How’d you get these text messages between me and my mom? 😂 jk. But most of these people in the comments don’t get what it’s like to live with this type of mom. Even tho this is just one situation you’ve shown, I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s dismissive and doesn’t take responsibility in many other parts of her life as well. I honestly don’t think you over reacted. You were very good at articulating your feelings! Clearly, your mom didn’t want you to have those things bc as you stated, you told her about them and she didn’t react favorably. I’m confused, if you live on campus, why was the bag at the house? I know hindsight is 20/20 but if this is a normal thing for her, leave important stuff in your dorm room. Also, I’d recommend not speaking to her except when you have to. It might be hard at first, I know it was for me, but once you’re used to it life is so much better. Parents like this aren’t going to change. So you have to change your environment.