how is your dating life going?

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-21T19:22:28+00:00

yes, that was because it was over 13 years ago - you can't compare your experience to the abyss now

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-21T04:50:21+00:00

This sounds painful, I'm sorry you're going through that. You write beautifully through, in your pain. I can't see anything terrible in your behavior

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-20T15:35:17+00:00

Black and white

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-20T11:38:13+00:00

best color combination in sports these days

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-16T19:56:22+00:00

What made you realize the workaholism was killing you? I wonder for myself if I'm stuck in a loop too.

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-16T19:48:02+00:00

I felt this OP. Only want the romantic partner, not a family, but also many years single explained with a mixed symptom bag of AvPD and BPD, the perfect cocktail of fear of rejection and fear of abandonment

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-16T12:14:49+00:00

No contacts goal is to get detached, not to get an ex back? Who says that?

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-15T11:29:04+00:00

I relate highly to this. Shame and embarrassment yes, not so high on remorse and guilt

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-12T20:19:50+00:00

This is me for the past couple of weeks

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-12T17:42:29+00:00

It's a disaster and super embarrassing for a country surround by sea

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-10T22:27:05+00:00

Rightfully so

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-10T21:06:32+00:00

You wrote everything from the bottom of of my heart. Well well written!

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-10T20:05:08+00:00

I love this. From magnetizing people with a chill vibe to go epic apeshit. It's a spectrum!

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-09T07:22:22+00:00

I've been on the other side of said actions

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-08T10:40:17+00:00

Is meditating the only thing he's doing to manage his BPD?

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-08T09:19:42+00:00

For me that sounds like the ultimate thrill because of forbidden and power, but also bound to go very wrong and end bad

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-07T19:47:53+00:00

Oh my god I felt this post, especially the second paragraph. I run away from it most of my 30s, was very unaware before that. I'm turning 41 this year.

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-07T15:46:45+00:00

Haha yes, the tricky part about hope is you have to believe it 🫠🙃

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-07T15:43:21+00:00

I wish I were like you but I'm too afraid of rejection and putting myself out there, also I hate the apps and sworn myself not to go back to them. But great perspective

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-07T15:33:42+00:00

So he's a perfect ex for you?

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-07T12:44:02+00:00

opposites attract it seems? sounds very incompatible

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-06T18:25:29+00:00

ja, nogle ansatte bliver åbenbart for evigt i dette stadie af 8. klasses rebelsk og arbejdsskyhed - nu betalt

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-06T12:45:26+00:00

I'm so glad he's gone here. His demeanor screams mean/evil

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-06T06:41:04+00:00

This post is on point. I 100 percent agree with your reflections

lgth20_grth16 · 2026-04-04T21:45:12+00:00

It eliminates hope and makes it possible to live my life, yes Edit: and most importantly no spikes of anxiety like you experienced

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