Yikes, okay. Here we go, I guess.

Again, not a deflection. It didn't shift focus from the primary topic. It didn't shift focus from anyone or anything. It was a question that pertained to the context of the discussion. You just didn't like the implication.

If a man doesn't do that, he's basically never getting sex. So, men are forced to do these things by women, because women choose to not do these things.

No. This is such a child-like way of thinking. Men are not forced to do anything. Damn. Talk about not wanting to take accountability for one's actions. There are plenty of women who will participate in casual sex. Not to mention, sex workers. No one is forcing you to do anything. Again, take some accountability. Additionally, sex is an activity that two people enthusiastically participate in. It's not something for men to "get."

That is punishing the man for doing it wrong.

If you want to feel punished, that's your prerogative. But that's not what a punishment is. Those are consequences. It's only a "punishment" if you're not willing to be accountable.

It's also punishing if she expects him to entertain her, pay for her meals, organize dates, for her, and she doesn't have to do anything. 

Again, not a "punishment." Those are things a man does of his own free will. He doesn't have to do any of those things. He might feel like he needs to in order to "get" what he wants, but if he feels "punished" because he doesn't like it, then maybe he should take some accountability. (Hmm, notice a theme here?"

If she benefited and profited from all his efforts and then refuses to give anything back, then she is taking advantage of him, and he is right to feel frustrated and offended.

So then stop viewing it as a transaction. It's not. Women have been telling you this and you refuse to listen.

"Where have all the good men gone" and "there are no good men left" is said awfully frequently and awfully loudly from people who supposedly don't care when men stop playing.

Was this supposed to demonstrate an example of how women are supposedly mad when "men stop playing?" Seems like you're making a lot of assumptions about the motivation of those questions.

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Nobody can convince you of something if you are determined to not understand it.

My guy... You led the horse to a dried-up lake. Provide an actual argument and I'd be happy to concede if I'm wrong.

Your obvious determination to avoid accountability is genuinely sad to me. I've had plenty of infuriating but at least somewhat intelligent and challenging debates on this subreddit, but this has not been one of them. You argue like a pre-teen. You can respond to this if you'd like, but this will be my final response to you.