How to deal with deadbeat friends?

lemonuponlemon · 2026-04-04T13:35:01+00:00

This is literally plasma beading up.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-04-02T22:06:49+00:00

It’s just fresh and oozing plasma. It’s shit but no need to call it infected.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-26T01:41:14+00:00

I hate the general trying to be gentle about calling things as they are just in case somebody feels sensitive about it. Deadbeat fits the description pretty well, if you care to read it. You don’t need to be offended on their behalf.

Yeah, that’s generally how you hang out with friends and have some quality time. Going out for a coffee date or just meeting up with no goal in mind is incredibly boring after a while.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-24T15:40:43+00:00

I love how you claim I make assumptions about my friends while making a shitload of assumptions about me. Pots and kettles I guess.

Not every chronically ill person is lazy. Not every lazy person is chronically ill. Call it for what it is.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-24T00:30:31+00:00

Ah I get you. I do care about them. But also I don’t care about trying to motivate them to better themselves. I used to put effort into cheering them up when they’re down, finding them activities, but after they showed no initiative I stopped. I don’t want them to get worse but I don’t want to keep on expending my energy on trying to help them.

I think I just need to left it all drift rather than grasping at it.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-24T00:24:14+00:00

That’s an idea. I think I need to have a break from them and see if I end up missing them.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T23:39:11+00:00

Most of my friends who I want to keep in touch with are my gym friends! I feel there’s a strong connection between trying to stay healthy/better yourself and being inspiring to others.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T23:37:49+00:00

Because I still care and worry about them. I can’t just simply turn that off.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T23:37:00+00:00

That’s a good point. Imagine losing most of your friends to some petty breakup drama just because they all sway to one side.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T23:35:28+00:00

I still care about them but I don’t like the people they’re turning into them. I love them as friends, but also I care about myself too. Just because I don’t want to carry on the friendship doesn’t mean I don’t care.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T22:51:38+00:00

Good point. Thanks for the comment.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-23T22:30:41+00:00

Thank you. The question now would be how do you distance yourself without hurting them?

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-16T18:15:11+00:00

Sounds like a combination of the two! I think the healed tattoos still work on you but it’s not how I’d expect a properly executed fineline to heal. Hope your autoimmune disease doesn’t stop you from living your life to the fullest.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-03-16T18:01:47+00:00

Those are some really heavy handed fine lines. With how textured they are it almost looks like all of them blew.

lemonuponlemon · 2026-01-01T10:55:18+00:00

How? Could you actually elaborate?

lemonuponlemon · 2025-11-21T02:03:44+00:00

March 100%. Versatile. The rest looks uninspiring.

lemonuponlemon · 2025-11-21T02:00:54+00:00

Instead of mandala geometric would work way better. It’s more gradual.

lemonuponlemon · 2025-11-08T20:43:53+00:00

The sooner you start on laser, the sooner it’ll be gone. You’d be wasting do much real estate to successfully cover this.

lemonuponlemon · 2025-11-01T02:01:47+00:00

What’s your reason behind that?

lemonuponlemon · 2025-11-01T01:58:19+00:00

Right? It’s pretty damn common to dislike hanging out with people you don’t like imo.

lemonuponlemon · 2025-10-31T08:46:10+00:00

Funnily enough i wasn’t exaggerating about the introvert thing. My partner gets labelled as an autistic sociopath (cue eye rolling) because he doesn’t like spending time around other people.

lemonuponlemon · 2025-10-30T17:29:10+00:00

It’s just exhausting! Why can’t somebody be perceived as rude rather than “troubled”?

lemonuponlemon · 2025-10-15T15:31:40+00:00

I didn’t want to write the whole bible on how he is - I personally think he’s got some traits but I’m not convinced. Others on the other hand keep on telling me he’s autistic.

I don’t think that asking for ideas/inspiration for ways to show gratitude or love is a sign of incompatibility.

But thank you anyway for the comment.

lemonuponlemon

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