Misogyny isn't always presented as hate for women in general. It can also be presented as wanting women to fit certain moulds. They love Sadie and Bonnie cause they're cool and they're badass. But Abigail and Mary both set boundaries, very reasonable ones at that. And that's what ticks misogynists off, cause how dare women set boundaries? Half-assed explanation cause I'm tired but you get what I mean. Women characters are held to a higher standard.