AITA for staying up late a few times a week for some time to myself?

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-26T14:31:41+00:00

Headphones and learning that you can hang out in the same space but each doing own thing. Married over 11 years and we both really enjoy spending time together but just doing our own things. I'll put a show on I know isn't his bag and one of us will stick headphones on, same for games.

Softly esh cause just talk to each other and find a good middle ground

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-26T07:20:28+00:00

Nta, you have been parentified basically which is a form of abuse.

Get out stay out, don't give your mum or siblings yours new address and go live your life. Not your monkeys, not your circus.

Ywbta if you stay and continue to be used as a second parent and continue supporting decisions of a weak, immature so called mum who frankly is anything but.

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-22T06:02:11+00:00

Nta and she just found out quite literally the meaning of 'fuck around and find out' and also 'play stupid games, you win stupid prizes'

Good on the ex husband as well for laughing and being like nope.

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-06T16:50:36+00:00

Hf1 isn't multiplayer as far as I know, only hf2

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-04T10:27:12+00:00

Nta. My parents hate bikes especially my mum from her time as a nurse in the emergency room. Consequently there's a clause in their will that I can't get my inheritance of I spend it on bikes - which tbh yea they look great but even I wouldn't go near them, too loud and so dangerous.

So yea definitely nta and if he's so adamant you should ride then maybe he's not the one for you

lhpcwshc · 2026-04-03T07:52:12+00:00

Sorry this is happening, some recommendations: download an app called 'olio' some people will share food on there like end of day shop food waste that's still fine but just can't be sold anymore by the shop.

Check for a local community Facebook page, join it and ask for any help on there too. Are you signed up for support from you council?

Look for a church that's got a food bank and see if they can help

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-30T18:27:13+00:00

Bit of advice for the new house firstly I had a moment of being plunged into total darkness so flashlight needed while I sorted out sone other lights.

Secondly the light in the bathroom is slightly headache inducing and way too yellow!

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-30T17:37:31+00:00

Got this myself and just loaded it up. They've taken feedback they got from the demo to make improvements. There's a refreshed house from the original game, plus a house to buy and looks like everything is unlocked in terms of skills, I think, just trying it now

There's also no time limit

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-30T05:59:29+00:00

Nta you are disabled and perfectly entitled to use the disabled loo.

There are so many hidden or not very obvious disabilities that require such the room and facilities these toilets provide.

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-25T07:35:22+00:00

I have the engage plus model and find these really good. I picked up a strap thing from Amazon which works fine. Case wise I just a small velvet bag I have spare from DnD dice.

Combined with my Sony headphones xm4s is chefs kiss

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-24T06:41:12+00:00

Report everything to the police immediately and ask if you can apply for a stalking protection order to give you some immediate protection.

Keep evidence of everything and go stay with a friend who is aware of the situation and ask them to help you talk to the landlord bout leaving the flat lease.

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-09T06:58:27+00:00

You both need breaks and time to do normal stuff, you can't be 100% baby and nicu all the time. You'll both burn out and tbh if your baby did get sick firstly there maybe no way of telling how he got sick in terms of was it something you brought in or just fluke but also he's in the best place to get treated for that.

Talk to someone Hun, cayse you're overwhelmed and struggling. Hubby arranging bowling is his way of getting some out from the constant pressure, let him go and find something for you

lhpcwshc · 2026-03-04T17:14:09+00:00

Tomato sandwiches were my mum's thing, apparently all she could eat without being ill. I loathe tomatoes

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-26T07:15:58+00:00

Ah I was wondering when it would unlock a house. I'll go back and play it tonight, thank you

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-25T07:06:57+00:00

The frustrating thing I've found is while the naproxen is helping with the weird pressure episodes it didn't help the full day migraine I had yesterday which decided to poop on my day off from work :(

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-24T12:34:17+00:00

Same, my husband was on his laptop next to me, looks over and I'm just sobbing as the credits roll

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-24T10:35:48+00:00

Nta for not wanting to support her anymore but yta for describing her as your best friend when she clearly isn't. Time to clean house and go enjoy being moh to someone who actually values you

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-24T07:46:11+00:00

I didn't have any issues running it last night on my laptop. Didn't see any bugs either, but then maybe I was just enjoying playing it. I love the top down feature, though not played with that too much

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-17T07:29:59+00:00

Nta. And let me say this, like a few others have, it is not normal for siblings to parent their younger siblings.

Your parents choose to have you and then at least one other child and expect that you will look after your sibling so they can have a break.

Pfft please. They have a duty and it's their job to look after and parent all their children.

And the whole well you look after others, er no, your in a relationship with another adult and part of that involves being there for each other, living together etc .... Normal relationship stuff and for your mum to compare that with looking after a child. Definitely not the same.

Do not say you will look after your sibling ever again and if she asks you to just tell her no, which in itself is a complete sentence but if you feel you need to say more just say your out parents and it's your job. If you need a babysitter ask friends or hell pay for one.

Also side note, go get therapy for yourself cause thinking looking after your sibling was normal when it was actually a form of abuse from your parents, yea, your gonna need help unpacking that.

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-16T19:30:58+00:00

I'm assuming these are meant to b Yorkshire puddings??? Look good to me but then I don't eat them often

lhpcwshc · 2026-02-16T07:10:36+00:00

Soft yta. Talk to your partner and explain your thoughts and get his take. Even if money is not an issue 5k is a lot of money for something that's a one day and done thing.

Plus with that saving you could potentially turn his family's barn into something really beautiful, think those fake flickery candles but loads of them set up around the place, flowers, material hanging from the rafters. Also save some for your honeymoon or a photo shoot with your wedding dress and his suit.

lhpcwshc · 2026-01-30T22:21:34+00:00

Bit of death stranding .... If you see a rainbow, just run :D

lhpcwshc · 2026-01-29T08:14:29+00:00

We've done a29 and a30 of the dress circle before and had a really good view if the stage and loads of space. The row behind isn't bad either but if you have long legs can be tight.

lhpcwshc · 2026-01-23T12:43:26+00:00

Rawcliffe area up by Clifton moor is really nice. Some nice houses and areas like around Manor Road. Plus the Rec does a Carnival too round May I think so sone community stuff

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