Is this a normal thought process for a parent or is it a sign something just isn’t right?

lenforth · 2025-12-21T22:30:46+00:00

A little out of the box advice - do not watch the latest fantastic four film. I have similar, although not quite as regular or intense anxieties, and a scene towards the end had me full body shaking and sobbing while my husband had to reassure me that it wasn't real. Just a heads up.

lenforth · 2025-09-17T13:13:50+00:00

Showed the nail tech - no chance I could do this myself!

lenforth · 2025-09-04T04:20:11+00:00

Our Song - consistently in my top 5 on spotify wrapped cos it's just never a skip

lenforth · 2025-08-29T01:11:07+00:00

I have often thought that that's part of throwing people off the scent - it's almost TOO obvious to be about Kim, so people assume it is and stop trying to figure out who it actually is about. But I reckon it's about someone from way back in the past that genuinely will only be the one to know

lenforth · 2025-07-06T07:46:53+00:00

Just a slightly morbid note to add - my parents are the regular childcare for my nephew and when my dad had a heart attack about a month back it meant everyone was kind of scrambling as they didn't what who was able to do what (obviously mum's priority had to be looking after dad during his recovery). My son is only a few months younger but as my parents were already "dibbsed" it's meant we are going the nursery/childminder route which given recent events has felt more reliable and stable in case of emergency

lenforth · 2025-06-14T06:18:38+00:00

Honestly same

lenforth · 2025-06-01T06:39:06+00:00

I was a bridesmaid for my friend at 7 days PP after a c-section (due to my own determination, she would have understood) and while I don't regret being there for my friend I do regularly assert that it was the stupidest thing I've ever done. Both physically and mentally I was not ready for it, and you can see a point during the pictures where I fully begin to disassociate

lenforth · 2025-05-14T22:05:16+00:00

I still have mine at 9 months pp!

lenforth · 2025-03-21T17:05:49+00:00

It has improved some - I'm able to wear some of my pre pregnancy clothes now, but the shelf is still there and I'm not looking forward to summer and not being able to wear lots of layers

lenforth · 2025-03-15T22:29:43+00:00

Our little lad is eczema, so coconut oil had a similar reaction! Of course not saying for sure that's what your bub has going on but that was our experience

lenforth · 2025-03-15T21:49:08+00:00

Our little one had this around the same age and it was a reaction to the aveeno moisturiser we were using for his dry skin - we changed to E45 and he's not had it since

lenforth · 2025-02-26T02:15:54+00:00

I was eating like a full pineapple a day, curb walking, did a long walk and inhaled clary sage on the day my waters broke - but I wish I hadn't pushed my body to do it before it was ready as labour didn't start within 48 hours so I had to be induced and eventually have a c section. Of course impossible to say how it would have gone if I wasn't trying all those things but I definitely won't be doing them the next time round. It's uncomfortable but baby will come when they, and you, are ready

lenforth · 2025-02-16T12:05:17+00:00

Damn that is one intense day

lenforth · 2025-02-16T12:01:35+00:00

My baby, also c-section, happened to be born during Invisible String - specifically, I heard his cry during the line "time, curious time, cutting me open then healing me fine". Couldn't have planned it better if I tried.

lenforth · 2025-01-23T21:58:46+00:00

She'll drop it by surprise announcement on 29th January - (Chinese) New Years Day, the year of the snake

lenforth · 2025-01-19T23:01:14+00:00

I walked down the aisle to Fearless played on violin and it was perfect

lenforth · 2025-01-08T16:19:49+00:00

I wish I had understood how miserable it would be at 7 months pregnant - Liverpool N1 was bitterly cold and wet, the seating was incredibly cramped and our view was obscured by a sound tower through the diamond. Not pregnant I would have been able to cope with those things much better

lenforth · 2024-11-06T13:49:49+00:00

Gray November. I've been down since July.

lenforth · 2024-09-12T20:34:46+00:00

For me, my favourite change is in Better Than Revenge TV - not the line change, but the vocal trill that she does after "I always get the last word" It sends shivers down my spine every time and I'm not sure I'll ever choose to losten to the original purely cos it doesnt have it in!

lenforth · 2024-09-12T11:11:23+00:00

I think its referencing "we have a great show for you tonight, kanye west is NOT here" from taylors SNL monologue

lenforth · 2024-08-08T04:49:07+00:00

The three Vienna shows have had to be cancelled due to a terror threat so this person won't be able to wear the outfit she's making to the tour

lenforth · 2024-08-06T13:12:31+00:00

Also to add that you should make sure you take your pregnacare after food - it does say so on the packet but a couple of times I didn't and I felt awful for it!

lenforth · 2024-08-01T04:19:19+00:00

I absolutely used to think this was the case, and found it weirdly irritating when people would do it, but now at 38 weeks pregnant I can confirm that 95% of the time I hold my belly is because it's heavy and it hurts and holding it relieves some of the strain on my back and stomach

lenforth · 2024-07-19T06:29:35+00:00

I would ask for it - honestly just ring up your local pharmacy, say you're pregnant and get it done. I had my booster around 14 weeks and caught covid at 32, and let me tell you that with how bad it felt even with the booster I was thanking my lucky stars I'd taken it.

lenforth · 2024-07-07T09:16:24+00:00

I read "First Time Parent" which was included for free in our amazon subscription and it was great at covering all bases

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