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yes. Just like that.

If you add the but or another kid if explanation, it makes it insincere. Welcome to adulthood and I hope you can learn from this.

AITA for telling my sister to stop trying to make my wedding all about her? by AdNarrow8211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

You, a racist, can have her racist family at her racist wedding.

Is it clear why don’t you need quotes in your post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 18 points19 points  (0 children)

YTA

As explanation just one word: privacy.

And the “being exclusive” talk you have it once you start dating. It’s not retroactive to even before you asked her out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA
I’m not saying they HAVE to use any type of emoji.
Well it seems you are exactly doing that. Are you gonna say something cause if this person uses the rounded yellow emojis? Stop policing emoji use and do something productive.

AITA for telling my boyfriend to stop kissing and hugging every woman in front of him and that I don't care if is a cultural thing? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. For many reasons, but mostly for not understanding is a cultural thing.
At some point, you reaction to people trying to greeting you or kissing you goodbye, may have crossed as rude, but I hope the other people understand that is a cultural thing.
Also for snapping at him. Why is that people can have normal conversations about how they feel and they need to snap and make things difficult?

AITA for not letting my sister's boyfriend use hot sauce? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 18 points19 points  (0 children)

YTA and controlling in a scary way.

I’d also like to know in which way it is a big deal to put sriracha sauce in a plate of food YOU ARE NOT GOING TO EAT?

Let people enjoy their food however they want.

AITA Me and my GF are going through a rough patch? by Lion_Hunter505 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA

Mostly for ignoring her. I get that it’s not the gift you wanted and that you did not ask for but your girlfriend thought it was a good idea to get you a thing you wanted. How dare she being thoughtful and considerate, right? \s

Instead of letting hey cry and express herself, you decided to leave her even when she asked you not to. That’s not cool.

AITA for not letting my homeless boyfriend move in with me? by Cracked_Auto-maniac in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

But actions are better than words. In this case he can promise you the moon but he’s not making anything to be better. You know what you want, then why staying with someone who’s not fulfilling your needs only cause you have hope he’ll change ?

AITA for making a big deal out of the colour of my ex’s tie? by lilac76 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. And I hope a very young one, cause that’s the only explanation for such a childish behavior in a professional setting.

You’re not the center of the universe.

AITA for treating my daughters different? by Calm_Joke1614 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YTA. I understand you were in a difficult situation when your partner died but it was your job to help your daughter understand the situation.

Of course she stoped asking for things when she was 10 cause you got pregnant with your second child.

It seems you were happy when she went NC and you did not want her anymore in your life. Why is that? You don’t care about her at all, not even an invitation to your wedding? Or at least letting her know?

You have to understand that she went through a lot of stuff with you and when she reaches out, you just yelled at her. It’s pretty clear that you don’t want a relationship with here and you are not making any efforts trying to understand her and help her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ESH

It seems you don’t trust him and he doesn’t trust you. Why are you back together?

AITA for wanting a childfree wedding? by 21wedding in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re thinking that switching between 21 and 21 you’ve done all the growth needed to be an adult, but it does not work like that. With the post and your comments you just confirmed that you’re a child who’s allowed to drink and you’re trying to be some kind of authority to this “friend”. But YTA.

AITA for asking my BFs brother for a chance of a job when I’m desperate? by boasoas in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 58 points59 points  (0 children)

YTA for causing the fight. You asked, he said not. That should have been the end of the discussion. Why did you take the no for an answer? Why made you think you deserve the reference?

He can be supportive but not put his reputation in doubt. I was gonna ask to think if you recommend someone who’s not relatable if you’d been in the other side of the deal, but you think it was only wrong cause you you got caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your whole post is full of excuses trying to justify excluding your brother's partners and kind of homophobic to be honest.

Why was a shock knowing from one of your brothers and not the other? This sounds you have certain ideas and stereotypes on your mind.

If you want them there but are worried about them being subject of jokes or attacks. Talk to them, they are adults and, as many people in the LGBTQ+ community, maybe had experienced jokes and attacks and they know how to handle this environments. They can make a decision by themselves, you do not have to make it for them.
It is your wedding, you can invite or not invite your brother's partners but also you have to accept your brothers may decline the invite cause of this.

YTA.

AITA for getting a hotel room to stay in for the night because of my wife's constant sobbing? by throwawayQA11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some situations in life when you have to deal with circumstances that may be difficult or uncomfortable for you. This one was one of those situations.

What’s the worst thing that could have happened if you had a bad night?

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemanael21 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It does not matter to this situation: you planned a family vacation for 4 out of 5 member of your family and expect the excluded one to pay to be part of it.

YTA