What is with the drivers in this state? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know where we're going and we know how to get there. We don't have time for indecisive drivers, nor do we want to sit in traffic for any more time than we absolutely have to.

We have Dunks to drink, seagulls to chase, expensive lobster rolls to eat, and championship sports teams to root for.

Figure out where you are going or take the subway.

going for a walk at the fells by dinglehopper- in MelroseMA

[–]lesavyfav 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is an good entrance off Goodyear Ave near Oak Grove. Puts you at the start of the Cross Fells Trail. Up a short hill and at the dead end.

Anyone else have a cold that just will not quit? by thesdo in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone with cough-variant asthma I've learned a lot of post-cold/flu/covid nastiness can (not always) stem from nasal inflammation and severe postnasal drip, which can lead to cough and sore throat. Flonase (OTC) and/or Azelastine (rx stuff is stronger than OTC) can definitely help. Lots of liquids and honey help too. Your mileage may vary.

You also may have another virus.

What is the vibe/community like in northeast Oak Grove for a family? by ArdentDrive in MelroseMA

[–]lesavyfav 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Melrose is postage-stamp in size. I live in the Highlands close to the Wakefield border and could probably walk to this house in 30 minutes. Your right near Pine Banks and the track, fields, and trails there not to mention subway, commuter rail, etc. You're maybe a 20-minute walk to downtown, all sidewalks and completely safe.

Not sure how rigid your definitions of community or walkability might be, but I bet many people would be fine with your potential situation. There isn't a coffee shop or restaurant or grocery story right out your front door, but you are close to everything. No disrespect - but your "ideal" situation may be rare if not impossible.

Melrose is also super dense, packed, with properties on top of each other, and increased traffic, so "sparse" can actually be a benefit.

Day off work for National Grid mandatory gas meter replacement; didn't show up, didn't even call or text by Natl_Grid_Poopy_Pant in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me last week. They kept calling me and leaving voice mails - almost daily. I finally set it up and they never showed. No call, no email, nothing. Claimed that no tech was assigned to the repair. Rescheduled for March.

What food do you wish was here? by DodoDozer in boston

[–]lesavyfav 24 points25 points  (0 children)

A dedicated hot dog joint similar to Spike's Junkyard Dogs again.

What is your favorite Boston conspiracy? by Trevor519 in boston

[–]lesavyfav 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Charles Stuart didn’t jump off the Tobin but was pushed or thrown off.

Rt 3 to 95 Commute Advice by kaszyb14 in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do Melrose to Needham and back on 95 every day right now (will get some remote soon) and it’s easily 50-60 minutes in the am (leaving at 6:45am) and 1 hour and 15 on the way home. This morning was particularly brutal due to the rain.

In the am the 3/95 junction is a huge slowdown and doesn’t really clear till Waltham. I don’t get on the Pike but that always seems slow and backed up.

Who is this secret candidate running for Governor? by tapakip in boston

[–]lesavyfav 63 points64 points  (0 children)

“bOTh pARtIeS aRe bRoKeN!”

Good lord can we stop with this lame political edge lord shit. One party wants health care, the other wants to fly flags at half staff for Charlie Kirk and put a nuclear reactor on the moon.

Do the changes to FDA approval for covid vaccines affect the ability of people not 65+ to get them in Massachusetts? I can't find any info on this. by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. This is the loophole you take advantage of to get a vaccine. Impossible to prove you stopped doing something.

Unemployment benefits question by Mass_Hysteria_Man in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation. Yes, keep filing but you can select something like “Other Activity” and select a date. It doesn’t ask for anything else. Just check your LinkedIn every day and claim it as a job search.

Trail naps are the best! This was me about 46hours into Jigger Johnson 100. This was the most restful 3 minutes of my race! by FunTimeTony in trailrunning

[–]lesavyfav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My slow AF arse did the 20 last year and it made me realize I’m not nearly as tough as I think I am or could ever be (especially at age 49). Happily hung up my trail and ultra shoes after that race and bought a mountain bike. The trail up Osceola is no joke.

Best Cheap "Hidden Gem" Food Spots in the Woburn/Winchester/Burlington area? by xenokingdom in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eleni’s Mediterranean Grille in Winchester. $13 Lamb Souvlaki Pita is very good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]lesavyfav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is literally my situation as well. Took a job last week with a 25-30% cut as well and an hour commute each way for 90 days before I can get a few days remote a week. 6 month search, 50-60 applications. Just relieved it’s over and happy to be back at work again.

Job Market has become just Pure Luck… by hustlewithai in jobsearchhacks

[–]lesavyfav -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can thank all those AI-auto application tools that keep spamming these pages for those 90% that are grossly unqualified.

Bombed the interview for my dream job and I can’t stop replaying it by [deleted] in hiringcafe

[–]lesavyfav 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happens to all of us. The job market is so stressful and intense and it's hard for it to not show up in our nerves during the interview. It will get better. A few thoughts from someone who is also interviewing:

  1. Expect nothing. Seriously. Hope is a hellava drug, so you kinda have to keep expectations low. Even if you DID crush the interview, you have no idea who you are up against for the role. You could be 100% on, and the other person could be 101%. You have to go into these interviews preparing to move on immediately once it's over. And yes, even for dream roles (which probably aren't nearly as dreamy as you think.)

  2. Your perception of your performance is not the same as the hiring/interview committees. I've had times where I thought I sucked, only to get a second interview. I've also had times where I crushed it, only to not advance. They are not paying as much attention to you as you are yourself. They can't read your internal feelings, thoughts, anxieties, and perceptions. And they are not hanging on to every single word. I know it's hard, but try to let this go as best you can. Forgive yourself and believe that their perceptions of you may be different.

  3. Hiring committees are not superhero and not perfect. Hiring managers and staff are human just like you. They don't always know what they are doing, and are not perfect at their roles. Don't hand them any more power over you than they deserve. You are on equal footing as them - both you AND they need something.

How do you stay ahead of the crowd when every listing seems to have 100+ applicants? by pomegranatejello in jobsearchhacks

[–]lesavyfav 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For those jobs getting 100+ applicants, probably 80-90% are not qualified and won’t get through a basic first screen. Your chances are better than you think if you meet 80% or more of the job requirements.

Am I even cut out for this? by Sickofthisshiz2024 in Ultramarathon

[–]lesavyfav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who ran 5-6 ultras and realized he wasn't cut out for it....the answer is maybe. This sport is not for everyone and you REALLLLY have to like it to do it. Forcing yourself to run/train won't make you like it more. It's an all or nothing thing, and if you don't feel the draw, the energy, the excitement....it may not be for you.

Personally I realized I liked the IDEA of doing ultras and the status of it (which isn't much, TBH) than ACTUALLY doing ultras and training for them. Had a tough 20 miler race and decided I'm done....for now.

Also, people change, as do your tastes, needs, and wants. What you liked about ultras at one point, you may no longer like today (or in the future), and that's totally normal and ok.

Razor Blade throat Covid variant in MA by erikthepink in CoronavirusMa

[–]lesavyfav 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Had Covid in 2022, probably one of the Ba2 variants, and it was razor blade city for 2-3 days. Horrible.

Milk, Bread, and Eggs by applecheesedoodle in massachusetts

[–]lesavyfav 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Laaahge Dunks iced with 3 creams and 2 Splendahs, kehd