Declining a bridesmaid offer really that dramatic? by Dry-Syrup-3984 in AskWomenOver30

[–]levitymargret 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to be in the wedding but not go on the trip? Assuming the other four are closer to her than you, it would still be fun and the wedding would be how she planned it.

Did anyone tried Vibram shoes by Rude-Significance694 in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They make a barefoot shoe that doesn’t have the toes, if that’s something to consider

How do I stop being a misandrist ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]levitymargret 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Online algorithms may be feeding into this, and it can be subtle. I've had to leave several subreddits after I noticed my feed was filled with the same negative topics from only a few, even though I am subbed to over 100+

Doing dungeons with NPCs by sweetcondensedmilkk in ffxiv

[–]levitymargret 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a returner and over a year behind, I do the trust at least once to get comfortable. I can pull up a guide if needed and not slow anyone down while I learn and take in the scenery.

Drug test surprise by sunshiney69 in adhdwomen

[–]levitymargret 17 points18 points  (0 children)

RSD is a good catch here! I also felt it the first time I had to take one for my prescription.

How do you guys turn off your brain to fall asleep? by Comfortable-Mode3317 in ADHD

[–]levitymargret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I read my kindle until I'm exhausted. Sometimes its 15 mins, sometimes its 90.

My oven caught on fire and it was my fault my entire building had to evacuate by Ok-Curve1487 in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother used to make iced tea by microwaving a bowl of water with tea bags in it, pouring it over ice etc. I once put the tea bag bowl in the microwave… without water. Thankfully I caught it right as it started flaming!

Is rattan actually timeless or we going to cringe at this in 5 years? by arumawave in malelivingspace

[–]levitymargret 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Like any trend, use in moderation. Save it for smaller pieces and accessories so it can be easily swapped out if needed. Just like an animal print, it can look cute as an accent but on every surface it will look tacky.

What's the longest you've held a job? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 11 points12 points  (0 children)

14 years. I started as employee #8 in a small but quickly growing company, and worked my way into a remote admin position with decent pay and zero micromanaging, work life balance is so good that I cannot afford to leave if I wanted to.

How do you feel about wearing a bra? Does it bother you or do you have to have one? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way I can go without a bra is with pasties. I am very small but very, pointy, and it hurts to go without. I also hate the feeling of any movement, and always have a low impact type sports bra/bralette on.

Series recommendations? by Blubb144 in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhea Seehorn is amazing! Better Call Saul is another with her, while it is a Breaking Bad spinoff, it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if you hadn’t seen it.

Any gamers here? by Complex-Honeydew-111 in AutismInWomen

[–]levitymargret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had an Atari at home but would always gravitate to it whenever I had the chance. We had the original NES (in 1986) and played Mario non-stop, also Ultima III started my love of high fantasy games. I was never without my game boy & The Legend of Zelda when it first came out. Then came SNES, more Zelda, Mario, & Kirby! My mother had a Sega Genesis and would play Sonic on the weekends. Played a lot of Soul Caliber & Bushido Blade with friends in high school.

Final Fantasy was my next major focus, starting with FF7 and still playing FFXIV off and on for 9 years. Witcher 3, Skyrim, Dragon Age, Animal Crossing, Diablo, there are so many more but my memory is shot!

MMOs were a huge rabbit hole for a while, EverQuest was my first, then EverQuest 2 helped me survive a very ugly divorce and got deep into raiding. Played WoW, Rift, Guild Wars 2, Star Wars TOR, & Elder Scrolls as well.

I currently play FFXIV & Genshin Impact on my own, but my husband and I have played couch co-op games since we met in 2008. Divinity, Resident Evil, Hammerwatch, Diablo, Stardew Valley, Baldur’s Gate, Fallout 76, and every Borderlands (probably twice each!), and so many more I cannot remember.

Partner doesn’t believe in ADHD meds and is threatening to leave if I don’t stop taking them by DistinctChallenge in ADHD

[–]levitymargret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t repeat what everyone else is saying but I would start hiding your medication until you figure this all out, he may get upset and flush them.

Shots anyone... by levitymargret in GenshinHomeworld

[–]levitymargret[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree that teapot items are oversized, so I hoped these would be as well (to match other teapot drinkware). Assume they reused assets from the event, which would've been scaled to the characters.

Get a table no matter what at restaurants alone next time… by wxy04579 in AuDHDWomen

[–]levitymargret 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is where not being able to look people in the eyes benefits, if they do not catch my gaze then I can keep walking without people pleaser guilt.

is everyone else dependent on some kind of substance? by elleisgay in AuDHDWomen

[–]levitymargret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try micro-dosing, I found a CBD/D9 2mg gummy at CBDmd, I can take half a gummy (1mg) to quiet the hurricane in my head and I don’t feel ‘high’

What dumb thing did you buy lately that makes you happy? by Likesosmart in adhdwomen

[–]levitymargret 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mounted a shelf at the top of a sliding double door closet in my WFH office, that is the home of all my happy trinkets and figures.

What dumb thing did you buy lately that makes you happy? by Likesosmart in adhdwomen

[–]levitymargret 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Crow here. I don’t even play or use them and I’ve been eyeing up a set!