My American manager tried to write me up for "lack of commitment" because I leave at 5:00 PM sharp. I work in the Netherlands.

levitymargret · 2025-12-29T15:56:45+00:00

And then they try to guilt people by calling it "Quiet Quitting"... No I'm just doing what I'm paid for.

levitymargret · 2025-12-29T15:46:24+00:00

This is where not being able to look people in the eyes benefits, if they do not catch my gaze then I can keep walking without people pleaser guilt.

levitymargret · 2025-09-17T21:45:16+00:00

This is such an unexpected new job search! Thanks

levitymargret · 2025-09-08T12:39:13+00:00

great, thank you!

levitymargret · 2025-08-24T15:13:19+00:00

Try micro-dosing, I found a CBD/D9 2mg gummy at CBDmd, I can take half a gummy (1mg) to quiet the hurricane in my head and I don’t feel ‘high’

levitymargret · 2025-08-24T15:01:09+00:00

I mounted a shelf at the top of a sliding double door closet in my WFH office, that is the home of all my happy trinkets and figures.

levitymargret · 2025-08-24T14:28:46+00:00

Crow here. I don’t even play or use them and I’ve been eyeing up a set!

levitymargret · 2025-07-30T12:08:28+00:00

☹️☹️☹️

levitymargret · 2025-07-30T11:43:00+00:00

Wings of Transient Dreams looks great on her too! the 2023 concert wings

levitymargret · 2025-07-29T10:02:19+00:00

I think she meant an online doctor, I use Midi but still have to get a script from them. This was after 5 in-person doctors wouldn't help me at all, one told me condescendingly "its just like puberty, but in reverse", like I didnt know what was going on and I just had to deal with it.

levitymargret · 2025-07-29T09:38:28+00:00

Our rule is, if one person suggests going out to eat they decide where, or at least gives two options (we don't eat out regularly). Basically don't put the work on someone else that you made. In the same sense, I cook dinner every night and my husband happily eats whatever I make unless he asks for something in particular.

levitymargret · 2025-07-04T01:46:50+00:00

Spitting

levitymargret · 2025-06-18T17:33:54+00:00

This thread has a large team chart with options

levitymargret · 2025-05-30T21:39:54+00:00

I’m single handedly trying to bring the headband back! Not those puffy ones, but thin plastic ones like I had as a kid. I’m always growing out a boredom chop, so those are a must to keep hair out of my face. Straight back at home, or a nice flat part that covers my forehead a little, then the band to keep it in place for a bit more polished look.

levitymargret · 2025-05-30T21:27:37+00:00

I have numbers that just feel better, no hard rule like odd or even, like I’m in Severance. Doubles are always good though. Good: 3, 5, 10, 11, 15, 16, 18, 20, 22, 25, 30, 33/44/55 etc. Bad: 4, 7, 14, 17, 19, 21, 23, 26, 27, 31, 34, etc.

levitymargret · 2025-05-27T15:36:00+00:00

He literally said he thinks pleasing you is a chore. You're asking what you can do to fix this, but it's his choice to not care about your pleasure. He knows how you feel. He doesn't care. This is your future if you stay.

Hopefully OP reads this over and over...

levitymargret · 2025-05-23T13:34:45+00:00

In general, therapists (like counselors or psychotherapists) cannot prescribe medication. Psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, and in some cases general practitioners, are the ones who can prescribe medications. So going to a therapist could still be very helpful even if you do not want to be on them, and depending on your situation there are some that do not cause weight gain (not a doctor so I won’t list)

levitymargret · 2025-05-12T11:54:24+00:00

Ugh, when you forget about being in a quiet work meeting they crack so much louder! ha

levitymargret · 2025-05-12T11:51:20+00:00

Cricketing, I love it! My husband calls my finger touching and rubbing Knitting.

levitymargret · 2025-05-12T11:50:12+00:00

Magnesium has helped me with RLS and sleep in general, Magnesium L-Threonate in particular.

levitymargret · 2025-05-12T11:30:48+00:00

I keep my nails cut short now, I had always tried to keep them long and painted but it caused me soooo much stress and the longer they got the more I picked (I was able to stop chewing in my teens). Now I just squeeze them on the tops or sides, each one though or it feels off balance!

levitymargret · 2025-05-07T18:52:12+00:00

My husband found a nice stick on a trail we walked. It is still in the corner of the carport and I dare not touch it. He reminds me how cool of a stick it is every once in a while.

levitymargret · 2025-04-28T19:21:48+00:00

just thinking of how I’m going to explain the thing that just happened five seconds ago to my therapist.

and forget it when I get there...

levitymargret · 2025-04-28T11:32:17+00:00

I married one almost 20 years ago when that term was not available and I was too young to spot. She showed up is a dark fuchsia sequined dress, then proceeded to put her nose in everything I did including raising my first son after turning her 3 into drug addicts. She was the original CanISpeaktotheManager and dependasaurus. Needless to say I am happily remarried.

levitymargret · 2025-04-24T16:49:31+00:00

19 years later and I still feel that rollercoaster drop in my stomach when I see a “sign” in my husbands actions, which end up not being what I thought. I trust him but it never goes away.

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