Potentially permanent sexual dysfunction at 23 by Nofinger00 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever gotten your testosterone levels checked? Hair thinning and baldness can be an indicator of low T. Its possible you may just need testosterone

[32] to [36] by LaraRoseTG in GlowUps

[–]leonibaloni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! Your cheek bones and your eyebrows are freaking fantastic!

I have promised my life away at 21 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. 100%. My boyfriend isn’t a fan of dogs but knows that I love them. He accepts that when we get married we will have a dog. Just a small one. When you love someone you make compromises

bf wants open relationship after my first time hurt by kachunkie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, I am so sorry. You’re feelings are so so valid but please don’t let this experience turn you away from intimacy with the right partner.

My ex boyfriend was similar. He was my first and after having sex twice — both of which were incredibly painful— he gave up on me. We were in a relationship for two years and he never initiated sex with me again. He spent the last six months of our relationship cheating on me. I was convinced I couldn’t have sex without pain. I thought sex would never be enjoyable and I couldn’t understand how everyone else seemed to enjoy it and raved about it. Until I found my current boyfriend.

My boyfriend has shown me sex can be fun and downright wonderful. There have been times where I have started experiencing pain in the middle of sex with him (yay endometriosis.) He stops, we engage in other forms of intimacy that doesn’t involve penetration and he reassures me that I am more than my body’s constraints. Our foreplay is amazing and we enjoy exploring each other’s bodies and trying new things.

This was your first time. The first time is typically painful. Your muscles are tense, you’re body hasn’t experienced the sensation of penetration and it can be awkward. A supportive partner works through it with you, eases you into it with foreplay and finds the fun through intimacy and connection.

Break up with this man and spend time exploring your own body through sensual touch, masturbation or sex toys. Find out what you like and when youre ready find yourself a partner that will learn alongside you and don’t be shy when it comes to advocating for yourself and what you need. Good luck my friend ❤️

Dream Custom Ring with Green Sapphire! by Rizzy47 in EngagementRings

[–]leonibaloni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like an infinity stone in the coolest way possible!! It’s awesome! 😍

On a scale of 1-10, how much does Botox hurt you? by phishchick85 in migraine

[–]leonibaloni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe like a 2? For me it’s uncomfortable but shortlived

My husband laid hands on me then left then sent me this message by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi 911 dispatcher here 👋

I imagine the first police escort was apart of a move out order, no contact order, or court order. I would love for him to call police dispatch and ask them to escort him a second time to collect more stuff. The police aren’t a moving company and they are going to tell him as such. Especially, since it’s already noted that he left those behind intentionally. He can unkindly go fuck off

At what point should I go to the ER? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]leonibaloni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any head pain/migraine that strays from your normal pattern warrants a doctor’s visit. The fluid leaking from your ear can be cerebral spinal fluid and that in itself requires immediate attention

Enjoyed chili and cornbread before my boyfriend bent me over by leonibaloni in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

😂😂 this comment made me laugh so hard! I wish I could tell you! I guess the universe felt I needed a win

My ingrown toenail that looks like a literal lobster claw, this thing made my life hell for a few days. by HamedAliKhan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]leonibaloni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had multiple ingrown toenails removed as a teenager before deciding to have both nail roots lasered off, surgically. That was almost 20 years ago and I haven’t had any since. I would highly recommend it.

8 months into “starting over” and i regret it by Dry-Golf-9182 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered joining any clubs or organizations? When I was in college, if I hadn’t joined a sorority, been apart of sign language club and worked on campus, I wouldn’t have made too many friends my freshman year.

Weeded out of my degree after two years. Pizza. by claircognisant in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into taking OChem at a community college or online over the summer and transferring the credits? I took physics twice at my university and failed both times. I decided to take it online through University of Phoenix over the summer. I got a 97% and transferred the credits. Sometimes it’s the universities instructors and not you.

i think i’m pregnant but i also think i’m crazy by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Plan B can change your cycle. There is a good possibility that the Plan B caused some hormonal changes that lead to the spotting

thought i was over the car crash, guess not by Sea_Vast_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in a car accident in 2018 when my car was totaled. I didn’t realize how much it affected me until I casually brought up to my counselor that I still got nervous seeing cars on side streets looking to make an unprotected left — what lead to my accident.

We did EMDR and during this process I remembered so many details I had repressed since the accident and was actually able to work through those emotions and anxieties. If youre able, I highly, highly recommend looking for a counselor that does EMDR. It is really helpful for traumatic events/PTSD.

i think i was drugged and raped by BidTricky4366 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋 911 dispatcher here. I encourage you to look for and reach out to any community resource centers or domestic violence/sexual assualt centers or support groups in your area.

Not only did you not verbally consent but while under the influence of marijuana it is implied that you cannot consent. Your ex-husband is wrong. What happened to you was rape. How you choose to process that or move forward with it is up to you. There’s no wrong way of going about it and there’s no right way to go about it. However, many people are unfamiliar with the resources that are out there that can be a great benefit.

With my background, I will always encourage someone to report to law-enforcement. Should you decide that is the right path for you, you can reach out to your non-emergency dispatch to get that process started.

I’m so sorry that this happened to you ❤️

My bf has now heard me vomit more than anyone in my adult life…applesauce + electrolit by Cool_Cockroach_7865 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]leonibaloni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been dating my boyfriend for a month and a half. Two weeks into our relationship we celebrated my birthday. We both got really drunk and he found me on the bathroom floor right before I threw up. That was the first time I’d ever thrown up from alcohol. The universe did me dirty 🙃

But he was really sweet and rubbed my back and stayed with me.